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Ok, so it looks like I'm getting a divorce, cross that, I am getting a divorce. We've been married for 4 months, together since we were 15. He told me today in a nice little fight that he hopes I lose this baby so I don't get the "pleasure" of looking at a child that looks like him. He has been abusive and has lost his temper to extremes more times than I can count. I'm happy to get out of this, but I was a little hurt for the baby that he said he wanted noothing to odo with this baby, that he woould have the wife and baby he always wanted but just not with me and not this baby. How can he possibly be so indifferent about something he created! I've been really upset all day, but this is more of a blessing than anything else. If he will actually hand over his parental rights, my life and my baby's life will be much less comp;licated and much happier. ↓
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| Name: sarah toman | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 12:24 AM |
| Wow.... that is a really bad day. How far along are you??? From the sounds of it you need to get out of it.....everything hapens for a reason they say..... ↑ |
| Name: AivenorBB? | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 12:25 AM |
| Name: veronim | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 12:31 AM |
| OMG you have been together since you were 15 - how long is that? ↑ |
| Name: sarah toman | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 12:32 AM |
| Well he is evil for saying that. Just think of your beautiful baby growing inside of you..... that will keep you going for real... I am not in a great situation myself.. alone.. father is an idiot.. been rough doing this by myself...but at the end of the day you keep it moving... ↑ |
| Name: AivenorBB? | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 12:47 AM |
| yeah he's an ass. I'm only 19, so we've been together for 4 years, but he's always had a temper, and the last time he got abusive, I moved in with my dad, cuz I will not risk that with a baby ↑ |
| Name: Coartney | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 12:49 AM |
| but for the past 4 yrs before the baby being in you, you were willing to risk yourself? ↑ |
| Name: sarah toman | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 12:50 AM |
| Well that was a smart move!!! Keep them up... you will be ok.. you know what they say.."god will never give you more than you can handle"... ↑ |
| Name: Coartney | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 12:50 AM |
| and NO that was not meant to be taken as a bitchy question i was being serious ↑ |
| Name: sarah toman | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 1:03 AM |
| good save Coartney!! LOL ↑ |
| Name: AivenorBB? | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 1:06 AM |
| no i know, I should have left a loooong time ago, but it was few and far between before, but once we got married, a switch flipped in his head, and I was suddenly his property. Like a prisoner in my own house. This last time, thank god someone called the cops cuz he had me on the bedroom floor threatening to cut the baby out of me. He was in jail one night, time served. ↑ |
| Name: Coartney | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 1:07 AM |
| you didnt press charges? ↑ |
| Name: Coartney | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 1:07 AM |
| thats pure stupidity. thats endangerment to a childs life and spousal abuse. ↑ |
| Name: sarah toman | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 1:10 AM |
| your too young for all this.. you need to just say at home with your parents where your safe and get a ppo on him or something...... ↑ |
| Name: sarah toman | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 1:13 AM |
| ha... go ahead girl.. you can also do that...LOL!! ↑ |
| Name: question | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 1:16 AM |
| Sorry you're having such a bad day.You need to get a protection order against him so he won't hurt you.Sounds like the situation I am getting out of.My babys daddys is in jail now because of how he's been treating me.It will be better that way.Just leave him and file any charges you can and you will be able to prove that he is an unfit parent. ↑ |
| Name: sarah toman | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 1:17 AM |
| wow question..sorry to hear that.. that sucks.. but better for you ... where you from?? ↑ |
| Name: question | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 1:23 AM |
| I'm from the mid west.near the rockies to be exact...lol yeah it sucks ass but it will get better with time,I hope.He was an awesome guy until he started getting drunk everynight and in the end he was doing and running drugs,along with hurting me.I finally couldn't put up with any more. ↑ |
| Name: sarah toman | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 1:24 AM |
| I hear you.. I would not be able to either.... how far along are you? ↑ |
| Name: question | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 1:26 AM |
| Im 16 weeks tomorrow.How bout you? where you from?how far along?btw Im almost 25 ↑ |
| Name: sarah toman | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 1:27 AM |
| wow..I am 17 weeks... when is your due date?? mine is august 28th....from michigan..... 31 ↑ |
| Name: question | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 1:29 AM |
| My due date is October 4,but which would put me at 15 weeks but the doc is basing it on my u/s. I have been really scared but am slowly getting used to the idea of being a single parent.Especially now that I am beginning to feel little movements! Is this your first?It's mine. ↑ |
| Name: sarah toman | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 1:31 AM |
| that is strange your due date is so far after mine when we are so close???? ↑ |
| Name: Randi | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 1:33 AM |
Sarah, you should be 20 weeks...
http://www.intmed.m
cw.edu/clincalc/pregnancy.htm
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| Name: sarah toman | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 1:35 AM |
| ok maybe I am just retarded and counting wrong..I though next week I was 18 weeks.... how are you counting???? ↑ |
| Name: Randi | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 1:36 AM |
| Use the calculator. Put your due date in at the bottom and then it will calculate backwards. It says that you should be 20 weeks 2 days today. ↑ |
| Name: question | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 1:37 AM |
| I just went to the doc today and the did my count for me...So maybe you just got it off,maybe you're farther than you thought! ↑ |
| Name: sarah toman | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 1:39 AM |
| maybe... the way my doctor explained to me was you count about 17 days from the first day of your last missed period and that is around the time you would have conceived which was right about 12-10 or so... ↑ |
| Name: question | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 1:41 AM |
| I don't know i just follow what my doc says and then add a day for every day that goes by.I also have done the count on the pregnancy calender....same results. ↑ |
| Name: sarah toman | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 1:43 AM |
| maybe I should go out to a pregnancy calender and check.. if I was 20 weeks that would be even better!!!! ↑ |
| Name: newmomma01 | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 1:43 AM |
| my due date is august 23 and im 21 weeks and a couple days, you should be around 20 weeks ↑ |
| Name: Randi | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 1:44 AM |
| You count your pregnancy from the first day of your last period. The first 2 weeks of your pregnancy you aren't even pregnant yet. ↑ |
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