Okay so incase you all dont remember a while back I mentioned thinking my man was cheating on me. Well since I have had the baby, he has been basicly treating me like SHIT. Dont get me wrong he loves his baby, but I think he was pretending to care about me because I was pregnant with his baby. He lives with me. Lately he has been staying out all night, claiming it's because the baby keeps him awake and he just sleeps somewhere else. Well about a week ago he came home on a saturday morning with hickeys. So I decided to check his phone. I found the number to the girl I thought he was cheating with 10+ times a day... and about every 10 minutes for about an hour the night before he came home with those hickeys. So I am pretty sure he's cheating now, and I plan to leave him as soon as I am able to work and support myself.
Well I decided to look on Yahoo Personals. I found another Mexican man on there, so I emailed him thinking he looked pretty familiar. Turns out I have met him before, and he knows Luis (my current "roomate"). So we have been talking for the past couple days. Mind you it's hard to find a decent mexican man around here - and this one is pretty decent. But do you ladies think it's a good idea to try to talk to someone who knows Luis? They arent really friends - more aquantences because they are both mexican. I ask this because pretty much every mexican around here knows each other - this is the reason I have met this guy before... he even remembers me and we didnt even talk to each other. I just dont want to start any drama because I expect Luis to still support his baby after we break up.. and I dont want to screw that up. ↓
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| Name: .RoSey. | Date: May 21st, 2007 3:47 AM |
wow your " Man " as you call him..... isn't much of a MAN to be doing that.. and sounds like a real LOSER.. and you do need to leave him.. cant you go live with your parents / or friends etc?? must be hard living under the same roof as him.. Sorry hes doing this to you.. what a dick!
i think you need to give him a goodbye kick on the balls too! ↑ |
| Name: JasminesMommy | Date: May 21st, 2007 3:50 AM |
| Well I am going to... but as his punishment.. I am going to use him until I go back to work and Jasmine is in Daycare. This house is mine, not his. So I dont need to worry about going to live with family. I plan on kicking him to the curb as soon as I can support myself. Which shouldnt be more than a month. But what do you think... should I be talking to this other guy? He's got two kids of his own (7 and 8 years old), but I dont mind that. I am worried that Luis wont give me support for Jasmine if he finds out I am talking to another Mexican ↑ |
| Name: DaneseS | Date: May 21st, 2007 3:54 AM |
| i think you should hold off any relations with another man until after you have kicked whats his face to the curb and if he doesnt give you support then you should get a lawyer cause thats his kid and he has a duty to give you financial support to raise his child...ya know ↑ |
| Name: JasminesMommy | Date: May 21st, 2007 3:54 AM |
| Incase you all havent noticed... i've got a thing for Mexicans lol. I am not attracted to non-hispanic men. It's a curse because most mexicans WILL cheat on you... but there are a few good ones I just have to find one. ↑ |
| Name: DaneseS | Date: May 21st, 2007 3:56 AM |
| Name: Coartney | Date: May 21st, 2007 3:56 AM |
| IMHO, get rid of him. and then stick to not being with someone. iregardless if they know each other, i think its a horrible idea to jump from your soon to be ex, into a another soon to be relationship, especially just having had a kid. make a life for you and your little girl. jumping guy to guy makes you look very dependent, and thats no good. ↑ |
| Name: DaneseS | Date: May 21st, 2007 3:56 AM |
| do you like men from OTHER spanish countries...??? ↑ |
| Name: JasminesMommy | Date: May 21st, 2007 3:58 AM |
| Basicly, if it would work out. I would want him to stay here to be with his baby because I know he is going back to Mexico this December. I want him to spend all the time he can with her. I have thought about just telling him he can stay but we arent together anymore - he has no say over me and I have no say over him - he is just here for the baby. ↑ |
| Name: JasminesMommy | Date: May 21st, 2007 3:58 AM |
| hispanics in general.. but I say mexicans because thats pretty much all there is around here ↑ |
| Name: .RoSey. | Date: May 21st, 2007 4:00 AM |
| yeh i agree with danese lol.. you are letting him off too lightly.. and are being far too nice. ↑ |
| Name: DaneseS | Date: May 21st, 2007 4:00 AM |
| well i agree with caort..stay single and make a life for you and your baby ↑ |
| Name: .RoSey. | Date: May 21st, 2007 4:01 AM |
| its funny because.. girls always go for the girls.. but never for there boyfriend that also has responsibility in the whole cheating thing.. why is that?! ↑ |
| Name: JasminesMommy | Date: May 21st, 2007 4:01 AM |
| Well im not talking about moving in another man. I plan on getting myself a job and working to support myself. I am not looking for another man because I want support.. I just want a companion. Thats basicly all Luis is anymore.. just someone to talk to now and then (because he's only here now and then) ↑ |
| Name: JasminesMommy | Date: May 21st, 2007 4:02 AM |
| Well I am going for her because she was a friend of both me and Luis for a long time. They had a drunken sex night ONCE before me and Luis were together. She told me it wasn't anything serious and nothing would ever happen between them again. THATS why I am going for her because I know it wasnt him that approached her.. it was HER that approached him ↑ |
| Name: JasminesMommy | Date: May 21st, 2007 4:04 AM |
| ok ladies im off to bed, feel free to hand out opinions.. im going to be back on in the morning to see what's been said :) thanks girls.. nite nite ↑ |
| Name: .RoSey. | Date: May 21st, 2007 4:04 AM |
| he still had a part in it.. she didnt rape him.. he still made the decision to do it with her.. i think they BOTH deserve a bashing. ↑ |
| Name: DaneseS | Date: May 21st, 2007 4:06 AM |
| i'll beat up the wetback......i dont care if i am pregnant..lmao ↑ |
| Name: .RoSey. | Date: May 21st, 2007 4:12 AM |
| i always have dreams someone is beating me up.. and i have to remind them im pregnant and not to punch me in the tummy.. its so retarded. ↑ |
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