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Name: Screwed up
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Supposedly my date of conception was nov. 26. I was dating two guys at the time, and slept with one around the 26 and the other on dec. 3 but that was the onlly time. I took my pregnancy test on the dec. 12 because i could not stop throwing up in the morning and found out i was pregnant. Is there any way that guy #2 could be the father. (hope not)
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Name: To Screwed Up | Date: Jan 4th, 2006 2:40 PM
It could be possible. Sorry dont envy your situation. Watch out for all the rightous Christian women on here, if they get a hold of this post they we have a field day lol. They dont lik us unmaried pregant women. 

Name: HEATHER | Date: Jan 4th, 2006 2:56 PM
The baby could be either one's baby. Just to be sure you should get a DNA test done at birth so there is no confusion. 

Name: heather | Date: Jan 4th, 2006 5:04 PM
there is a possiblility that he could be the father, but you need to figure out when you concieved...ask your doctor. when you have a sonogram, they can tell to the exact day your baby is, ask them then....how far along are you? you want to see the date of conception because its either one or the other. You slept with these guys 8 days apart so its not likely that sperm can live that long with each one. if guy #1 ejaculated in you, his sperm would not live till dec. 3rd, unless the sperm had already connected with your egg. when you find out the date of conception, then tell us and i can most likely give you my opinion. we cant really estimate because we dont know how far along you are. 

Name: Screwed up | Date: Jan 4th, 2006 7:31 PM
Well when i did the due date calculators on the internet they all said that the conception date was November 26. So i just don't know how accurate that is. Thank you for your advice I have a doctor's appt. coming up soon so i will ask him. 

Name: Anne-Marie | Date: Jan 4th, 2006 7:45 PM
A lot of it depends on your ovulation. For example if you ovulated between 21-26 Nov it is probably guy #1, if later the chances are good for guy #2, however, you did a test 9 days after you had sex with guy #2 which even for a good hpt is pretty soon to indicate a pregnancy.

My vote would be on guy #1 because when you get pregnant the hCG level has to be at a certain level to show up a positive result and that takes more than a week I'd guess. Fingers crossed it's guy #1. 

Name: heather | Date: Jan 4th, 2006 7:48 PM
well, did you and guy #1 have sex before nov. 26? and have you ever had sex with guy #2 before dec. 3rd? 


Name: Screwed up | Date: Jan 6th, 2006 8:13 PM
I had sex w/guy # 1 before and after the 26th. And i only slept w/ guy #2 on the 3 and that was it and he did not cum in me i know that doesn't really work but it gives me hope. Also i started getting the morning sickness very bad only a week after guy #2 so that also make me think that it is not him because that would be so soon. Right? 

Name: Screwed up | Date: Jan 6th, 2006 8:14 PM
By the way I really appreciate your guys answers. Thank you so much! 

Name: Lisa | Date: Jan 7th, 2006 1:25 AM
Tell me the date of your last period. Is the date of your last period Nov. 26 because if so that's probably not your conception date.

My doctor goes by my last period (as conception date), but I don't because I know I conceived 10 days later (which was my ovulation date; I was trying very hard to conceive). Anyway, tell me when your last period was, AND also tell me whether you come on every 24 days or 28 days--then I can narrow down exactly when you conceived your baby. :) 

Name: Kelly | Date: Jan 7th, 2006 3:42 AM
I think either could be the father but if your conception date was the 26th than probably the guy you had sex with on the 26th is the father. It all depends on the date of your last period. Most likely I would assume the 1st guy, but you can never be too sure! Did you use any protection with either?? If so its likely you can assume the father is the one where no protection was used. 

Name: kelly | Date: Jan 7th, 2006 11:30 AM
me and boyfriend had sex on the 17:12:2005. before that i had sexual intercoarse with another person. i've been gaining weight for the past two weeks. i'm so scared because i'm not sure if the baby is my boyfriend's or the other person, how will i know and if it is not my boyfriend's how will i tell him? 

Name: . | Date: Jan 7th, 2006 2:12 PM
my (educated) guess would be guy #1 as the fatehr. 

Name: Michelle | Date: Jan 7th, 2006 7:30 PM
It doesn't work for it to be guy number 2...the dates aren't right. 

Name: elle | Date: Jan 7th, 2006 7:40 PM
Conception happens in the week after you have sex...So if your calculated conception date is correct, the daddy would have to be guy number 1. You should check with your doctor to get a better idea of the date of conception. 

Name: 2 0r 1 | Date: Jan 7th, 2006 7:50 PM
I heard it was 2 weeks after your period not one. Does anyone know for sure when it is after your period that you ovulate? 

Name: heather | Date: Jan 7th, 2006 8:38 PM
i heard it was 14 days before and after...i guess thats 2 weeks right? 

Name: denise | Date: Jan 9th, 2006 4:32 AM
conception means that it was conceived , what happens two weeks after ur period is the fertile phase , which is when u ovulate.what happens around a week after conception is called implantation.what means that if u have sex the day ur ovulating and the sperm fertilizes the egg it will implantate about 8 to 10 days after and u may have symptoms such spotting or a little pain. SO MISS SCREWED UP ARE U SAYING THAT U WERE OVULATING AROUND THE 26 OR THAT U CONCEIVED ON THE 26 BECAUSE IF U CONCEIVED ON THE 26 THE FATHER WOULD BE GUY #1 GOOD LUCK 

Name: heather | Date: Jan 9th, 2006 7:26 AM
oh sh*t...i was confused..for some reason i thought we were talking about ovulation...im sorry, denise is right. 

Name: Screwed up | Date: Jan 10th, 2006 3:41 AM
Well my last period started on Nov. 11 and it probably lasted about 3 days. You girls have made me feel so much better! My period skips around but i think it is closer to 28 that 24 days 

Name: Lisa | Date: Jan 10th, 2006 3:47 AM
Your conception date was definitely the 25th of the month, and therefore the father is the one you slept with on the 26th. I hope you're happy with the results :)

I counted beginning on the 11th and stopped on the 25th (giving me 15 days) since you stated your cycles are 28-day cycles. I will bet the DNA results I'm correct lol. Honestly though. 

Name: InfamousMommie | Date: Jan 10th, 2006 6:31 AM
Im due 3/17/06.....Supposely I concieved on or around the 24th of June. I slept with with another guy on May the 28th, I got my period in June. Is there anyway possible that guy who I slept with on May 28th could be the father? 

Name: denise | Date: Jan 10th, 2006 8:03 AM
There's no way the father could be the guy u slept on the 28 because if i'm not mistaken u got ur period june 10,and u probably got a sonogram by now so u could just count down the weeks (the far long u are) and whatver date u get is when u conceived 

Name: Lil_Mama216 | Date: Jan 12th, 2006 2:33 AM
I'm going through the same thing! only mine were like 2 days apart, if you get any help, let me know, i'm looking for the same answer too. 

Name: karen whitfield | Date: Jan 12th, 2006 5:54 AM
One let me say that I am a christian and two no one has the right to judge you. you are human and fell in love with two different gus around the same time. so when the baby is do just get and dna test done on both of the guys. ps i had sex to before i was married so dont worry about those other people saying they are christians because only jesus knows what in you heart . 

Name: to Karen | Date: Jan 12th, 2006 1:24 PM
I have to say that you are the only christian woman on here that makes sense. All these other woman put up post about how bad some of us are for being pregnant and umarried. Thanks for being so positive and thats what I always thought, only one person has the right to judge others, and its not someone you'll find on babycrowd. Take care. 

Name: Lisa; to the girl above me | Date: Jan 12th, 2006 10:06 PM
Not all Christians judge. I am a Christian, but I was not born saved. I do not judge anyone about anything because I'm not Jesus. I fornicated before finding the Lord even though it was only with one man at a time. Let he who is without sin cast the first stone. No one can judge the original poster because they are definitely not without sin. Saved or not--they can't judge. How many abortions did half of them have? I won't go into the fact that that's murder, but sin is sin so they really need to quit judging her and all other people. 

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