My husband and I have been together for going on 9 years. We where boyfriend and girlfriend in school but my parents broke us up because they found out that he took my virginity. A few weeks later my parents took me and we moved away, and we never got a chance to say, “bye” to each other. He was everything to me back then. He was my first love, sex, and heartbreak. He defended and protected me from everything. When I was with him I was truly cherished.
12 years past, and we didn’t see each other or even know how to contact each other. I found out later that he came to my town I moved to and tried to look me up but with no luck. He married and had 2 kids and I married and had 2 kids. Then we both divorced our spouses around the same time.
Then I got in contact with a mutual friend of his and mine and the friend contacted him and he contacted me and we have been inseparable every since.
I have never loved someone this much. I love him so much I think I am driving him away. I want to be around him at all times, and every day it gets stronger. I never wanted that with my ex husband. In fact I didn’t want to be around very much at all when we where married. How do I back off just enough and love him from afar to give him some breathing room? ? ↓
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| Name: Mary | Date: Feb 6th, 2008 3:05 AM |
| Brenda is Julian Henley married? I know he have...but married eh? Brenda you are a shame to women. Learn to love and apprecaite and leave Mr. Henley others man as well alone. ↑ |
| Name: briseis | Date: Feb 6th, 2008 12:36 PM |
| Well ... I think this is the honeymoon period of your relationship, falling in love again, the excitement, it's sheer joy and in time that novelty and excitement fades a little, you won't want to be around him just as much as you did. It won't be you love him any less, but every relationship is like this at the start ... first year or so is usually the best ... Enjyoy it! But if you feel it's crowding him too much then by all means, try to give him at least one evening a week to himself, let him go do his own thing. You'll find you appreciate him even more when you allow this. ↑ |
| Name: LOL | Date: Feb 6th, 2008 3:28 PM |
| Name: maryjane4175 | Date: Feb 6th, 2008 4:12 PM |
Mary Who in the world is Brenda & Julian? You make no sense! Completely unrelated to my question.
Thank you briseis for your advice, it was very helpful. At lest you did name call like a child would do.
LOL you are completely tasteless! Please if you have name calling to do; go somewhere else and do it. ↑ |
| Name: LOL | Date: Feb 6th, 2008 4:19 PM |
| I hit the nail on the head eh? Welcome to the www MaryJane...LOL! ↑ |
| Name: LOLI | Date: Feb 6th, 2008 4:21 PM |
| I know who you are and I will let him read this when he comes over later. LOL! ↑ |
| Name: maryjane4175 | Date: Feb 6th, 2008 4:27 PM |
| Oops, sorry briseis, please let me retype that statement. I miss typed. I meant "at lest you did not do any childish name calling like LOL. ↑ |
| Name: briseis | Date: Feb 6th, 2008 4:43 PM |
| MaryJane LOL mean well and is aware of the stories so don't worry. ↑ |
| Name: maryjane4175 | Date: Feb 6th, 2008 4:58 PM |
| LOL, The people in the chat room have real problems and is seeking real advice from people how act there age. It sounds like to me you are too childish to appreciate good advice. It also sounds like you make problems for yourself and then because your unhappy you are mean to other people to make yourself feel better, but if these childish games make go feel better go right ahead, but just so you know, it will be wasted because It will not bother me. I hope you have a happy life anyways. ↑ |
| Name: Julian | Date: Feb 6th, 2008 5:00 PM |
| 10 reasons not to sleep with me. ↑ |
| Name: maryjane4175 | Date: Feb 6th, 2008 5:51 PM |
| I would like to here a guy's point of view if there is any guys out there. ↑ |
| Name: Guys | Date: Feb 6th, 2008 7:30 PM |
| I agree with LOL you all may have real stories but the sad thing is, you all created it by unfaithful and engaging in cheating acts. If you really want advice why not contact the mant talk shows outhere like Dr. Phil, Maury, Jerry Springer, etc? In fact, Springer would be a better show for you. I will contact them on your behalf and have LOL be there as well to tell the real story Maryjane - so stop playing innocent. ↑ |
| Name: Men point of view | Date: Feb 6th, 2008 7:33 PM |
| You are a ....so get your life right. ↑ |
| Name: maryjane4175 | Date: Feb 6th, 2008 8:02 PM |
| Guys, I have never cheated on ether one of my husbands even the one I didn’t like. I was the one that was cheated on by my ex. So stop judging me when you don't have a clue as to what your talking about, and open your eyes and realize your not perfect eather. ↑ |
| Name: maryjane4175 | Date: Feb 6th, 2008 8:06 PM |
| Just because I am so in love with the man of my dreams that I can't keep my hands off of him does not mean you guys have to be so jealous. One day you will find it too as long as you all stop acting like little kids. Never give up. ↑ |
| Name: maryjane4175 | Date: Feb 6th, 2008 8:12 PM |
| By the way I know what you guys are all thinking. NO, just because my name is Mary Jane doesn't mean I am a stoner, and my parents are not stoners either, I was named after my grandmother, who is now my guardian angel. ↑ |
| Name: maryjane4175 | Date: Feb 6th, 2008 8:48 PM |
LOL, Mary, & Guys
After I read my initial question, I understand why you guys where saying all those horrible things about me, it sounds like I was cheating on my husband with the mutual friend but that is not the case. I love my husband so much; I could never destroy what we have by cheating with another man. The Mutual friend is just the one who put us in contact with each other after all those years. The mutual friend does not even come around anymore, because he is always gone working. So please forgive me, I misspoke.
I just wanted to know if I was being too clingy, or if it guys like it when their wife still finds them irresistible after 9 years of marriage. ↑ |
| Name: Shirley | Date: Feb 7th, 2008 12:41 AM |
| Really Maryjane. Have you seen the movie by Tyler Perry "why did I get married"? Perhaps you should rent it. ↑ |
| Name: maryjane4175 | Date: Feb 7th, 2008 2:37 PM |
| Why should I rent this movie, because I'm a sucker for a good love story? We both like to watch them together. Our favorite is Ever After with Drew Berrymore. ↑ |
| Name: Really | Date: Feb 8th, 2008 1:19 AM |
| B'cause you are on crack or something else. ↑ |
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