It is always hard when your parents break up and they move on with someone new.
But what you have to remmber is that i am sure your dad loves you and your sisters and no matter what happens he will always be there for you!
But you cant expect your dad to be alone for the rest of his life. One day you will grow up get married and have children of your own and then he will be lonely is that what you want?
I think taht you should sit down and talk to your dad and say that you dont like being woken up at 8 am as you like to lay in on the weekends.
And as for his girlfriends son you are just going to have to learn to live with that.
Trust your dad he must really like her maybe you should try to as well.
I hope that this sorts its self out one way or another! ↑ |
| If your still in school than you should know that wishing death on someone is pretty harsh!...Uhmmm I realize it's difficult for you to find good in your dads girlfriend but she will be a part of your life until your dad says other if he does.....Your dad should not be saying bad things about your mom and her family around you...its not fair to you...I would just stay with my mom if you dislike the situation that much...and if your dad wants to spend time with you then he can arrange times when his little chicky isin't there.....You dont want to see your dad lonely no...but me being a parent, I believe that your dad should speak up and tell his lady to tame her little man....I think he should meet you half way..take care girl:) ↑ |
| P.S. Children come first!!! ↑ |
| If you can, try to have a one on one conversation with your dad and tell him exactly how you feel. Be honest!! You have a voice to be heard. Tell him that you love him and you want him to be happy but you don't like how his girlfriend is treating you and your sister. Tell him you want to sleep in on the weekends and ask him to tell his girlfriend to give you your space. If you have your own room, tell him you need your privacy and would appreciate it that his girlfriend has respect for that. This way when things start bothering you, you can go into your room to relax with any interruptions especially from the maniac son. Tell him that you realize him and your mom have disagreements and that you love them both. Ask him to stop making comments about her and her family. Tell him, she is still your mom and you love her. His girlfriend has no right thinking she can come in and replace your mom. If your dad chooses not to listen to you and your sister, just like Girly29 said, tell him you don't want to visit him while his girlfriend is present or tell him you want to live with your mom. I hope this helps??? ↑ |
Your dad should be spending time alone with you. The girlfriend should do some activities with her son and your dad should be giving you some one to one attention.
Of course, telling him this and getting him to take notice may be quite difficult. Perhaps you should sit down and tell him how you feel.
Don't tolerate him badmouthing your mom either. When he starts on about her cover your ears and tell him you aren't going to listen to his childish rants. Get up and leave the room if necessary.
I'm sorry, but your dad sounds quite selfish and he may not be prepared to change. ↑ |
| I know me & my sisters all talk to him but he doesnt listen so were not speaking to him and when she comes out we like abuse her.. i poured coke on her x] ↑ |
