Life is so unfair. I just lost one of my closest friends this weekend. My husband and I have been friends with this friend for 30 years. He was a great friend to us.
We are not sure what really happened, but Saturday he was headed to help his brother do some work and somehow he hit another car head-on. Both him and the other guy (witch I also knew, I worked with him when I worked @ wal-mart) was still alive after the impact, but the gas tank on the other vehicle shifted 3 feet and cause the vehicle to explode and caught the other vehicles on fire and they both burned to death.
Our friend had just got married to one of my best friends (they made the perfect couple) the where so happy because she had just found out that they where going to have there first child together. She had 2 kids from a previous marriage. He had taken her kids in and was raising them as if they where his kids.
This guy that died, his brother is my husband’s best friend, and he is taking the loss of his brother really heard because his brother was on his way to help him do some work.
My husband does not know how to help him. My husband feels like his hands are tide. He wants to help but does not know how to help. I see my husband and his friend’s wife struggling to help him through it but it seems it only gets worse. How do we help him with this this loss? ↓
|
