Luckey,
You have said some very hurtfull things to people, including my husband and I. It would be sooo much better if you could think before you go writing about subjects you are not personaly involved in, like adoption! You seem like a very smart person, I'm sure you are even very nice.... But you have to realise, the members at the adoption crowd are already hurting, deeply........With some of the things you say, it is like pouring salt into open sores. I'm praying that is not intentional on your part! PLEASE, just be careful with the things you write on subjects you are not involved personaly in.
I'm done fighting with you, it is NOT good for anyone. You have your opinion about us adoptive parents, you have tried to make us all feel like dirt, for trying to connect with potential birth parents on line. Please, just think about all the babies that find GREAT homes because of the internet, My Son, Collin, is one of them!
I'm sorry for calling you a pimple, It was very rude of me!
Jody. ↓
|
|
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 7th, 2006 6:39 PM |
Jody,
I suggest you read our old posts from the beginning, starting with the very first one. I did not come on here to start trouble. I came on here to warn against the dangers of using an unmonitored chat room in an adoption forum. I can tell you that my warning was taken as though I was placing a road block in front of everyone's adoption journey. Other people have posted similar warnings in the other forums on babycrowd and received very appreciative replies. In fact, I copied and pasted one warning from another forum and everyone here reacted very negatively, while in the other forum it was no cause for a fight. I still believe that this forum is very dangerous when used as a means for arranging adoptions. Does that mean I think all adoption internet sites are bad--no. However, I believe this forum is cause for concern. Most anyone who would take the time to read the posts here would probably agree.
No, I have never dealt with an adoption in any circumstance. However, I get concerned when I read posts on this forum that speak of children as if they are a commodity. I honestly believe that children are the most unprotected citizen in our society. So that is where my conviction comes from for all of you who have wondered. I see this discussion from a completely different angle. ↑ |
| Name: codyjody | Date: Nov 7th, 2006 7:05 PM |
| So much for a simple Sorry??!..... ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 7th, 2006 7:11 PM |
| Have you read the posts from the very beginning. ↑ |
| Name: codyjody | Date: Nov 7th, 2006 7:35 PM |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 7th, 2006 7:41 PM |
| I meant what I said. I am not sorry. ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 7th, 2006 7:44 PM |
| My warning on this site was posted because I think it is very irresponsible for people to use this unmonitored site as a place to find or give away a child. I also think it is very dangerous to try and act as a counselor for young women who are facing an unplanned pregnancy unless you have credentials. ↑ |
| Name: Carolyn | Date: Nov 7th, 2006 8:22 PM |
Luckey,
We will continue to search online, this forum included, regardless of what you say.
----------------------------------------
-------------------------------------------
Jod
y
sweetie,
Don't waste your time, Luckey is a brick wall and not worth it. ↑ |
| Name: codyjody | Date: Nov 7th, 2006 8:51 PM |
You are right Carolyn, I tried.....I felt bad about calling her names and others calling her the "big bad B word"......Not anymore, she just proved she is not a very kind person after all.
Momof1, I hope you are doing OK. I know how hard it is to be pushed into a corner....Just wanted you to know, I'm thinking about you! ↑ |
|
|
