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| Name: to beautiful | Date: Nov 30th, 2005 10:40 PM |
| you are the only one who can decide whether or not you should keep it. Go with what ever your heart tells you. You are old enough to be a mother and I'm sure your own mother would come around after a while and accept her grandchild. if not its her loss. I would think of your baby first before I would wory about anyone else. good luck! ↑ |
| Name: Jackie | Date: Nov 30th, 2005 11:26 PM |
| Hi .... you should do what your heart tells you to do. Once you tell your mom - you will feel so much relief and that might help you think with a clear head and make a more sound decision. I wish you much peace with whatever decision you come to ... and if you need someone to talk to, feel free to contact me anytime ... I have a toll free number 1.888.759.5188 Best wishes! Jackie www.momdad2bee.com ↑ |
| Name: Tim & Melissa | Date: Dec 2nd, 2005 12:54 AM |
| Engagement picture) Hi, we are Tim & Melissa Hennis. Thank You for taking the time to read our letter! We admire your incredible strength and determination to find a loving and stable home for your baby. We feel that placing a child for adoption is the ultimate act of unselfish love and we really hope that the openness in your adoption process will give you the support you need and deserve. As you learn more about who we are, we hope that you will consider our home for your baby. We both have always dreamed about having a family. From the time we met, we wanted to have a family together to be able to share in the closeness only a family can have. For the four years that we have been married we’ve dealt with miscarriages, tubal pregnancies and failed IVF. Our strong desire to have a family of our own and to be able to share our love is so big that the transition of deciding to adopt was an easy one, there was finally a light at the end of the tunnel. (Wedding picture) We met through some friends, started dated and got engaged after three years of dating. We are true soul mates and best friends. We got married in our home town with lots of friends and family and had a beautiful wedding. Shortly after being married we purchased our first house together and have spent a lot of time making it a wonderful home. We are both from the Ohio area. We love the outdoors, camping and fishing mainly. We have taken a lot of weekend trips to different cabins just to get away and we also go to Canada twice a year for fishing trips with both families, and just can’t wait to have a child to share all of our wonderful family vacations with (Picture with Jimmy) Tim works for the Village that we live in and has been employed there for 5 years. Because of the flexibility of his job, it will allow him to spend quality time with his family. Tim is a happy, fun loving person with a great sense of humor. People are drawn to Tim’s personality being he enjoys life and is a kid at heart. Tim is quite the handyman and is able to fix just about anything around the house. Tim enjoys golfing and bowling and helping out family and friends. Tim is the type of person that know matter what he is doing when someone needs something he stops what he is doing to help someone else. His thoughtfulness, wisdom, and tenderness will make him an amazing father. Melissa has been employed with a local Hardware store in her home town for over a year. She is head cashier over 4 part time cashiers. Since we got married, she has stepped down her career to deal with doctors appointments and dealing with the chaos we have had for the past four years with infertility, also working this close to home it makes her available whenever something comes up at home. Melissa’s skills such as listening, empathy, understanding, and genuinely caring about others would be wonderful attribute to being a Mom. Melissa had a very active childhood that has continued throughout her adult years. She participated in activities such as softball and cheerleading. Melissa also did a lot of babysitting in her teen years. She has always been drawn to children and loves to take care of them. She has a big family and even bigger now that she’s married with lots of little ones around. She always knew and dreamed about having a family of her own. Growing up, her family was constantly together. Her parents instilled a strong work ethic, helping others, and to be respectful to others. Melissa is a very kind and patient person who always see the best in everyone. (Family pictures) We both come from very close-knit families. Tim has 1 sibling and 1 niece and 1 nephew. Tim’s family lives close so we are able to see them often and share holidays together. Melissa has 2 siblings and 5 nieces who all live about 45 minutes from us, which we also visit a few times each year. We are excited about having a child to enjoy spending time with and celebrating holidays with. We live in a 5 bedroom home in a nice family-oriented town. We are excited to welcome a new addition to our home to fill it with toys, giggles, and more love. Our community has some really good schools in the county and all of them are very close. The weather is beautiful changing from season to season, and we are a few hours drive from many amusement parks, zoos, water parks and much more. We have both been raised Presbyterian and come from loving homes. We continue to be strong Presbyterians and enjoy having God in our lives. (Picture of Lyndsey) Now meet Lyndsey, she is Tim’s daughter to a previous relationship. She is five years old and is in Kindergarten. She is a very fun loving, well mannered child with lots of energy. She gets to spend every other weekend Friday – Sunday with us and also an overnight during the week. We also alternate holidays with her biological mother. We all, (her father, her mother and two step parents) all get along very well. We try to make the transition for her as easy as possible. Lyndsey also, (on her mother’s side) as a younger sister which makes her a wonderful big sister and she would be a wonderful sibling for your child too. She is very good with younger kids always being the leader and looking out for them. She keeps trying to figure out why we can’t have a baby brother or sister for her. (Picture of Tim & Lyndsey) Tim spends every minute possible with her and is a great father. I have never seen a man that can act like a fiver year old as well as him just to make her happy. He enjoys playing in her room and also in the backyard with her. He couldn’t be a better father. Melissa also spends as much time possible with Lyndsey, she is a very loving step mother. She loves Lyndsey as if she were her own biological child. Lyndsey enjoys time with Melissa because she feels secure with her. She shares a lot of secrets with her step-mother. Melissa has given her such a big shoulder to lie her head down on that she relies on Melissa to tell her what is bothering her, and no matter what it is either she will help her or get someone who can. (Picture of Melissa & Lyndsey) A child that we welcome into our home will grow up in a home full of unconditional love and tenderness. We will make sure they feel safe and secure in our love and know that we will always support them. We believe in the value of education and will provide these children the opportunity to go to the college of their choice. They will discover their own unique interests and we will do our best to help them reach their goals. We are excited to welcome a new baby in our loving and caring home to make our family complete. If we are selected, we want to assure you that your child will always know they were adopted, loved by you, and what a tremendous gift you gave when you placed him/her for adoption. We are open to having communication, sharing letters and photographs. So, if deep in your heart you feel that we are the right fit for your baby and that we are the kind of family that you would want your child to be brought up with, please contact us at [email protected]. (Family Picture Tim, Melissa, Lyndsey and Jimmy) With lots of love, Tim & Melissa Hennis ↑ |
| Name: Audra | Date: Dec 4th, 2005 4:55 PM |
| I think you should examine your pro's and con's and decide what is best for the baby . I have a little girl that was born on july 21 and she is a peace of work but she will tell you I love her but on your situation your the only person that know if you can provide the way you want for your child because you already know that you can love this baby but will the 2 of you make it financially. I am Afro-american and caucasion mixed and I would be happy to adopt your baby if your no able to but do not make this decision unless you have thought this through I will be happy to keep in touch throughout the baby's life if you choose adopiton. Is my race a problem? you can call me collect at 87-247-7649 ↑ |
| Name: Sexy | Date: Dec 4th, 2005 7:09 PM |
| Just because your mom says that stuff dont mean you cant make it on your own or that she wont support you. You just have to make the right choice no matter what happens. Well since your already 19 have a job and going to college you should keep him/her and if your mom wont help just go to a place that can help you like Youth on Your Own. Or even Plan Parenting Hood. I hope I helped you out . But im scared too b-cus im 15 and might be 4 months. My body's changing but i cant tell and i dont know what to do! ↑ |
| Name: Jamie | Date: Dec 6th, 2005 8:51 PM |
| I too got pregnant at 19. My mom was very strict. I also have 4 sisters. I was afraid to tell my mom and I shouldn't have been. My mom has 8 grandkids and she helps all of us as long as we are doing positive things with our life. She said she wasn't going to raise the kids but she helps out alot. Your mom will come around. No mother can resist a beautiful baby. That baby is now almost 12 years old. ↑ |
| Name: michelle | Date: Dec 6th, 2005 9:41 PM |
| I think god only gives you what you can handle. you need to make the decision no one can make it for you. you are old enough to make it and you can get help out there so you can finish school your baby needs you to so you can make a good life for them. Your mom just probably says that to scare you and make you not get preggo but when she finds out she might be dissapointed if she loves you shell come around. I had the most strict mom in the world when i was 18 my curfew was 9pm after i graduated. My sis got preg at 14 and she supported her but sis had a m/c . ↑ |
