| this is your first baby and you want the world to revolve around him/her. i feel the exact same way. but having another child concerns alot of people, ecspecially if its with another woman. they get scared that with another baby, the first child isnt going to get as much attention. sometimes it happens, and maybe your hubby is trying to prevent it. its not that hes not going to love your baby just as much,he probably just wants to reassure everyone that his son is still there. my brother has a 3 year old and a 1 year old...both by different women. im not going to lie, my 3 year old nephew gets put in the backseat when hes around the 1 year old, and its pretty sad but we love him alot, so no ones picking favorites. i know what you mean, but try talking to your hubby about it. im sure he'll understand and maybe in the process he'll pour his feeling out to you too. good luck ↑ |
| Thanks for the reply Heather, i have made comments to my husband about the situation. And he just says no i'm not, i guess what hurts is that i gave been pregnant for almost 8 months and my husband hasn't done anything. I don't think i need to pressure him, but he claimed he wanted this baby, but as soon as we found it was a girl it was like everything changed, and based off of everything i read my child can hear and feel. And its like when he tries to feel her move she stops and just flat out won't move anymore until he goes away. So it makes me feel like she's know. I'm sure she doesn't but hey i have to tell him come feel her move, or he probably never would know. ↑ |
