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Nine years ago I found myself marrying my high school sweetheart (15 years after graduation). We have a blended family of seven with four of those being teenage girls (his two are twins-13). I have had problems for many years with his ex wife keeping the girls from us and stirring up conflict every chance she gets. Recently, one of the twins has decided she no longer wants to come for her visitation, and one of them would move here (if her mother hadn't filled her head with courtroom nightmares). This weekend is their brothers birthday, and the ex has now said that neither of them will be coming to see us (tho it is OUR weekend). My husband has allowed this for way too long, letting his ex call the shots and make the rules. I consider these girls to be my own, and am about to go crazy in this situation. I feel as I can no longer talk tohim about my feelings, for it always somehow becomes either me trying to stir things up, or being too emotional because this is "his problem". I should not be upset, because they "aren't mine". HELP ME!!!! I cant be the only one dealing with this! ↓
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