| aaww, i'm sorry, i know this has to be very hard for you. i know alot of women that their husbands are in Iraq and it's really hard for them. i'll keep you and your hubby in my thoughts and prayers. ↑ |
| -hugs- i sowwy danese. just remember to keep your head up and know he will be back. no negative thoughts. ↑ |
| i'm sorry danese! at least you have us to keep you company! ↑ |
| yep i'll be on as much as possible...but there is no internet up there where i'll be....bleh... ↑ |
So sorry about your hubby leaving and your family. The whole in law situation sucks. My hubby is from England and we are moving there in 2 weeks, hubby has already been there for a month. We've been staying with my mom since Christmas and everyone gives her a pity party and she feel like her life is over. I say what about us, don't you think it's just as hard for us to leave her? His parents are very giving financially, but with everything else they are very selfish. My mom made a memory book for my baby and his mum was looking through it. One morning, my husband came and woke me up snapping at me because there were no pictures of his family in it. I showed him that there were and he took it back to her and then it was brought back to me and said well, it has notes about my family and grandma under our pictures and doesn't say anything under theirs and where are the pics of your brother and his family.
My mom only used what pics she had and there were only 2 pics of her with the kids and 1 on his parents. And there were no notes other than a handwritten grandma on one. So I took his mum out to get letters to put under their pictures and then I remembered my mom left 2 blank pages for our trip to Floriday with my husbands brother and family, so I told her and then she felt awful when I pointed everything out to her. I honestly don't want to add anything to the book, my mom made it that way. Then when I told them I didn't want to stay here before the move becaue I didn't want to have to take the children away and his mum says, well, how do you think we feel everytime we have to leave? let me just say, they are here 2 to 3 times a year and for 2 months at a time and take over my house (except for the last visit, I stood my ground). I see my mom once a year for 2 weeks.
OMG, I am so sorry, I think I needed that vent, I actually feel better. I wonder what it will be like living just a few miles from them. Oh boy! ↑ |
| its ok you can vent!!! I completly understand!! I hate how families take sides and feel like there is less involved than the other ↑ |
