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Still have a sexual relationship? We still live together and are not planning to start the divorce until may or june due to thats when we will get our ammended taxes back. That way we will be caught up on bills and both have money to start over with. But until then if we feel the need should we, or should we hold of on that all together? I could do with out, I'm sure, but he couldn't. And he is in a better mood if he is getting some. However, he has been spending alot of time with his ex, and Im not to sure they aren't doing something. ↓
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| Name: hyj | Date: Feb 5th, 2008 4:03 AM |
| Name: LOL | Date: Feb 5th, 2008 3:47 PM |
| Girli_bird, I am not being rude or funny but what plannet are you from again? Is it earth dear? You are having a sexual relationship with your husband but want a divorce in May or June eh? LOL! Girl go get some help you are sick in your head. ↑ |
| Name: cjsims | Date: Feb 13th, 2008 11:15 AM |
| What? Of course they're doing something! Don't kid yourself. You need to be going to marriage counseling if you're going to wait that long to even "start" the process. C'mon. If you're really serious about this, at least one of you would be contacting a lawyer or something. Divorces take forever to become final. Again, I'm wondering if one or both of you doesn't want to go through with the divorce? May or June? That is a long ways away to start the process of getting away from someone you don't want to be with no more. ↑ |
| Name: What? | Date: Feb 13th, 2008 8:04 PM |
| They may not want to be married but have decided to scam the IRS before they divorce. What a way to go! Is that where our taxes are going to fund people immoral way of life? ↑ |
| Name: cjsims | Date: Feb 13th, 2008 8:33 PM |
| I'm not so sure I'd call it scamming. If they are waiting till after tax season, and then they're not starting the divorce till after they get taxes back, then no, they're not scamming anyone, cause they'd still be legally married and living together. For financial purposes, that not a scam, that is just called smart. ↑ |
| Name: What? | Date: Feb 14th, 2008 2:58 PM |
| Smart eh? Well perhaps we should have the IRS make that determination. ↑ |
| Name: cjsims | Date: Feb 15th, 2008 3:51 AM |
| They are doing nothing illegal if they are still married and living together at the time the taxes come back. Whatever happens after taxes come back is their business. What if the possiblity of a divorce didn't even come up in conversation till after taxes come back? Should they then call the IRS, and be like, "Come take some of our money back, cause we've now decided that we want a divorce." No. Don't think so. The IRS would hang up, cause they would've been legally married at the time that they got the tax money back in the first place. DUH. ↑ |
| Name: Do u? | Date: Feb 15th, 2008 8:37 PM |
| Do U scam the IRS? U seems to be an expert so big daddy will be watching U. ↑ |
| Name: cjsims | Date: Feb 16th, 2008 4:48 AM |
| I am simply stating common sense.....Grow some of your own. Everything I've said has nothing to do with scamming. That is very apparent, if you'd read more than you want to. ↑ |
| Name: cjsims | Date: Feb 16th, 2008 4:49 AM |
| I am done debating, this, cause it is obvious who is right here, and I don't feel like reading more nonsense. I won't be responding to anything else. My opinion isn't going to change and that is that. See ya. ↑ |
| Name: Do U | Date: Feb 16th, 2008 9:30 PM |
| Cjsims, I do read a lot and all your stupid posts that just are out of this world. Do some reflections.... ↑ |
| Name: cjsims | Date: Feb 17th, 2008 3:50 AM |
| Well, that is your opinion, that my posts are stupid. Sorry you feel that way. I am not going to be doing any reflections, as I thank you for your advice, but I am not going to be taking it into consideration. Jesus loves you, have a wonderful day. If you think so lowly of my posts, then when you see my name above one, then just skip it. That should solve the problem. ↑ |
| Name: Do U | Date: Feb 17th, 2008 4:38 PM |
| True cjsims and Jesus love us all but He also hates what we are doing on this site and you are sure not living by example. Lets talk about Jesus on here when folks have problems and not run to the dark side of things and....Then you would have at least accomplish something here on earth. ↑ |
| Name: girli_bird | Date: Feb 19th, 2008 12:35 AM |
| wow that was way out the park. It is so not a scam to wait until we get our taxes back.Its called being smart and civil. it wasn't as if we got married to get better taxe breaks, in fact I got more when I was a single mom. It does however make things easier to split after tax season, and i highly doubt we are the only ones ti think of that, in fact I'm sure it makes our tax person happy. Plus if we split up around may or June it will make less hassel on filling single next year. Any way my question was not on the evil of my "tax fraud" but the sex. Any commets please? Again like a said A lot of the wait has to do with money. ↑ |
| Name: cjsims | Date: Feb 19th, 2008 2:22 AM |
| no, dont be sleeping with him. Even though you are married, you are getting a divorce, and that means, in my opinion, y'all should just reside as "room mates" Meaning, seperate rooms, etc. It doesn't matter anymore if you don't do anything together anymore, unless of course you are planning on working things out, which it sounds like you're not. Be civil, and courteous, but I wouldn't go out of my way to hang out with him or anything. And especially, don't have sex with him, cause you're already thinking hes getting it on with the ex. That is just kinda nasty. Ew. ↑ |
| Name: Mary | Date: Feb 19th, 2008 8:35 PM |
| cjsims again the great adviser....Don't you have a life? ↑ |
| Name: cjsims | Date: Feb 20th, 2008 11:35 AM |
| I've never even talked to you before, so why do you say "again?" Unless you are the "Do U?" person and the "What?" person who is continuously changing their name. And at least I'm actually giving advice, you're just criticizing everyone else's. And as far as if I have a life or not, that is not even your business...You should be asking yourselt that, considering your forum name changes everytime you turn your computer on. ↑ |
| Name: cjsims | Date: Feb 20th, 2008 11:38 AM |
| And you're probably just mad, cause girlibird disagreed with you...Don't be mad, I knew she would. ↑ |
| Name: Katy | Date: Feb 20th, 2008 10:34 PM |
| Cjsims could you please get a life and stop attaching another just because they have a different viewpoint. I tend to think that you have a very serious problem and you may need help before its too late. Also you must spend sometime quality time with your husband or men instead of being on the computer and on this site - get something to do. I am tired of it! ↑ |
| Name: cjsims | Date: Feb 22nd, 2008 11:50 PM |
| Why don't you take your own advice, or just quit reading my postst? ↑ |
| Name: cjsims | Date: Feb 23rd, 2008 12:00 AM |
| I spend plenty of time with my hubby, not that it is your business. It seems like you have tons of time on your hands, considering you seem to have all different names you go by on this forum. What do you do on your dateless nights? Sit down for hours on end and make a list of names up that you can use on this forum, thinking everyone will think it is a bunch of different people? CAUSE IT ISN'T WORKING! ↑ |
| Name: cjsims | Date: Feb 23rd, 2008 12:05 AM |
| i quite frankly am not tired of you and your multiple personalities, I must say, I enjoy getting a note from you now and again. Each one of them has brought a smile to my face, and laughter to my heart...literally!! You are so ridiculous, I just laugh when I read your posts, and as I am replying to them, so keep 'em coming. It is my entertainment.!! ↑ |
| Name: cjsims | Date: Feb 23rd, 2008 12:06 AM |
| Name: Keep me laughing | Date: Feb 23rd, 2008 1:24 PM |
| Sims I love your post as I do have to look at Maury, Jerry or any of those BS Tv shows anymore because of your drama. Drama Queen! See you later my drama queen. ↑ |
| Name: cjsims | Date: Feb 26th, 2008 7:20 PM |
| u r the only drama in my life ↑ |
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