I am facing the rejection of my fiance's five year old daughter. I used to watch her thru daycare, and she was just fine then,but now that we are together and he has them 10 days a month, we are facing issues of her challenging my authority, dirty expressions, little mind games of hugging him while giving me the evil eye, her navigating around me and resorting to calling her dad,"da da" and using regressive baby tactics all the time to pull the ole heart strings and being outright manipulative and rebellious...to put a wedge in between us.
Not sure what to do, but our house feels like a divided family...not a home.
He is having guilt and feelings like he has to ride her too much here and that it is damaging his relationship with her...he doesn't want to push her away by always correcting her.
He also is looking to blame me for drudging up conflict even though he tells me to tell him when stuff happens.
He tried to bring my son into it by saying he doesn't like it when my 7 yr old boy hugs me and snuggles me..he says he gets jealous a little and my son thinks the world of my fiance. He calls him dad and never disrespects him...I have a daughter 9 and he has a daughter 11. Both of them are adjusting fine to it all.
I would gladly accept ADVICE!
Thanks ↓
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