Ive been with my boyfriend for 5months and weve been friends ages. We have done oral,and many other kinds of foreplay but im scared about getting pregant. We both feel reday to have sex but Im not on the pill nad my mum wont let me.
Im 15 and so is Robbie. We have sad dry sex (sexual movements were you keep your underwear on and rub) could i get pregent from this- I know its rare but some people swear they have? Please help me sort out my head! BTW i live in the UK. ↓
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| Name: christin | Date: May 15th, 2006 10:13 PM |
okie. i do not know what to tell you.
i think you should wait, 15 is young. but i can't say much, i lost mine at 14 and regret it, big time.
but if you and robbie decide you are going to, WEAR PROTECTION.
and you can get on the bill without your mother knowing. there are plenty of clinics you can go to, FOR FREE! and they'll help you. provide condoms and everything.
it's a safer idea. the dry humping and stuff, really isn't a big deal. you can't get pregnant by dry humping. if you could, we'd all be pregnant. lol.
but, be safe! ↑ |
| Name: Haylez15 | Date: May 15th, 2006 10:18 PM |
thanks for that advice chritin! I know 15 is quite young but i really want my first time to be special. I know that things have never been better with robbie thaan they are now and i kinda want to!
P.s. ur funny ↑ |
| Name: rotn0ne | Date: May 15th, 2006 11:08 PM |
well, as funny as i am. sex is serious.
just be really careful.
you may love robbie now, but trust me, all of the ladies in here will tell you the same thing, sex changed EVERYTHING! i dated my ex for 4 yrs. before we had sex, it was an awesome relationship, after.. it was always sex. no, i'm not saying everyone is like that, but it tends to happen. so, just be 1000000% sure you're ready to take that step in your life. you and robbie may be happy now, but things happen and everything can happen in the blink of an eye. so, always wear protection and be careful! always! ↑ |
| Name: Nichole | Date: May 15th, 2006 11:38 PM |
Dearest Haylez,
I want to commend you for being so wise as to be concerned about becoming pregnant and seeking advice. That is very brave and intelligent. In the US, there are many places you can go for free and confidential birth control. I'm not sure about the UK but since you have email why not try a google search for family planning in the UK? Also, don't forget that getting pregnant is only half of the battle when starting a sexual relationship. You also have to think about sexually transmitted diseases (15 year old boys are not always honest when they want sex from a girl) and most importantly the emotional component that goes along with having a sexual relationship. I would have to write a book to get you to understand everything we all want to say to you. I would advise you to please seek counselling at a family planning center and then if you are determined to have sex at such a young age, go for it with the pill AND a condom. With loving regards, Nichole ↑ |
| Name: Jill | Date: May 16th, 2006 7:36 AM |
| Nichole has pretty much hit the nail on the head. But at the age of 15 most girls are coming to that stage in thier life as well as boys. Sex is on the brain but rarely do they ask or have concerns like you do. If you do start having sex just make sure you are safe and protected. ↑ |
| Name: Jade | Date: May 16th, 2006 10:51 AM |
FAROUT IM SO SICK OF THIS BS I HEAR EVERY DAY FROM THESE TEENS WHO HAVE NO IDEA ON WHAT SEX IS AND ASK REALLY PRIVATE AND STUPID QUESTIONS,
I JUST WANT TO KNOW HOW THEY FIND THIS FORUM TO BEGIN WITH, I KNOW I FOUND IT WHEN I JUST FOUND OUT I WAS PREGNATE AND STARTED UP MY JOURNAL,
MOST OF THESE POSTS ARE PLAIN CRAP!! ↑ |
| Name: xXxMOxXx | Date: May 16th, 2006 2:45 PM |
| hiya, btw i live in uk 2 and no u cant get pregnant from having dry sex! it sounds like you arnt ready for sex atall and if your bf is presuring u, u shud dump him, im 6months pregnant and its not that im not looking foward to being a mum i just wish that i would have waited another few years, i am also 15, wer bouts in the uk u from???? write back mo xxxxxx ↑ |
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