| I felt the sam way Jill. I didn't even want my husband to do anything to mine during sex because then they felt unclean for when the baby needed to feed!! The only thing I felt was love for my son, nothing of the physical kind. ↑ |
| i actually felt exactly the same, after breastfeeding 2 babies i dont regard them as anything sexual anymore they're just they're to feed the kids!!!....i dont get aroused by them anymore and also felt funny about my husband touching them as i felt weird knowing id be feeding my son from the same breast a few hours later....i actually thought i was a bit weird too glad to know im not alone!!!! ↑ |
| i totally agree with you. but peoples hormones are different. im 5 months pregnant and i dont even let my fiance touch my breast anymore. i mean, he rubs on them but theres no way that i could let him put his mouth on my breast. he knows better to do it because i feel so weird with him trying to lick something that my baby needs. its like having sexual thoughts with your baby or something!!! its really gross and im so glad i got that point across to my fiance. at first i was worried that i would be one of them women too because this is my first child but the further i got pregnant the more real everything seemed. i mean, we still have relations but i cant even be turned on anymore by that. if he trys to do it, our relations end for the night. i think that people that masterbate while breastfeeding are so nasty and should be ashamed!!! its not a toy from the sex store, its your child! when you breastfeed, ecspecially early on after the baby is born, the baby is most likely going to fall asleep anyways...put him/her down and then go masterbate on your own, not with your child. i dont care if the baby's not old enough to know whats going on, its still sick and you women know it. ↑ |
| Hey ladies i totally agree with you. Sometimes i don't know what's wrong with people. This is my first pregnancy, i plan on breastfeeding but definetly won't be thinking of sexual arousal while doing so. ↑ |
| I'm breastfeeding our 3rd child (last baby). my only concern is nourishing and enjoying her every move. Any parent who can have sexually thoughts while breastfeedings doesn't deserve to have children. Mothers who have these thoughts sholud seek help before the situation gets out of hand....it's not normal or okay. Get help. ↑ |
| Hopefully at some point you ladies can begin to seperate the distinct uses of your breast in your minds. This is new for first timers like myself but, in order to seperate the use for your baby from the pleasure experienced with ypur man begins in your mind. You have the control, don't deprive your man or yourself of this. ↑ |
| YOU ARE SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO CRAZY GO GET SOME M HELP AND STOP DOING THAT TO YOUR SON ↑ |
