| Name: H. | Date: May 19th, 2006 1:07 AM |
| What did you do? It's now may,18th2006 so you must be a mother now? Or did you put the baby up for adoption? ↑ |
| Name: Nathalie | Date: May 19th, 2006 8:29 PM |
| Well, I'm 13 to and not pregnant.(Thank God!) Sorry! Look if you like to have sex alot. Then go ahead. But you have to make sure the dude has condums, ask him if he's had sex before and who he's had it with. You are young and its okay to make mistakes in life because our minds arn't fully developed yet. But you have to remember. Some mistakes are Irreversible. ↑ |
| Name: Keely | Date: May 19th, 2006 9:02 PM |
| hey jessi i know what you are goin through im 14 now but i hada a baby when i was 13 she is one now her name is Layla and im pregnant agin i dont want to be but i had sex again so if you need help the just reoly to this ↑ |
| Name: ~~?? | Date: May 19th, 2006 9:41 PM |
| SOrry to hear your scare Jessie, I dont understand though is no period since April how does that make you 3 1/2 months? anyway you need to talk to someone ↑ |
| Name: Rachel | Date: May 20th, 2006 6:04 AM |
Ok I know you are scared but it seems to me there are alot a people on here that are supportive. I am included. to be perfectly honest I would be one of the people asking why you were having sex in the first place but all that aside. Killing your self is a even bigger sin. and noone wants to see that happen to a young girl that has her whole life ahead of her. You know I thnk that your parents will be more understanding then you give them credit for. I was 20 when I got pregnant with my son. I was not married not working still in a technical school. when I found out still living with my mom. well I was scared to death that my mom would kick me out and my father was even worse. She didnt. she took me into her arms and said ok well you need to really sit and think about what you want to do. I now have a beautiful 20 month old little boy who is the highlight of my day and life. and I wouldnt trade him for the world. just talk to your parents and tell them. see what they have to say about it. I know that my situation doesnt seem the same as yours but I hope you can take a little bit of comfort in it. then you can discuss your options with them and get into see a doc to make sure everything is going alright. Good luck
and I know I am quite a bit older then you but if you need to talk then you can email me. [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: kimberly | Date: May 21st, 2006 2:37 PM |
| i no its scary i had a pregnancy at 16, its not as scary as 13, but just think of your baby, remmber thers options have you thought about putting it up for adoption, or maybe keeping it. Your parents are gonna freak im not gonna lie to you there, but since the fact that there holy people they should get over it and theyll help you through what ever decision you make. and since you go to church why dont you ask God what to do, he may help a little. ↑ |
| Name: I hope not | Date: Jun 17th, 2006 9:37 PM |
| OKay im still a virgin but we were like messing around withmy short shorts on and he was out and after he went off i let him start to put it alitlte in not to far just at the tip and im 2 days late wat do i do? i dont want to be pregnant ↑ |
| Name: aliaa | Date: Jun 18th, 2006 4:39 AM |
| well, god make no mistake thats true,but god doesnt tell you to make sex when u have 13!so u r the mistaken.i am so sorry i dont mean to be cruel,but i thank god i dont live in US,and that i have my religion that prevent me to do any sex without getting married,so i only make sex with my husbend! and in my country,(EGYPT) no girl ever can do sex before get married,,13years old girl there is still a pure beautiful child who is enjoying her childhood ! sorry...but god with you! ↑ |
| Name: EthansMom0213 | Date: Jun 21st, 2006 8:03 PM |
WOW to Aliaa! GOD may not tell you have sex but he does tell you that you do not have the right to judge. Who gave you the right to tell thsi 13 year old girl that she was the mistake.
I am so sorry that you have to go through this. I was 26 and married when I found out that I was pregnant and I too was scared. My sister was 24 when she found out and I was actually the first person she told. She too was scared because she was pregnant and didn't know how to tell our mom and dad. But the best thing you could do right now is tell them. Yeah chances are they are going to be mad but eventually they will come around. Obviously what has been done has been done and other then abortion (which knowing that your parents are involved big time in the church isn't an option) there's not a whole lot that can be done. Finding out your pregnant at 13 or evn 26 is a scaring thing and the best thing you can have is your parent. Your going to need them and whether you tell them now or when you start showing your going to have to tell them eventually. I would recommend before you start showing. I went with my sister when she told my mom. If it would make you feel more comfortable talking to your parents take someone with you. ↑ |
| Name: whittney1 | Date: Jun 21st, 2006 9:11 PM |
| I hope not, Well have you taken a preg. test? THis is the first think that you need to do. I know it is hard to tell your parents. I was 20 when i got pregnant by my boyfriend of 4 years. Even then it was hard to tell my parents. However, truth is the best policy and most of the time sets you free. find out for sure if you are pregnant, then tell them. I know you are 13, it must be very hard. If there is just no way that you can tell your parents then find someone else to talk to. Go see a midwife or OBGYN. They can help. Good Luck and keep us informed. ↑ |
| Name: chicksy | Date: Jun 22nd, 2006 2:46 AM |
| PEOPLEEEEEE THIS WAS FROM LAST YEAR APRIL, SHE HAD THE BABY ALREADY, IF SHE WAS TELLIN THE TRUTH. ↑ |
| Name: krystinakoleen | Date: Jun 22nd, 2006 12:18 PM |
| I was pregnant at 14, barely 14..with twins...my parents were very strict, and it was ugly when they found out i was pregnant... but they forgave me and loved my babies, unfortunately i had them to early and they passed after they were born...But the point is, no matter what your parents are like, if they love you, they will obviously be disappointed at first, but they accept it, and i'm sure in the end love your baby. Good Luck ↑ |
| Name: elijahssong | Date: Jun 22nd, 2006 9:04 PM |
Honey, I'm sorry that you are having to go through all this, but I am pretty sure of one thing....Your mom and dad probably love you more than anything in the world, and the only way you will get through this is with them....I have am in a pastors family and married to a pastors son and my 18 year old just got pregnant as well...
SHe was scared to tell me, and now she is five months and I just found out. We didn't react the way that she thought we would...
I also have a 14 year old, and I know that I would want her to tell me, so that we could help her deal with it.
Every child is precious and a gift from God....
If your parents are angry at first, it is only because they love you so much, and want the best for you in your life...
Hang in there sweety and do tell them. Everything will work out, you'll see...
If you have any questions for me or you just want to talk, you can get a hold of me through parenthood.com Feb expecting boards where I am a host. My handle is elijahssong. ↑ |
| Name: youngmamatutu | Date: Jun 22nd, 2006 10:41 PM |
| hi jessie. i got pregnant when i was 18 (out of wedlock) with my first son and both my parents are involved with our church, as well (my dad is a deacon). UNfortunately, my dad found out that i was pregnant via the INTERNET (my myspace page). i look back now and wish i would've just had the guts to tell him FACE TO FACE. Your parents, along with GOD, WILL FORGIVE YOU. This baby was given to you for a REASON. It's God's precious little gift to you. You're young.. but obviously you are grown up enough to make the decision about having sex.. so why not be grown up enough to except the "consequences" and show your parents that you CAN make adult decisions. Once your parents get over the initial shock and anger, they'll be happy for you and their new GRANDCHILD. Dying is DEFINATELY NOT the only way out... in fact, it's probably the worst and the most COWARDLY way out of it. Babies are a BLESSING to have. Please, don't turn to abortion... if you don't think you can handle a baby right now, there's ALWAYS adoption. Good luck. ↑ |
| Name: aliaa | Date: Jun 23rd, 2006 12:04 AM |
| hey i am free to say my opinion as long as she opened her door to hear this ! and of course she is mistaken,and i am not judging her but this is my point of view. ok? ↑ |
| Name: dktumlinson | Date: Jun 26th, 2006 6:50 AM |
Do Not Make any decisions right now. Calm down, and think. Go to planned parenthood, take too a counseller. And I know this is hard, but talk too your mom and dad. Yes, they maybe disappointed and hurt, but they LOVE YOU, you are their BABY.
Then talk to them and if adoption is what you want, and at your age it might be the best thing, for you and the baby. You can finish you education, you can get the career and maybe marriage you might want when your older, and then you can have a child. You can also fix it, so that when this baby become of legal age, he or she can contact you, or you can contact them.
JUST DO NOT DO ANYTHING RASH. Believe me I know, things that you think may kill you, rarely do, and as time goes on, you look back and see how silly those SCARY thoughts and ACTIONS would of been.
Also, which do you think would hurt a partor, more his daughter committing suicide, or getting pregnant. No is a mortal sin, the other is no where near as terrible was that. ↑ |
| Name: dktumlinson | Date: Jun 26th, 2006 6:52 AM |
Do Not Make any decisions right now. Calm down, and think. Go to planned parenthood, talk too a counseller. And I know this is hard, but talk too your mom and dad. Yes, they maybe disappointed and hurt, but they LOVE YOU, you are their BABY.
Then talk to them and if adoption is what you want, and at your age it might be the best thing, for you and the baby. You can finish you education, you can get the career and maybe marriage you might want when your older, and then you can have a child. You can also fix it, so that when this baby become of legal age, he or she can contact you, or you can contact them.
JUST DO NOT DO ANYTHING RASH. Believe me I know, things that you think may kill you, rarely do, and as time goes on, you look back and see how silly those SCARY thoughts and ACTIONS would of been.
Also, which do you think would hurt a partor, more his daughter committing suicide, or getting pregnant. one is a mortal sin, the other is no where near as terrible was that. ↑ |
| Name: Laurabean09 | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 6:07 AM |
| Name: ARMANISMOM | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 10:40 AM |
| She started this topic 11 months ago. Do you think shes still pregnant??? ↑ |
| Name: Littlebit | Date: Jan 29th, 2007 8:45 AM |
Hey Jessie,
My name is Alisha and I am 21 yrs old. Never have been in your shoes, but I had a pregnant 15 yr old niece that lived with her grandparents. I have several questions for you. How old was the boy? Are you 2 still together? My advice is that yes your parents are going to be upset and angry mainly because you are there little girl and that don't want you to have to go through adult things. You really need to tell your parents because they will have to find out sooner or later and it would be much better for them to find out now and have a chance to get somewhat adjusted to the fact that there 13 year old child is having a baby, than it would be for them to carry you to the hospital because you are hurting and then find out they are grandparents. Plus you really need prenatal care. If you are not taking vitamins you need to go get you some prenatal vitamins. Get both your parents together and let them know I have something very important to tell you and I know you are going to be upset and angry with me. I have made a big mistake and I need your help and support to help me make the right decisions now. There is nothing I can do to take back what I have done all I can do is pray for forgiveness. Then something along the line of mom and dad I had sex and just recently found out I am pregnant I am approximately 3 1/2 months. Also have you told the boy that you had sex with that you are pregnant.
Wish you the best,
Alisha
give me a reply back and let me know if you need any mor advice or if used if the advice I gave you helped any ↑ |
| Name: tylersmom06 | Date: Jan 29th, 2007 9:04 AM |
| This post is from 2 years ago... Jessie (if Jessie ever existed) has had her baby by now! Try to not bring up topics this old.... :-) ↑ |
| Name: tanya1982 | Date: Jan 29th, 2007 12:40 PM |
| OH man you sure are in a pickle Im pregnant now with my 3 rd and Im 25 but let me tell you I was 14 when I was pregnant with my 1st its not easy you need to tell your parents I know your scared but they will be able to help you but just remember this is your body and your baby and your decision ↑ |
| Name: sianni78 | Date: Jan 29th, 2007 2:58 PM |
| oh!!honey i can't imagine how you are feeling but you really do need to talk to someone about this please if you can't tell your mum and dad alone speak to a teacher or doctor and maybe they could set up a meeting with you and your parents to give you some back up...please don't go through this alone and talk to someone ↑ |
| Name: jessiemum2b | Date: Jan 29th, 2007 9:00 PM |
| hey, jess im sixteen and preg and it scared me sh*tless. especially when i told my parents they were furious at first but at the end of the day its happened and as long as your happy theres nothing they can do. just b strong this is how it was meant to be, this time next year just think that every thing will be totally different. ↑ |
| Name: bmes | Date: Jan 29th, 2007 9:04 PM |
| OMG!!!!! this post is old...leave it alone!!!! ↑ |
| Name: bmes | Date: Jan 29th, 2007 9:04 PM |
| Name: Stephiecreek | Date: Jan 29th, 2007 9:10 PM |
| Hey girl! I got married at a young age, 16. I am now 38 weeks pregnant with my second child. I am 19, now. My little boy is two. I have been scarred both times, but didnt have parents to face with it, being that i was on my own, anyway. Listen, God has misterious ways of working. It will be hard for your parents to face, to begin with, but they know best how God works! It may be in your life plan to be a mommy. It really helps you to grow up, and you will never know any greater love than that you feel for your own child. Plus, if it doesnt work out, there are always other routes to go. Adoption is one, but you would probably reconsider this, at the time of birth, so dont finalize anything until then. Just sit your parents down and tell them in a mature manner. I know it is easier said than done, but they are more likely to accept it from you, then hearing it through the grapevine. They will, eventually, be excited to be a part of your pregnancvy, and no one will be there for you like your parents will. ↑ |
| Name: Chinkz | Date: Jan 30th, 2007 12:31 AM |
| That isn't the right option!! Yes i'm sure they'll be disappointed as was my mother who i told tonight of my 8wk pregnancy and her reply was for me to pack up and ship out but you can't think of dieing as a option!! You must fight and carry on!! If you are choosing to go through with your pregnacy then you must see your G.P asap and check yourself over - your health and the baby. As hard as it may be you need to find positives and not to beat yourself up about things as what's done is done and all we can do is look to the future and move on! -x- ↑ |
| Name: tahmour | Date: Apr 17th, 2007 2:41 PM |
| JST TEL THEM NUTTIN WILL APE IF U WNA TLK ADD ME [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: amie 101-1 | Date: May 24th, 2008 8:57 AM |
| be real i am 13 to and i have had friends that want throw the same thing it will be all right just tell them that i need help and take the conversation slowly and gracefully don't be afraid of your parents ever they are their for you and they love u no matter what !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! love amie ↑ |
| Name: amie 101-1 | Date: May 24th, 2008 9:06 AM |
| ok i really need help, two of my friends are pregnant and 11-14 one is in the 6th grade and the other is in 7th ............ i cant get them to face their parents and the longer they wait the more i worry about them they are stating to miss school and i don't think it is that big of deal to them either because they brag about it and i don't think thats cool i am so scared and i am not even pregnant so please help me help them ↑ |
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