| Name: unimous | Date: Apr 22nd, 2006 5:12 PM |
look ashlley you do not want a baby when ur 13 ur still in school like 8th grade you should wait till ur 18 please take advice from me i had my baby when i was 13 almost 14 and i had 2 quit school ! i dont want that 2 happen 2 u im 15 now my baby is about 1 year it is so hard for me . we have no money cuz i cant get a job im olny 15 and i runied my career i was going to be a laywer but now im a mom . i mean its so great to have a kid but i got so streased and i needed my kid now. You do not need to be thinking about sex at the age of 12 you can get verry sick from having sex at a young age trust me on this 1 .
im 1 month pregant agan and im 15 u dont wanna be like me .
please trust me my life is a reck i would wait till ur in 12 grade like 18 years of age . you should not have a baby in 7th grade.
sometimes teens have sex for fun but not when ur 12 . i mean get real ever heard of condoms . i mean you cant get a job and take care of ur kid ur 12 and they cut u open to get the baby out it kills . u'll freak if u are goanna have a baby at 1 2 almost 13 . ur bf is not old enouf 2 see it when ur hvaing the baby and i "RPEAT DO NOT HAVE SEX" ↑ |
| Name: sam r8 | Date: Apr 23rd, 2006 2:27 AM |
| if your finachal state is good enogh you could mabe adoped i don't know the requirments are but you should not have a baby born to you becase ther are a lot of dangers to you and the baby if you do. ↑ |
| Name: Em | Date: Apr 28th, 2006 7:05 AM |
| Ashlley, your probably sick of everyone telling you that you are too young for a baby. But please take their advice, you may not see it now but believe me one day you will. At 13 you need to enjoy life, not to be committed to being a mum at this age, if your mum is close to you tell her how your feeling right now, she may be able to help you deal with this. I remember at 13 your emotions and hormones are running crazy and can confuse you so much. the best thing to do is wait until you are much older for a commitment such as this. ↑ |
| Name: Mala | Date: Apr 28th, 2006 7:49 PM |
| U will regret for what u do now cz u are to young to even think abt sex and having a baby.....its time to play ...sports....become some one in life complete ur college and then think of marrying and having kids....Ur body is not mature enought to have a baby ......give ur self time .....Do not hurry ↑ |
| Name: Em | Date: Apr 29th, 2006 5:14 AM |
| Stephane only want's you to copy her. Ashlley think of the real reasons you want a baby now, is it because your not getting enough love from your family? Ashlley you need to also think of what all your family would think of you as a person. your mum may become ashamed, unhappy and not proud of you, what about your aunts and uncles. Be a good example to others and hold off. ↑ |
| Name: Jamie | Date: Apr 30th, 2006 12:25 AM |
| 12... you probably just got breasts. Is your mommy going to take your baby for checkups? Believe me your bf might think it's a great idea now because he wants to have sex with you. Once he gets his driver's permit & friends & turns 18 he's out of here & you'll be left with a child. Then, when you get to 18 & want to go to college because all your friends are - chances are, you won't because you have a 5 year old who has to start school and needs new shoes, clothes, and school supplies. There are many reasons why 13 year olds should NOT have children. I have listed a few - if you need more I can give you more. ↑ |
| Name: julie | Date: Apr 30th, 2006 11:18 AM |
| well first off girl your b/f will get in serious trouble if u do fall pregnant coz ur not old enough yet i wld say wait till ur 16 but even then thts still to soon give it time enjoy ur life a child isnt sumfin u hav just to put it in cool clothes sit down and think about wot ur doin seriously it aint all about puttin it in nice clothes dnt 4 get about the sleepness nights i mean im 19 and expectin my first child in just 5 weeks and it cost a bloody fortune i mean ive spent 1400pounds on her so far and still got a few more bits to get my mum brought the cot and my partners parents r buyin the pushchair. dont b silly love enjoy ur life xx email me at [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: stighuk | Date: May 1st, 2006 11:49 AM |
| i am stighuk and my name is luke hebblethwaite and i dont want anybody nicking my music making name i can take you to court i have the proper authority!!! so i dont want to see anyone using my name!!! for more info on me go to www.stighuk.tk. and my answer to thism queston is it is up to you. remember i own copywhight laws i dont want any body steelind my name!!! ↑ |
| Name: iesha | Date: May 3rd, 2006 12:56 AM |
| hey ashlley my name is iesha and am 16 years old and i have an 8 month old baby girl let me tell you babys are precious and cute but hard to support i live with the babys father whom is 19 years old and her works as a painter and he makes $560.00 a week and is still not enough to support our baby and i didnt even get to finish high school am telling from exprience it is not easy at least wait to ya both finish high school and get good jobs that way you can buy your child any thing she wants and need remember baby stuff is expensive as hell and everday they need more and more. ↑ |
| Name: selina | Date: May 3rd, 2006 5:50 AM |
| hi ashley i think that its a love issue and u should wait until you are inlove and married. Your barely even in high school. You need to think about the pros and cons. How r u going to take care of this baby and what about your dreams for the future? there all down the drain...u just need to really think ↑ |
| Name: aleisha russell | Date: May 5th, 2006 7:42 PM |
| hi ashlley im aleisha i have a bf that is also 16 and me and him wan't a baby to but im only 13 and im turnin 14 in seven months so ashlley plz plz wait till your 16 k just sayin not askin k from aleisha russell ↑ |
| Name: Lynne n | Date: May 6th, 2006 3:39 PM |
What can i say but no no no no no no no no no no nnnnnnnnnooooooooo YOU ARE STILL A CHILD AND YOU HAVE GOT PLENTY OF TIME FOR THAT YOU SHOULD BE GOING TO SCHOOL AND DOING EXAMS THEN GOING TO COLLAGE AND THEN GETTING A JOB AND BEING A A PERSON IN YOUR OWN RIGHT.GO UOT HAVE SOME FUN AND LITTLE FIRST PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| Name: clem | Date: May 8th, 2006 8:35 PM |
| trust me wait i knw hw u feel it happened to me but the baby died ↑ |
| Name: fat gurl | Date: May 9th, 2006 12:06 PM |
| To ashley. Gurl you need to really look at yo self in the mirror and say what the hell am i thinking. you are only 13 an talking about having a damn baby. You need to have some serious talk to somebody. Get up hea gurl as a matter of fact ima talk 2 you. Think about school first if you still in it. you got your whole life ahead of you, you still a baby. what you need to do is get yo life on the right track either you smoking sumthing or you just not all there in the head. think lil girl be4 you do something you gon regret. ↑ |
| Name: To Ashley | Date: May 9th, 2006 9:11 PM |
Hi I'm jessica (sweety girl) b. Please don't have baby cuz you are too waaaaaaay young to have baby at 13 age. When I was 14 yrs I used wanted to have baby but I didn't have job or money for baby if I was planing to have baby when I was 14 yrs old but I'm now 16, going 2 be 17 soon. I rather ti wait loooonger! I want to finish high school, go to college then go the real world then I want to become owner of an resturant for all deaf and hard of hearings. Then have children at 30 age.
Ashely, my best friend ashely got pregant at 15 and had baby at 16, guess what she said? She said it's hard to take care of baby when she at 16 yrs but ofc she's happy with her daughter libby but still it's rly hard than you think it is. Ooh yea your mom will be more than flip out! Please don't have sex or you will regret for forever and I do regret for have sex in first place which I was suppoed to not have sex at so young age. Ashely, ur bf will leave you and u will have harder life to take care of ur baby if that happen to u.
Make a right choice.....or good luck! ↑ |
| Name: To everyone | Date: May 9th, 2006 9:16 PM |
| This is jessica (sweety girl) b. If you need someone to talk to or whatever you can contact me. E-mail me at [email protected], or aol sn nicejessic or yahoo blackgirljb100 ↑ |
| Name: Myisha | Date: May 11th, 2006 4:12 PM |
| Nether wait you will be happy you did when you get older my anut had her baby when she was 16 and she wishes she would have waited!! O yeah and make sure your 16 year old bf is the right 1 ↑ |
| Name: sally | Date: May 12th, 2006 10:12 PM |
r u crazy or something?? u r a kid !! and ur bf is a child !!
u will regret that if u did it now,give urself a chance,life is infront of you,you will meet a lot of guys in ur life,wait until u be a woman cause you still not!! ↑ |
| Name: princess | Date: May 13th, 2006 6:14 AM |
| um not a goods idea im the same age as u and love babys but wouldn't dream of having 1 u should think this over don't have a baby u can't look after it u'll be at skool. it is also to much pain to go threw. i mean birth and contractions don't do it plz wait till ur oldert. ↑ |
| Name: keisha | Date: May 13th, 2006 9:58 PM |
| ashley, u have plenty of time, i am a 25yrs old and a new parent of a 2wks old boy i have a very surportive partner but it is alot of work sleepness days and nights and it is a very big expense but most of all i miss my alone time//a nd although i've had plenty of time i miss hanging out with my friends//however at this age it is worth it but at your age i believe it is to much responsiblilty// please live your life first ↑ |
| Name: HAHAHA PMSL | Date: May 15th, 2006 10:08 AM |
| whats this to do with breastfeeding? ↑ |
| Name: Areva | Date: May 21st, 2006 2:05 AM |
| Yes girl you should do what you want to do.It doesn't matter how old you are to be pregnant.If you want to have a little fun with your boyfriend then go right ahead.I'm on your side! ↑ |
| Name: JRC | Date: May 31st, 2006 1:37 AM |
Ashlley, I understand where you are coming from, as when I was your age, I desprately wanted a baby also! I have actually been wanting a child for over 10 years, I am 19 now, and I do have to say I am glad I had waited this long, I plan to concieve this year. I am not saying to go do it, as your body may NOT be matured, but I am not saying not to do it, because there has been teens able to do this.
I would warn you though, I had an aunt... she had a child at 13, her father put i up for adoption (because he COULD), and she didn't see her child until he was 21.
This meaning, since you are not 17(or 16 in some cases) you may not have full authority to make choises for your child, your parents would, and more than likely, they would raise it like it was theirs (meaning more your sibling) or place it up for adoption where you may not see it again. I am not saying that this would happen, but it is likely.
A baby isn't easy, have you read any books about things? Have you thought about breastfeeding? How about this:
Did you know you'll have to get checked up (at least once a month) through the whole nine months, and you will be mostly undressed during this time. Are you ready for that? ↑ |
| Name: Joy | Date: May 31st, 2006 4:50 PM |
| Ashlley, please wait to have a baby!! Trust me as you get older, your desires will change!! The guy that I thought was right for me at 13 isn't the guy that is right for me at 25. And it's good to be in a stable relationship, marriage, when you have a child. At 13, you're too young to provide that stability to a child. A child needs a parent with more than just a desire to have a baby. They need a parent who can provide for them emotionally, physically and financially. At 13, you still need your parents' guidance yourself. I would say PLEASE wait. Having a baby at 24 really changed my life. I'm grown, married, college graduate with a job, etc. but it'll change your life. Please wait and enjoy your teen years. They are so fun! As you get older, you will be grown soon and be able to go wherever you want and travel, etc. there is so much more to life than having a baby. Enjoy your youth before becoming a mommy! Please do that! Your BF needs to wait too!! Do yourselves a favor and wait on children. Waiting on sex isn't a bad idea either! I did! And now my BF is my husband who is in love with me! We waited for sex til marriage. Then waited to have a baby for 2 years! Honey, all of those good things could be in your future, don't rush your life. It's too enjoyable. Enjoy every moment without fastforwarding it to the next step!! ↑ |
| Name: SpiritMom | Date: Jun 9th, 2006 4:02 AM |
| Hun, you are way tooo young to even be thinking about having a baby - much less having sex. Are you two having sex? Does your mom know? Babies are such a responsibility and you will never be able to grow up and experience all the things life has to offer a girl of your age and teenagers if you have a baby now. You should really think about this decision and seek some advice. If you don't feel comfortable speaking with your mom, please talk to someone else or perhaps a school counselor. I got pregnant my senior year in high school. Even at 18 I don't think I was ready for a baby. I had to miss out on so much that my friends were doing. Please think about this - I beg you! ↑ |
| Name: sarah | Date: Jun 12th, 2006 5:46 PM |
| why is it every teenage girl wants a baby these days???? i swear they think its an accessory (ie a new handbag). im 21 and expecting my first baby, im finding it hard and i am only 15 weeks coz i cant do the things i used to and thats going out going to pubs and clubs and drinking till the early hours in the morning! so if i was you i would carry on with your skool work and keep your head down and do all your exams and get a decent job. ↑ |
| Name: Tamekia KIlkenny | Date: Jun 13th, 2006 4:05 AM |
| hi my name is tamekia.. i think you should wait awhile befor you have a baby take it from me, i am only 18 and i have a 4 month old daughter.. it is really hard work and your body has to be ready for a baby and at such a young age i dont think you are, i can see why your mum would flip.... befor you have a baby sweet heart go to a day care center and spend some time with the kids there and see how you feel after that ok you should wait till your a little older it is really hard... sleepless nights, when you are pregnat you have to stop things that you use to do, you cant drink smoke, all of those things, and giving birth is very hard the pain is omg bad and i dont think your body will handel it... please wait ↑ |
| Name: cinderella_girl_101 | Date: Jun 19th, 2006 10:50 PM |
| no girl dont do it wait until ur way older im not trying to preach to u i just dont think its right. ↑ |
| Name: lbarnwell | Date: Jun 20th, 2006 2:03 AM |
| You need to wait until you are married and know that your spouse will be there to support you. What happens if you get pregnant and have the baby and your boyfriend freaks out and leaves? Who will help you raise the baby then? ↑ |
| Name: EthansMom0213 | Date: Jun 26th, 2006 12:33 AM |
Please wait to have a baby. I was 26 when I had my first and it's not easy. Although it may look easy when watching people with their babies it really isn't. And your boyfriend might say he too wants a baby but what happens once the baby is here. Are you prepared to raise this baby by yourself if he decide that he really didn't want the baby after all. Have you thought about how your going to support this baby with and without your boyfriend? Being that your 13 chance are the financial responsability would end up on your mother which in my opinion is kind of unfair. Did you think about how you plan on finishing school during your pregnancy as well as when the baby is born? Babies don't sleep through the night right away.
Really sit down and think about this. This is something that will change your life forever. You may not ruin your life by having a baby but you'll definately make it so that you'll have to work twice as hard to accomplish anything. PLEASE WAIT. ↑ |
| Name: ranger 2 | Date: Jun 27th, 2006 5:07 AM |
| No Ashlley you are far to young to go and have a baby. Enjoy your life and get a good education b4 having chn.I agree with Christina do baby sitting first. Raising a child is hard work.I am 31 & have just had my first. ↑ |
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