| Ok....let me refraise that, it's ok for her to invite them but it is ok for them to go to the birthday party if we are doing are own thing? ↑ |
| if the kid is part of their family then yes if you get an invite form some one then it is ok to come ↑ |
| I think they should be invited, along with you, your husband and any children you guys have. If your making plans, maybe you could do it a different day so the child could enjoy their entire family. ↑ |
| I mean, at your party also. ↑ |
| Thank you so much for replying. When I look at it that way I feel better, it's just sometimes I drive myself crazy and him as well thinking of different stuff. We can not go because we work late but the grandmother is going, and I was just thinking in my head again "if we aren't going why should she" but I have to let it go. I love him as well as he loves me and I love those kids as if they were mine so I know I have to relaz other wise I can put our own relationship in harms way. ↑ |
| No, but I think its all a show. I had to attend my bf birthday party and the ex's house. It was a miserable experience. ↑ |
