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Name: queen_vee2 | Date: Feb 13th, 2008 1:49 PM |
Hello.. How are you feeling now? Although I dont have an autistic kid I know that everyone get stress with our everyday life. I can understand your situation. I finished a nursing degree and I know that its a very challenging life that you have. The best way is for you to accept your boy's condition with all your heart. Take everything one day at a time. Dont take it as a burden but as a challenge for you as a loving mother on how to support your son by giving him lots & lots of love & understanding. I know that he's a handful but you have to take it easy for you to be able to look after yourself & specially your son. Or maybe find someone to talk to like parents of other kids like your baby so can you can share some ideas. I dont know about your religious side, but for me if I felt that I cant control myself, I keep praying to give me peace of mind & that God will guide me always. Just remember that God loves us & He wont give us problem that we cant handle. So next time you feel stress, pause for a moment & take a deep breath, do it few times. Dont take it as a problem rather think of positive ways & always remember, that your son is the best thing that ever happen to you. "Consider it pure joy my brother/ sister whenever you face trials of many kinds because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature & complete, not lacking anything." Good luck & take care. ↑ |
Name: amarbuyan | Date: Feb 14th, 2008 3:15 AM |
Dear queen_vee2 thank you for your very kind words and for your trust in my strength and love for my son. I liked that you used the word "challenge" instead of "burden". I will try to pause before getting nervous and think about my son, not about the problem. :) ↑ |