in april this year my wife and i split, it was going wrong foir a while and i thought she was having an affair.we have 2 kids david 4 years and cara10 months. she says it is 100% over but i dont beleive her as she keeps doing things and saying things to give me hope but then takes the hope away is she stringing me alaong because i still do her housework and ironing or does she still ove me oh by the way i carried out a paternity test on cara. a few glimmers of hope are one night after her brothers party she told me that we were going to get back togrther but for the pat test and when we do get back she will hold back 10% of her love . the next morning she said she was only joking and we would never gat back together , recently i threw my wedding ring in the bin and she immediately took it back out . i asked her what she had planned for mher rings as she was not going to wear them again and she said i might . she also told me that she still fancies me . i know she is texting another man just now and it is very flirty as i have seen one of the messages but she assures me that it is just some safe harmless fun and she is not looking for anything to happen with this guy but if they do ever go out for a drink and something does happen then so be it but they have no plans as of yet for the drink to take place .
should i give up and deal with the heartache or fight for the woman that i love more now than i ever have.
she asked for a divorce and i agreed but a week later when i asked if she had been back to her lawyer she replied no i do not want a divorce i just wanted you to get a kick up the ass.i her and the kids a couple of times a week as i look mafter them while she works nightshift in a care home and we are getting on very well she has even agreed to let me take her out to the pics .
please advise is she finished with me and playing me for a fool or does she reckon there still is a chance when she is ready to give it another go ↓
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