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Hi I am just wondering when the best time to take a prego test??? I think I may be...I am supposed to be starting my period around the 25-30 of this month...but last thursday I bled a little...NOTHING like a period though. HELP....could i be prego? ↓
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| Name: aiden | Date: Oct 20th, 2008 4:38 PM |
| thats what happened with me the last two times i found out i was preggo. just a little spotting about 8-10 days before my period. my second preggo test was positive about a week before my period. well good luck and i hope you get the results you want. ↑ |
| Name: live.laugh0408 | Date: Oct 20th, 2008 5:00 PM |
| yeah I have taken a few pregnancy test..but all negative...because it was tooo early i believe...but i just HATE waiting! ↑ |
| Name: aiden | Date: Oct 20th, 2008 5:11 PM |
| yeah me too.lol we have lost one already and we are trying to get pregnant again. i think i have taken a test everyday since i was due to ovulate. i know it is too early i am just so impatient.lol ↑ |
| Name: live.laugh0408 | Date: Oct 20th, 2008 8:46 PM |
| Yeah I am only 19 and me and my boyfriend are getting married soon. We are in the military and when you are in the military all relaitionships are FAST FOWARD...its scary yet at the same time...exciting...and I know we are going to get shit from ppl...but it doesnt matter ↑ |
| Name: zoey9810 | Date: Oct 21st, 2008 10:02 AM |
When i take a test, i normally wait till the day my period was due, just so i don't waste time and money on tests, LOL they can get expensive LOL
What branch are you in?? My husband is in the Army, and is on his 3rd tour, and second deployment to Afghanistan! ↑ |
| Name: army_wife | Date: Oct 21st, 2008 11:32 AM |
| I'm also 19, just got married to an army man about 5 months ago. We're trying to get pregnant so that the baby can be in the oven while he's gone to his third deployment to Afghanistan. He is SO eager to have a child, he's been very disappointed that its been five months already with no results. Could be pregnant, now, just don't know for sure. ↑ |
| Name: live.laugh0408 | Date: Oct 21st, 2008 11:40 AM |
| We are in the Air Force...he is getting ready to deploy to Bulahd...Really scary...is I am prego then he would barley make it back to see the baby being born...we will see though...It is going to be hard with him leaving though. Really hard espeacially if i am Pregnant. And the people that I work with suck as well so...ugh ↑ |
| Name: live.laugh0408 | Date: Oct 21st, 2008 4:12 PM |
| I just went to take a blood test!!! find out in two hours what the rusults are :/ ↑ |
| Name: live.laugh0408 | Date: Oct 21st, 2008 5:51 PM |
| its a negative....really sad. but i guess just wait and see if i miss my period. blah...day is ruined ↑ |
| Name: zoey9810 | Date: Oct 21st, 2008 9:05 PM |
| Hey ladies, first off, wait to have kids if you can, 19 is young that's how old i was, And being Pregnant while he is deployed is HORRIBLE!!!!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: live.laugh0408 | Date: Oct 22nd, 2008 10:09 AM |
| Well we are not waiting..sorry we are both ready to have kids...maybe you werent? ↑ |
| Name: DRB | Date: Oct 22nd, 2008 10:39 AM |
| so i can say that i am in the Marine corps and my ex-husband is also...yes relationships in the military are "sped" up and all and most relationships end fast also...i was married for a year and 1/2 when i left him. You think your ready for a baby but you have no idea the stress that children put on a marriage especially in the military. your not even married yet. i can give you advice that i wish i had taken and that would be wait til your married for a year or 2 to have a child. It will be better for your marriage better for your baby. if i had waited then my life would have been better and easier. i know many many couples aho are no longer together because they rushed into marriage and into having children and now they are divorced and fighting for custody and child support and what not. i am not trying to talk down to you at all but i am 21 with 2 kids and going through a nasty divorce because my ex doesnt want to live up to the responsibilities he has towards his children. Just wait..it is the most intelligent thing you will ever do ↑ |
| Name: Opheiliamath | Date: Oct 22nd, 2008 10:49 AM |
live.laugh0408 goodluck on getting preggo! Have fun humping!
I'm not going to judge based on your age if you are too young to have a child now or not, not my call.
Since I'm not going to judge I will give my opinion though lol.
Here is it: since you are dead set are getting preggo why not wait unti he gets back so he can experience the growth of your belly with you? Feel the kicks, rub your back, your feet, visit the hospital, go baby shopping with you.
Being in the military and having a baby is all about timing if your S/O is likely to deploy. ↑ |
| Name: Opheiliamath | Date: Oct 22nd, 2008 10:55 AM |
Another option is keep trying right until the day he leaves, the earlier you are in your pregnancy when he's the deployed chances are better that he *maybe* can make it in enough time for the birth (If his deployment is 6-7 months. I going by Marine Corps "regualr" deployments. Though I know some MC families whos done One year deployment)
OR depending on the length of the deployment the baby can still be really young and he can still get a taste of newborn baby. ↑ |
| Name: Opheiliamath | Date: Oct 22nd, 2008 10:58 AM |
| Another option is just to wait. Since you both are still young being infertile won't be an issue (Hopefully, i'm betting more than anything i shoudln't be). Get married, get through this deployment, live together, be husband and wife awhile, think about having a baby, vacation together, think about having a baby again...THINK SOMEMORE about having a baby. ↑ |
| Name: live.laugh0408 | Date: Oct 22nd, 2008 4:27 PM |
| Maybe you all are right......We need to talk about this....I know we are in love though and we do want to get married...so ↑ |
| Name: zoey9810 | Date: Oct 22nd, 2008 11:17 PM |
Well, I'll tell you my experience, Me and my Boyfriend were planning on getting engaged in Feb of 2007 and Married 2009 or 2010 and not have children till a few years later so we could enjoy being a married couple for a few years before the babies came. Aug 25, 2006 he left for a 14 MO deployment, By September 11th we found out i was pregnant, I was 18 at the time, he was 24 We wanted kids but we had our goals to finish first! I was scared shit less, Our first baby and he was going to miss the whole thing. He came home we got married and here we are today happily married for 2 years with a beautiful 17 MO son. Do I regret it??? NO but the timing wasn't exactly right, and my husband being gone for it made it even worse, esp with out any family around! If I could do it all over again, I wish i could of had our engagement and our dream wedding then Tyler EXACTLY, but just a few years later.
I miss when it was just the 2 of us and our dog, things were so simple.
It's very hard doing it all alone, esp when you're young, people can be really mean! And its even worse because you get to experience it all but your hubby is left out when he is so far a way, its not a great way to start a family, and its hard on them!
Just please first get married and if you need something to fill the baby void, get a dog or a beta fish, LOL which ever you like best!
Test the waters, but don't test it with a baby in tow, it just makes it so much harder when kids get involved, just like danese said!
Good luck! and i hope you don't take any thing I said as negative, I'm just trying to help ! ↑ |
| Name: live.laugh0408 | Date: Oct 23rd, 2008 11:58 AM |
| your right. I am young....We want to get married the right way...engagement, wedding...and the whole deal....I love kids and would be a great mother, Henry sees that and cant wait to see me care for his child. But I suppose we can wait a year or two..Thanks! ↑ |
| Name: zoey9810 | Date: Oct 23rd, 2008 5:35 PM |
| No problem, Just looking out, I hate to hear younger couples not working out! ↑ |
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