Hey everyone i'm new to the board and to the
town i've moved too. I'm three months pregnant and my guy left me. I don't know who to talk too so any advice and support at this time would be appreciated ↓
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| Name: Megan | Date: Sep 1st, 2005 8:20 AM |
| Hey there. Men can be JERKS. i bet you are scared as hell. i am so sorry for you. i bet the pregancy is keeping you going though. Its such an exciting time, dont let it ruin it. does your ex plan on being around? i am not trying to pry. how old are you? i am 21 and this is my second pregancy. i started young. but i never had to go with what your going through. i feel terrible. my friend has a baby who is three and his father has denied him everyday of his life. i know what your going through from a friends point of view, and i am a good listener if you wanna chat. do you have family in your new town? why did you move? ↑ |
| Name: Raimi | Date: Sep 1st, 2005 2:02 PM |
| Hi Megan. I'm 20 and yeah i'm pretty scared, my guy left me because he found another girl.I left my hometown because my family is angry with me and i just had to leave. I have been so stressed out and sick for the past month. I do have bad cramps every now and then. Has that ever happend to you? Thanks so much for talking and i hope we stay in touch as i need as much support as possible. ↑ |
| Name: Jessaca | Date: Sep 1st, 2005 7:43 PM |
Hey,
I know how you feel, My babys dad ran for his life when he found out i was pregnant. Im 8 months now, If you have any questions or would just like to talk feel free to talk to me... ↑ |
| Name: Raimi | Date: Sep 1st, 2005 7:46 PM |
Hey Jessaca thanks for responding.Sorry to hear your guy left you.
How have you been coping? Are you pretty big now? I'm so nervous to give birth, do you feel the same? ↑ |
| Name: Megan | Date: Sep 2nd, 2005 8:03 AM |
| Well i have bad cramps every now and then also its pretty scary, but it has happened since day 1. have you had prenatel care yet?? I am pretty sick most of the time still and i am 15 weeks. do you have any other support where you live? what city? i am in Oklahoma city. why is your family so mad at you? cuz you are pregnant? i am so sorry but i am here for you. I have also had my reasons to be stressed but you know what you have to look on the brighter side. soon you'll have a beautiful baby to love and hold. its better than anything you could imagine. it can be stressful but its so worth it. are you going to find out the sex? Little girls are great. mine is 2 and 1/2 and is a hyper and loving little girl. but now i hope for a boy. hope to hear from you soon. ↑ |
| Name: Raimi | Date: Sep 2nd, 2005 3:15 PM |
| Hi there Megan thanks for being there for me. Yeah my family is real angry with me because of the baby and because i haven't been real responsible with my relationships. So i guess they feel like i did this to myself and i should have too suffer on my own. I hate these cramps and my back just won't stop hurting. Ahgh i'm so frustrated ↑ |
| Name: Rhoda | Date: Sep 2nd, 2005 4:42 PM |
Hey everyone there.
Ithink am pregnant and scared of going to the clinic, am 32 and i feel i shd av married and have a baby,but as its not forthcoming,i dony know.the guy ismarried but i like him,though i avnt told him.I might end being a single mother.has anyone felt this way? pls advise me ↑ |
| Name: Raimi | Date: Sep 2nd, 2005 4:51 PM |
| Hi Rhoda so sorry to hear your pregnant and on your own.Your not alone althought i'm younger than you i'm in the same boat as you. Have you told the father yet? Don't be scarred you are definetly not alone. ↑ |
| Name: Megan | Date: Sep 4th, 2005 4:11 AM |
| Well i bet with time your family will come around. how could they resist a beautiful baby. dont stress out to much that could be causing the cramps! i know that mine have really calmed down the past couple of days. i have been in a stress free zone.just relaxing ↑ |
| Name: LINDA | Date: Sep 4th, 2005 4:33 AM |
| WELCOME IAM NEW TO THE BOARD SO YOUR ALONE STAY STRONG AND FOCED ON YOUR AND THE BABY THAT IS THE MAIN THING ↑ |
| Name: Raimi | Date: Sep 7th, 2005 5:28 PM |
| Hey everyone how are you'all doin? I'm hangin in there i guess. I'm a little depressed today i'm lonely and as crazy as it sounds i miss my boyfriend. Is that weird or what? ↑ |
| Name: jen | Date: Sep 7th, 2005 10:39 PM |
| its not weird to miss your boyfriend even if he is a jerk. my ex was having affairs when i was prego and i still missed him when he was gone. you are totally hormonal right now plus you are greiving the relationship and probably wish it could work. no one wants to raise a baby by themself because their boyfriend left. it will work out. my first son is now 13. i raised him by myself till he was five then i met my hubby. we now have a 6 year old and one on the way in january. good luck. it will all work out. just try to be strong. ↑ |
| Name: Raimi | Date: Sep 8th, 2005 1:40 PM |
| Hey everyone thanks for the support. Yeah i am having withdrawl from seeing my bf. Although i'm starting to see he wasn't really right for me. I guess i still love him and miss him. I probably would take him back if he called me now. Sara i hope your ultrasound goes good. I have one planned on friday. ↑ |
| Name: Maria | Date: Sep 8th, 2005 3:57 PM |
| Hi. I went through the same thing at 19. My ex left me for another woman. Boy was I devestated! I thought my world had ended. But guess what? It didn't. My daughter has made me stronger than I have ever been. I've had my up's and down's like every single parent. But there is help out there if you look for it. Never think a man won't love a woman with a child...that's BS! I started dating again when my daughter was about 1 1/2. Ended up meeting my Fiance and we have a baby due in March. Keep your head up and God Bless. Oh and don't forget about child support. Like my grandfather told me "every man must pay for his child....If he likes it or not" By the way....her father does see her every other weekend. He is 26 has 4 kids and is not very happy....KARMA baby. ↑ |
| Name: Raimi | Date: Sep 8th, 2005 4:02 PM |
| Hey Maria thanks for responding. I get strength from the strong women on this board. I will definetly get child support and hopefully like you meet a great guy someday. ↑ |
| Name: Gen | Date: Sep 8th, 2005 6:02 PM |
| Hey Raimi dear, just keep your head up and remember that after the storm there is a rainbow. Focus on that precious little one inside you and let him/her be your rainbow. Daddy will soon find out what he is missing. Keep your head up and believe that everything is going to be okay! ↑ |
| Name: Raimi | Date: Sep 8th, 2005 6:43 PM |
| Hey Gen thanks for the reply. I'll try to keep my head up it's just extra difficult today. ↑ |
| Name: raimi | Date: Sep 8th, 2005 6:55 PM |
| i cant imagine what your going through. my bf got in some trouble a while back and now he might get into serious trouble and go to the pen or jail. im 4 months pregnant and im so scared. i live in a decent house but my bfs the one who supports me. and now me being four months pregnant, its kind of hard to find a decent job. how are you doing it? who do you live with and what do you do to stay sane? ↑ |
| Name: Raimi | Date: Sep 8th, 2005 7:08 PM |
Hey raimi nice name. Well i have a few friends and co-workers who help me from time to time. My job is a hairstylist, so i'm able to work when i
can. So sorry to hear your bf left you. Right now i'm living with a girlfriend from work. ↑ |
| Name: Sara | Date: Sep 9th, 2005 2:35 AM |
Hi Raimi, the unltrasound was great. The little things is bouncing around and carrying on all over the place. I took my video camera with me to play it over and over. Lucky I did because unfortunatley the images they printed out were not as good as my last ones so I am thrilled that I have this footage.
I am also 4 months and I work part time in a printing shop, being a photographer it works out well because I am developing film and photographs all the time so its great. I am also attending uni full time, living on my own with a baby on the way so I know what pressure of life freels like.
I really understand how hard it is to get out of bed some days with physical wearyness, with emotions and everything else. Some men are just not good enough to be supportive, reponsible and awarded love. I really do believe that that baby inside you growing in you, needing you, will make you strong than you ever thought of yourself. You just need to believe it. I know you can do it. The fact that you have come on here shows me that you give a dam about yourself and the life of your child. Be strong Raimi. ↑ |
| Name: Raimi | Date: Sep 9th, 2005 1:38 PM |
| Hey Sara that's great that you saw your baby on ultrasound. Thanks so much for your support and response. I know someday i will be over my bf and possibly make up with my family but right now i just gotta try to stay strong and you girls definetly have been there for me. Thanks again ↑ |
| Name: . | Date: Sep 12th, 2005 7:07 AM |
| Name: Kristina | Date: Sep 26th, 2005 6:55 PM |
Hey. I'm not doing this on my own so I can't completely understand but I'm here if you want someone to talk to.
http://www.babycrowd.com/j
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| Name: Raimi | Date: Sep 26th, 2005 7:21 PM |
| Christina, how old are you? and do you have any other kids? ↑ |
| Name: Zoey | Date: Sep 30th, 2005 4:12 PM |
| pregnant, alone. in physical pain! just recently had operation on ovaries and pregant! im young and need advice. PLEASE HELP ME!!! ↑ |
| Name: kristina | Date: Sep 30th, 2005 4:14 PM |
| Hey Raimi. I'm 17 and this is my first baby. ↑ |
| Name: Zoey | Date: Sep 30th, 2005 4:15 PM |
| Hiya Raimi, im 20. u r so brave! i am frightened and alone. my bf does not want this and i am in my final yr of university. i do not know what 2 do! ↑ |
| Name: Zoey | Date: Sep 30th, 2005 4:16 PM |
| Hiya Kristina, im 20. u r so brave! i am frightened and alone. my bf does not want this and i am in my final yr of university. i do not know what 2 do! ↑ |
| Name: Zoey | Date: Sep 30th, 2005 4:27 PM |
| Name: Raimi | Date: Sep 30th, 2005 4:46 PM |
| Hey Zoey i'm here. You doin okay today hun? ↑ |
| Name: Zoey | Date: Oct 2nd, 2005 10:38 AM |
| Hiya Raimi sorry for late reply! this is all getting me down! i have on one to talk to! my parents are great and say i should so what i think is right.....my decision and they will support me no matter what. Altho i have had recent health problems and i dont think a baby is the right time! i feel so selfish because everyone's statements i have read have managed, and with me feeling negative towards pregnancy is wrong??? ↑ |
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