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Thank you Serina! I will consider your advice. I just get so frustrated. She intnetionally does and says things to try to come between Lee and myself. She is the one who divorced him but when she found out he we with me, she first of all, sat parking in his driveway one weekend night, called his cell phone, then the home phone repeatedly and when he finally answered she was bawling, and drunk, and begging him to let her in his house. They have a 6 year old daughter together. His ex-wife is in the Air Force, so you would think she would act a little more sane! She drinks every weeknight and really pounds them down on the weekends. She has since moved on to ao new boyfriend and claims that he knows "every phone call, e-mail, conversation, and text message" but I think that is a bunch of crap because if her new boyfriend knew the things she was saying to me, I don't think he would put up with her behavior because it's totally disrepectful to not only my and Lee's relationship, but to his and her relationship as well, AND worst of all- there is a 6 year old child being used as a pawn in her game! So it's like we HAVE to allow her to say and do whatever she wants to us, and Agree with her- or else she won't let him see their child. It's just awful! I'll tell you, it made me e-mail my ex husband and just let him know that I understand whoever he may end up with in his future will be a step-mother to our 2 year old son, and that I will accept that fact, and encourage her to be like a mother to him when he is in their care, so my son will know that he is loved all around. The fact of divorce is that people do move on, often, into new realtionships. I just wish more people approached it looking at doing what is best for the kids! ↓
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