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Dont get me wrong im happy i would love to have a kid but last year the doctors told me that their was no way 4 me to have a kid... so about a month and a half ago i had sex with my boyfriend.. we have been to gather for 1 year and a couple months, when the doctor told me he was the one to hold me and make every thing fell safe.. My mom dont know i just found out, it had to be the first time i had sex because we only have dont it 2X's and the 2nd time was 3 days age... He's 16, has a good job and both of our familys are not that well off (money wise) .. Im scared and i just want some other teens my age to talk to!!! ↓
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| Name: to Amy | Date: Mar 24th, 2006 8:55 PM |
| Ok first of all.. how good of a job can a 16 year old have? What you posted really is all wacky and doesnt make much sense. The doctor told you he was the one to hold you and make everything allright? I dont get what your saying. ↑ |
| Name: Amy | Date: Mar 24th, 2006 9:01 PM |
sorry im just a little scared... ok when the doctor told me that i could not have kid's he was with me and my mom... i only had sex because i did not think i could get pregnant..... He works with his dad ( james my bf is home schooled) he bilds houses... his dad pays him like he does any one else.. so he has money.. him mom which is ho he lives with dont have a job...( something happened to her and she cant work) so she home schools him
if i knew i could get pregnant i would have wated.. we used a condom because people told us that it want hurt as bad the first time... it broke or came off in me i had to pull it off but we did not worry because like i said the doctor told me that my eggs was not dropping and i would have to get med so that i could get pregnant when i got older ↑ |
| Name: Chris R | Date: Mar 25th, 2006 1:18 AM |
| Amy, if you weren't sexually active at the time, why were you in the Dr.'s office? Just trying to figure out what's going on. Also, you can get pregnant, even when they don't think it's as likely. I was on the pill for 7 years, never missed or was late when I got surprised, it happens...I would talk to your mom right away and try to sort it out. Having a baby is huge, it takes a lot of money and time on top of love and responsibility. You are both so young now...talk with an adult who can help you...take care ↑ |
| Name: AMY | Date: Mar 25th, 2006 1:28 AM |
| I had to go because my period would come and not come back for months at a time.. so my mom took me ↑ |
| Name: Chris R | Date: Mar 25th, 2006 1:36 AM |
| That's too bad, at least it's something that they can help you with though. I took my husband to my first OB appt. when I was pregnant with our son, and he nearly died when I was examined, can't imagine that it went any better for a teenage guy... ↑ |
| Name: AMY | Date: Mar 25th, 2006 1:38 AM |
| OHHHHHHHHHHH no he did not go in with me he just rode with us because we were going to the mall after for a present for his mom's birthday..LOL only my mom went in the room with me...lol......yea he probley would have died...lol ↑ |
| Name: Chris R | Date: Mar 25th, 2006 1:41 AM |
| Sorry, I didn't even think about the waiting room! Yeah, my poor husband was 29 and had never experienced anything like that before. My Dr. did it all while he was in there, poor guy stared so hard at a poster about IUD's...it's still funny! I can't wait to drag him back...good to hear you didn't put your guy through that yet. ↑ |
| Name: Amy | Date: Mar 25th, 2006 1:46 AM |
| lol yea i could not have him go in their with me ..... i would just die..lol ↑ |
| Name: Chris R | Date: Mar 25th, 2006 1:51 AM |
| Trust me it gets worse than that, and if you are pregnant, he will see so much more... ↑ |
| Name: Amy | Date: Mar 25th, 2006 1:53 AM |
| well iv took 3 test all say pos!! any ideas on how to tell my mom?? ↑ |
| Name: Chris R | Date: Mar 25th, 2006 2:00 AM |
| Sorry Amy, I was married and 25 when I got pregnant and I was still anxious when I told my mom. I think it's best to get it out there as soon as possible though so you can get prenatal care. Plus it's hard to keep something like that secret, especially from moms. She would be so hurt if she found out way later and didn't have the chance to help you though. I guess it's best to just sit down and tell her ...I really wish you good luck though. ↑ |
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