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My fiancee's ex wife hate me....not because of anything I have done but just because he is happy again and she sees that she may be losing control over him. She is remarried and has been for over 2 years...they have been divorced for 6 years. They have triplet 11 year old daughters. The girls birthday is coming up and we are all splitting a trip to Disney World between us, her and their grandparents. We have decided to have a family dinner to give them their gift so we can all enjoy the reaction(s). However, she said that since we are not married yet, that I am not part of the family and therefore should not be included. He put his foot down and said that I was going to be there as everyone else wanted me there. So I am going but I know that she is going to be putting me in some very uncomfortable situations just to make me look bad or lose it with her in from of everyone so she can say "I told you so"! How should I handle it? Turn the other cheek everytime and kill her with kindness or stand my ground so she gets that she cannot back me in a corner? I would never do anything in front of the girls....but how should I handle it if we are alone? Thanks ↓
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