| I'm so sorry its no telling what goes through a mans head I just dont understand one min everything is fine and the next they are gone I've been though this my ex called me from work and told me not to pick him up because his moms coming to get him that hes leaving ok I had a3 year old there anda 1 year old and everything was fine that morning but I wouldnt worry about it because remember its not your fault maybe he couldnt handle being a father again and my opoion is the child needs their mother first and your make it though if I did so can you just hold your head up high and move on (easier said then done I know but life dont give you more then you can handle remember that and you kids need you more then anything and I'm here if you need to talk hope I help if any take care and live for your kids now they need a mother they need you ↑ |
| Wow, so sorry to hear this. Has he made any contact with the children? I wouldn't be show willing to take him back, either. He chose to leave you in a time of need and this is how he treats you? Perhaps he's going through a change of life? Was he excited when you both found out you were pregnant? What was his behavior like? Perhaps he acted like everything was fine and dandy but did he act kind of funny? Was there something different you noticed in him that you hadn't seen before? Maybe he's battling some kind of depression and with you being pregnant, maybe he doesn't know how to handle it? I'm sorry, several things I would want to know from him is rushing through my head. I can't really say if I would forget about him but I would want to know what or when did things go wrong. For now, all you can do is stay healthy and enjoy your pregnancy. Do you have family member you can rely on for help? This is a shame, not only to you but to your unborn child as well. It obvious, he's not thinking clearly for him to walk out like he did. Yet, I would want to know why? Perhaps, you can still try calling around to find out if someone has seen him lately. Or, do you know what his hours at work are and show up there to confront him? I would because I would want to know if he's planning on coming back to share in your joy. If not, then I would think about cutting him loose. I'm sure that hurts and you wouldn't want to do something that drastic. I'm really sorry and I do hope things will get better or he'll show up and apologize to you. ↑ |
| You need to file abandonment on him thru the courts. He has left you and the 10 yr old without any contact and you have witnesses that has seen him so he is not missing. Time to take action. Do you work? Is he the only financial means to the family? Why would you consider taking him back after he abandons you and his child, re-think things dear. ↑ |
