| Well dragraught I hope you mean it. ↑ |
But from now on IF I ever chat with you again I will probably only believe HALF of what you tell me. I mean really,after what you did,do you really expect me to trust anything you say anymore?
I truly listened to your story and felt bad for you! ↑ |
| Hi Lizzi, I wanted to meet you actually, I am Dragraught's mother. I wanted to fill you in to why he would actually say most of those things. I read all of his posts and then I confronted him. Most of the things he said were false, however these were his feelings based on his father putting alot of those in his head. My boyfriend loves all my children alot and he does everthing with them. Dragraught was having a very hard time with the divorce, his father is a manipulater and very controling. He had nothing to do with the kids, but they love him anyways. When I had him leave he was the perfect father to them to make me feel guilty that I was getting rid of him. This, the kids believed he changed and everything was perfect and I shouldnt leave him. Well, shortly after he left the home, he went back to his old ways. And now a year and a half later, he will not even pick up the kids except for 2 kids every thursday, so they see him 10 hours a month! Dragraught is now seeing what his father is like and he does not like it too much, but he still loves his dad, which he should. My boyfriend is there for support and encouragement. I just wish this divorce would end, his father is drawing it out and making it very difficult to live. I want to thank you for all the encouragement that you did try to give him. Although the tough remarks on me and my boyfriend was hard to read but understand some of them. Taking a 14 year olds perception when 14 year olds exaggerate is a hard thing. You stating to him that if you do talk to him again you will only believe half of him, well I would believe all of it due to those are his feelings, but maybe just try to remember that if they are really bad that it is exaggerated. He vented most of the time, he was on this site mainly after something did not go his way, so I just wanted to explain more plainly his view and he did really want to make people believe any different, he was angry. Is it not what this site is partly for? Thanks for your time. ↑ |
Hi dragraught's mother,it's finally nice to meet you! I guess I owe you an apology for my harshness against you and your boyfriend. I just really believed dragraughts story because I know that there are children out there who really do go through things like that and my heart went out to the kid and it angered me that he could really be being treated that way.
I'm glad to hear it's nowhere near as bad as I thought though,thanks for setting me straight about it all.
Also I hope dragraught has learned a valuable lesson from all of this. Some people just see the internet as a fun little toy but there really are live human beings on the other end of the story they're dishing things out to. I'm glad things are o.k. and sorry about everything dragraught and yourself have had to go through and I wish you both a better mother/son relationship. I know teens can be difficult at times,I have a soon to be 16 yr. old son myself! Best of luck to you and your son,and again it was nice to have met you (well so to speak anyway,lol) ↑ |
