| yes it can be. Many women expecially those who didn;t want to become pregnant get depressed... Do u have a good suppot system? ↑ |
| Well when i found out that i was pregnant i wouldn't say i was depressed. i think that i was more worried about what i had to do and what i needed to do for my soon to be child. If you have a good support system then you will be fine. it's okay to freak out a little but with the help of others and love ones you can make it through anything. ↑ |
| I was also 5 weeks along when I found out. I cried for a week straight, and suffered from depression for about 2 more months. How old are you? Is this your first pregnancy? I'm 22 and 21 weeks along w/ my first. I would have got an abortion had it not been for my fiance and this feeling that I'm not in a desperate enough situation to terminate it. Are you w/ the father? Hope that you start to feel a bit better. ↑ |
| It can be totally normal I am going into my tenth week and have now since I was about 4 weeks along somedays I am so thrilled and other days I am worried about being the worlds worst mommy and then other days I am thinking selfish things like all the things I can't do and get a bit down about that , but there is a big diffrence between hormones throwing you for a loop and true depression , like not being able to get out of bed no desire to do anything even eat those sorts of things , is this unplanned do you have a support system? even a local clinic will offer wonderfull counseling to help you sort out your emotions. ↑ |
| Hormones Honey, they are a BIOTCH! Talk to your Dr if it gets worse, there is a condition alot like post partum depression you can get while your pregnant.. Hang in there!! I had to be medicated during two of my pregnancies because it was soo bad... ↑ |
| yes i have a very good support system. my husband is really excited. his mom is happy and my family is also excited. but he hasnt told his dad and hes scared his dad wont talk to us for awhile. yes this is my first im 2o years old. and im really sick haha ya i know its expected but for almost a month now i keep throwin up. is there anyway to calm that down or do i just have to deal with it? thanks ladies for your kind words. ↑ |
| well my doc gave me a percription for Dilectin... works pretty good for sickness.... however they are really expensive.... actually they are $90.19 for 60 pills and U have to take 3 a day... ↑ |
| well i have to wait for my insurance to get k icked in and il bring that up. thanks ↑ |
It is very common to feel depressed. When I found out that I was pregnant with my son I cried what seemed like forever. I didn't know if I was ready (although I had no choice now) or whether or not we financial could give this baby everything the he/she needed. I had plans and this wasn't it. But the minute I heard his heart beat for the first timet his all changed.
I am not one to go out and mention GOD to anyone since well I don't believe it is my spot. But I do believe that GOD would not have giving me such a blessing if he didn't believe my husband and I could handle taking care of this baby. I also started to tell myself that if I truely wasn't ready that I would have did something to prevent my son from happening. I use to say that he wasn't planned but he wasn't prevented either. After awhiled I said when asked I would say that he wasn't prevented so I guess you could say he was planned. If I had to do it all over again, I wouldn't change a thing.
Just hold in there things will get better. If they don't then talk to you doctor he/she can give you something for the depression that will not harm the baby in anyways. I will actually be starting Anti-depressants in my third trimester since I had post-partum depression with my first and was told that I had a higher chance of getting it with the second. ↑ |
| this wasnt planned no but we are excepting it because we made it and now we have to take care of it. i already love the baby. i just dont feel good enough for him anymore. ↑ |
