My story is very long but please help! I met a woman who told me everything i wanted to hear but found out before marrying her that most of it was all a lie. I tried not marrying her but she kept threatening me that she was pregnant. I thought I should do the right thing so I married her and then found out that she did not get pregnant till after we were married. I tried my best to make it work, Stupid I know but I thought it was the right thing to do. Not long I realized that the lies were too much and the deception were just tooo much fo me to accept so I filed for divorce.
That was over five years ago and It has been a complete nightmare ever since. She has worked for an attorney her whole life and apparently has some sort of relationship with him. Since day one He has paid every bit of her legal fees and she has pulled every trick in the book. It has cost me everything to get joint legal custody of my daughter and has been a total mess since day one. She is amazing at getting people to believe anything that she says and is very charming on the outside. Saying this she is a total demon in person. She is very smart and knows exactly what to say on the record as well as knows exactly what to say off. She will text for certain things but then call when she wants to say something that I could possibly use to prove my point.
She has completely put me in financial ruin and has stated to me many times that she will not stop. I have multiple bouts of severe depression dealing with all of this and have only been able to keep it together on the days that I have my daughter. She is suck and angel.
The bad part is though I just dont think I can do it anymore. The very last staw was when I went to do my taxes. We have and agreement that we are to claim our daughter every other year as well as head of household. well it was my year but mine were rejected because she already did. I think she did this because I rejected her advances. In fact I found out that she told her lawyer that we were getting back together un benonst to be. She is the most manipulating person I have every met and I just cant take it anymore. I am really considering giving up totoally. the courts are just amazing at denying me rights at all and I have just had it. She still wont divorvce me and everytime I ask she threatens to take cudstody away. I am so distrout that I am not going to see my daughter at our next scheduled time. I just am not in the right frame of mind. Meanwhile let me tell you that I have hade joint custody of my daughter and have spent ever minute of that time with her. I have never had a babysitter nor every been away from her. She is the light of my life but I just am at the end of my rope.
I just wanted to get some outside perspective so please feel free to respond but do remember I didnt have time to go into detail. It truly has been a nightmare, something I never imagine anyone would every have to go through. Thankx ↓
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