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Name: krystina [ Original Post ] is treating me like shit. we`re 18, and he should be acting a little more responsible, and a little more his age. however, he`s making me feel terrible, stressing me out, and constantly making me cry. i have no idea how to help him, or how to ease whatever pain or confusion he`s feeling right now. i mean, i need him right now. i need him there for me and instead he`s pushing me away. ↓

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Name: Meggles18 | Date: May 22nd, 2007 12:26 AM

I was 18 when I found out I was pregnant so I know how you feel. In the begining my bf sucked. Down to the fact that he said it wasnt his and to put her up for adoption. Since then everything has changed. Sometimes people dont deal with shock well. I hate to say this but just give it time and it will work out for the best. ↑

Name: DaneseS | Date: May 22nd, 2007 12:29 AM

Honestly.....18 is still young...(i am 19 and i am still young lol) so he was probably in shock and he is probably scared...hopefully he turns around and realises he need to be more responsible...just remember that women are always more mature then men.....i hope that he turns around for you but if not you dont need him if he is going to be like that....Good Luck ↑

Name: A Mom To Be | Date: May 22nd, 2007 9:04 AM

Sorry to say his is acting his age, sounds mean but he is 18, he is not an adult. ↑

Name: krystina | Date: May 22nd, 2007 6:05 PM

18 is a legal adult. and it sure as hell should be a fairly mature age. ↑

Name: missheather | Date: May 22nd, 2007 8:40 PM

Maybe he just needs a little more time to get used to the idea. Everyone deals with things differently. Maybe he's scared or worried. My husband always acts real indifferent when he's worried and I used to get offended by it, but I've discovered that if I give him some space first he will talk about it more later. Have you tried sitting him down and talking to him? ↑

Name: DaneseS | Date: May 22nd, 2007 8:48 PM

ok yeah 18 is a "legal" adult..but he is still young and immature...im 19 and married and my husband is 20 and he is still young and immature...like i said women mature more than men...he is acting his age ↑

Name: MyTwoBabies | Date: May 22nd, 2007 9:14 PM

My hubby is going to be 19 and he still has his immature moments and i am going on 20. I mean I have my days when I act like a dumbass kid too . ↑

Name: A Mom To Be | Date: May 22nd, 2007 9:21 PM

Even 50 yr olds can be immature, but just because you are pregnant doesn't mean that BINGO he should suddenly be mature, if he was mature he would have used better contraception. ↑