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Name: sentfromabove4u2luv
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absolutely sure of my decision, absolutely lost on where, what, when, and how to start. 20 wks along, 37yo caucasian healthy. mother of daughters 19-17. (out of state with father)divorced 2 yrs, broke, virtually homeless, need advice asap. getting desperate, depressed, and delerious. ↓
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| Name: rickysmom | Date: Aug 10th, 2008 7:23 PM |
| I would first take a moment and regroup. What are your local resources? Their are women's homes for pregnant women if you needed a place for the night their are shelters. You should look for a job immediatly in the mean time you can apply for government help like food stamps and/of TANF depending on your state you could get some free money to help you out while you find a job also go to the WIC office they can also get you some food and will also be able to find resouces for you that is your best bet if you are pregnant. I know we all need someone to lead on if you need an ear you can email me at [email protected]. ↑ |
| Name: rickysmom | Date: Aug 10th, 2008 7:35 PM |
| I'm sorry on the adoption side you should consider if you want a open or closed adoption and then search for your adoptive parents. We are looking for a boy to adopt if you are interested or still just need someone to listening to you I'm still available at [email protected]. ↑ |
| Name: ramnds | Date: Aug 11th, 2008 2:48 AM |
| We would love to talk with you! You can email us at [email protected] or you can call us at 866-322-1113... you have a lot to think about, so please call when you are able.. ↑ |
| Name: BRENDA N RICHIE | Date: Aug 11th, 2008 2:53 AM |
I'm sorry for everything you are going through, right now. Where are you from as the county where you live have offices where you can go and apply for help. You have to take care of yourself as well as the baby. I'm always around so if you need to talk I'm always checking my email [email protected]
We are also looking to adopt and are homestudy approved. ↑ |
| Name: seattlesamantha | Date: Aug 11th, 2008 3:59 AM |
Hi there! I am sorry you are feeling so stressed out, just know that there are millions of adoptive mothers out there praying for you right now, myself included. I would love to talk to you about your unborn child. My husband and I adopted a little girl a year and a half ago, the birthmother was also 37 and had teenage children. What a wonderful experience it was to have her, she was able to give us parenting tips because she had done it before! Our family has a blog, hopefulinwashington.blogspot.com, and are homestudy approved. We may also be able to help you with some of the things that you need right now, and our daughter's birthmother is also willing to help coach you through things - you have a lot in common! Please know that you are loved,
Samantha
hopefulinwashington@gmail
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| Name: debbiea12 | Date: Aug 11th, 2008 2:19 PM |
| Hi I am so sorry for what you are going through. If you would like someone to talk to please email me at [email protected]. My name is Deborah. God bless you ↑ |
| Name: kimmie | Date: Aug 11th, 2008 2:24 PM |
| hi i know this is hard if you need to talk email me at [email protected] i will see what help we can find for you. ↑ |
| Name: barpufa | Date: Aug 11th, 2008 3:04 PM |
| Wow! You're dealing with ALOT right now! We would love the opportunity to talk with you. Please email us at: [email protected]. Let's see how we can work together! ↑ |
| Name: Tonia | Date: Aug 11th, 2008 8:23 PM |
Sentfromubove. I am sorry you are going through all of this alone. Where are you from? I am from Indiana. I live in a small town and we have a pregnancy house here. You can apply to live in this home while you are pregnant and for up to 12 weeks I think after the baby is born. They help you get on your feet. Here is the website if you are interested. http://www.rachelshome.org/index.php If you would like to talk feel free to email me at [email protected].
Also my husband and I are wanting to add another little person to our family. If you would like to talk about it.
I will be saying a prayer for you.
Tonia ↑ |
| Name: heartlandmommy | Date: Aug 12th, 2008 1:59 PM |
Sometimes when it rains, it pours. I'm sorry you are in a difficult situation. There are lots of resources out there for pregnant women to help get you back on your feet - check your local homeless shelter or women's resources (not sure of the name in your local area). If you decide adoption is the best decision out there for you and your family, we would love to talk with you. We have one terrific adopted son and are anxious at the opportunity to adopt again. Please feel free to contact us any time at [email protected]
Blessings during your struggle... ↑ |
| Name: want2bmommy | Date: Aug 16th, 2008 2:04 AM |
| I will not repeat what everyone has said......you obviously know now to check your resources. Me and my husband cannot have children of our own, We would LOVE to talk with you. There is also potential (if your willing to possibly move) where we could help you better with assistance, if you contact us and you feel that we may be a good match for you. I don't like to disclose much on here, but please contact us and we can get better aquainted and go from there. Good luck with everything!! you can emai me at [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: wmw1971 | Date: Aug 16th, 2008 6:51 AM |
You may be able to find a woman's resource center in your area if you need temporary help with housing, etc. If you want to make an adoption plan for your unborn baby I would love to have the chance to talk to you. My husband and I are waiting to adopt, I am also 37 - my husband is 36. We have been together 17 years, and we have 2 children. We would love to find a situation for a private 'attorney' adoption - we are willing to pay necessary fee's (whatever your state would allow). Please contact us if you'd like to talk. [email protected]
Hope to hear from you ~ Wendy ↑ |
| Name: kimmie | Date: Aug 17th, 2008 3:22 AM |
| sentfromabovetu2luv, hi please email me i think i can help you we have done sometihing before that might be what you are looking [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: erika.sides | Date: Aug 17th, 2008 9:20 AM |
Ma'am, my husband and I are looking to adopt a child. We have two beautiful boys, but are unable to have the third child we have always wanted. Where are you located? Have you been to a doctor for prenatal care? Do you know the sex of the child. Is there anything that I can do to help you in your situation? I will pray for you and your family.
V/R
Erika Sides ↑ |
| Name: cathyjenna | Date: Aug 17th, 2008 5:14 PM |
| If you are absolutely sure of your decision, you should start looking at couples to adopt your baby. You sound like you are an intelligent woman. Please, though, don't get desperate or depressed. I wouldn't want you making any rash decisions on where you place your baby because of desperation. You have plenty of time to research. We did an adoption 2 years ago. Of course, we would love to adopt again, but even if you just want to talk this out, please give me a call toll free at 1-866-457-0859 or e-mail me at [email protected]. I would be more than happy to answer any questions you have or guide you to the correct resources. Good luck. Respectfully, Cathy ↑ |
| Name: ashlorene | Date: Aug 25th, 2008 5:00 AM |
Ok if u are so serious about this my fiance adn i would love to adopt your baby we have been dating for 4 yrs now and been engaged for 2 we have held of a wedding exspences for adopting a baby cause i can not carry a baby full term we have been through 3 very awful miscarriges! and i understand what u have to do and its better then what most people do! We would love your baby and help pay for your exspenses as needed! such as new clothes as u gain your baby wieght grocries u made need and maybe even a place to stay if u do not have one !
please only if u are serious
Ashley and Daniel
my email
[email protected] = ↑ |
| Name: Wanting 2 Adopt | Date: Aug 28th, 2008 10:26 PM |
Please feel free to email me anytime if you need to talk.
Sincerely,
[email protected] ↑ |
| Name: mich | Date: Aug 30th, 2008 4:22 AM |
| Name: Julee | Date: Apr 8th, 2009 3:46 AM |
| I am so sorry for your situation if you need to talk please email [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: georgiadogs | Date: Apr 8th, 2009 12:46 PM |
it sounds like you have a lot to think about and you should take your time doing so since you still have 4 1/2 m onths before your baby arrives. i am not sure where you live but i know there are pregnancy crisis centers all over. if you are considering adoption, please visit our webpage at www.georgiadogs.homestead.com
best of luck to you with your difficult decisions and definately try to find an unbiased person to talk with.
sincerely,
rachel ↑ |
| Name: christa964 | Date: Apr 8th, 2009 2:13 PM |
Contacting an adoption agency would be a good start. They can help you choose the right family for your baby. The one I can reccommend is LDS Family Serives (www.itsaboutlove.org 1-800537-2229), my husband and I are hoping to adopt a baby through them and they have been great so far. They offer free couseling and can help you get the financial resources you need. Best of luck to you,
Christa
happy mom to Spencer and Kaylie, hoping for another sweet spirit to join our family through the blessings of adoption
www.kevinandchristablog.blogspot.com ↑ |
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