dont really know why im on here. but nice to talk about everything and hopefully get feedback etc.
my partner and I made it public today, (wrote on fb about pregnancy). we're over the moon. nothing but congrats all round. except.. for a cousin of his..
im sure this is commen, having someone just tread on your what was a happy day and ruin it. but I cannot let things go easily.
it was implied or thought that the baby was unwanted, and I was basically told to rethink and that my partner couldve just said he was happy to not hurt my feelings! im outraged, my other half and I are over the moon, and although he did tell his mum the news on a bad day, and there couldve been some sort of backlash because of problems with others lives, I find it horrible and disgusting that something would be taken out on us.
and we put of getting our house until this yr because of me waiting for a certain full time job. so baby was unplanned.
another thing, is im rather short (even though I realise midgets can give birth just fine) im still worried, I cant take pain well either, and get sick alot, I think I may have a cold.
if anyone can relate with the first half of my story and give me info on how they took their pregnancy etc it will be appreiciated!
thankyou ↓
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