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Name: Estelle Lewis
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My husband and I have been married for 6 years and he has left me about 6 times before but this time he has told me that he really means it. I am hurting so much. We have not made love for 18 months and only wants to go out with his friends, but I put it down to his mother passing away. 5 days ago he told me that he had had enough. I pushed him for a reason and he said that it was because I have put on weight and so he is no longer attracted to me. I have only put on about 2 stone since I first met him, but he is 17 stone and I am in total shock. I have tried to get him to talk to me but he won't. All I get is 'I am not coming back'. If I text him and ask him why he does not reply. He has also walked out on 5 children, 2 of which are my step-children, saying that he wants them to live with me. I just can't accept that he doesn't want me. It hurts so much. What can I do? I know he does not treat me nicely but I love him so much and just want him to come home.
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Name: JANET | Date: Feb 8th, 2008 6:11 AM
I FEEL YOUR PAIN MY HUSBAND OF 17YEARS TOLD ME HE WAS NOT HAPPY AND WE ALSO HAVE BEEN DOWN THAT ROAD IN THE PAST BUT NOT LIKE THIS TIME ... I KNEW SOMETHING WAS WRONG IN NOV AND QUESTIONED HIM ABOUT IT HE TOLD ME ON NOV 31 THE NIGHT BEFORE OUR ANNIVERSRY I WAS SHOOK BUT THOUGHT OK HE NEEDS SOME TIME HE LEFT AFTER CHRISTMAS AND IT WAS NOT TIL IN JAN I FOUND OUT HE HAD A FRIEND THAT HE HAS BEEN TALKING TO FOR 6MONTHS MY 16YOA SON TOLD ME DAD WAS TALKING TO A GIRL LATE AT NIGHT BUT THOUGHT IT HAS TO BE HIS SISTER AND MY 5YOA SON TOLD ALL I NEEDED TO KNOW BUT DIDNT WANT TO KNOW MY HUSBAND AND I WERE STILL HAVING SEX TIL JAN 28 I AM BLIND AND STILL ASK HIM TO COME HOME... WHERE DO WE GO FROM HERE ???? GOD IS MY LIGHT BECAUSE IF HE WAS NOT HOLDING THROUGH TIL THERE WOULD BE HELL TO PAY ON EARTH.... 

Name: Life | Date: Feb 8th, 2008 1:50 PM
By no means is this easy for anyone, but at the sametime, women have been doing that to men for decades so what is so wrong if guys turn the wheels today? I am one-person who believe in that one thing leads to another and their is a cause for everything in one's life. The bottom line is, either you and your husband screwed up somewhere along the way, so work on it - its not too late. 

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