I DONT HAVE ANYONE. EVERYONE I KNOW ALWAYS ABANDONES ME. IF I HAVE A BABY THEN I WONT FEEL SO ALONE ALL THE TIME. I'M 18 AND SO DEPRESSED ↓
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this is going to sound silly but thats the reason at first that i wanted a baby but i found somone who i loved and realised i didnt want a baby right yet but then i got pregnantim now 33 weeks pregnant and this baby means alot but i also have realised im not alone but dont have a baby just because you think your alone sweety ↑ |
Absolutely not. Seek professional help... don't bring a baby into a world of depression. You have to love you before anyone else can and realize that you are the only one that can change yourself. ↑ |
im not completely alone. i have a boyfriend that loves me and i love him. but he's all i have ↑ |
so why do you feel alone and abandoned? ↑ |
because my family doesnt want anything to do with me because im pregnant. and my bestfriend's parents dont want her hanging around me because they say that i'm a bad influence. ↑ |
are you pregnant or not pregnatn. you dont need to get pregnant if you arent already. ↑ |
If you are 18, then you are legally an adult, I thought were contimplating pregnancy, not that you are already pregnant. Don't have a baby just to fill a void... if you are already pregnant, then the others will come around and your best friend, if she's 18, she's a legal adult too and can do what she wants. ↑ |
no i'm not pregnant. and my friend is 19 but she's still a baby in her parents eyes. ↑ |
still she's a legal adult and should be able to do what she pleases.... if you are not pregnant, then what's the deal with your folks? Trust me, they can't act crazy for long.. just talk to them. ↑ |
my mom found out i was having sex ↑ |
Need I remind you that you are grown... you have the right to have sex. You can move on your own... you are legally an adult... she should be happy that you were not a teen mom. I lost my virginity at 18 too. ↑ |
my mom isnt like that. she always told me that she didnt want me to turn out like her. single/divorced/3 kids/ and hardly makin any money ↑ |
Guess that means that she loves you.... we all want whats best for our kids.... ↑ |
but she's so protective. i just turned 18. i need space and time to grow. she found out i was havin sex and now she dont want me no more ↑ |
She wants you.. she's just hurt... mothers can be that way... she'll get over it, trust me, she will... just give her time...do something really special for her on mothers day. ↑ |
she's the one who put me out on the street with no clothes, no money, nothin! ↑ |
You are 18 yrs old and your mom found out you were having sex? Your mom shoul d give you a pat on the back for waiting till you were 18 to have sex. There are a lot of girls on here that are 12 -13 years old having babies. It CRAZY!!
You are a leagal adult, you can do what you want. My advice to you is not to have a baby unless you and your boyfriend are really ready for it. It is a lot of resposibility. Please don't do it because you are depressed or alone. ↑ |
you're right. i just feel like.....i have no one. and if i was to have a baby, then i would enjoy living. i sometimes think that death would be a easier option ↑ |
get over it.. this is just a moment in time.... not the everlasting life cycle, I'm telling you to seek professional help.. thoughts of death and suicide is not healthy... it's not an option. ↑ |
Please don't think like that. I think that you need to see your family dr. or talk to someone that will make you feel better about your life. Things can only get better. : ) Keep your chin up and I will pray for you that you will find happieness within your life. ↑ |
thank ya'll so much. this is the first time i've smiled today ↑ |
why cant parents be more understanding like ya'll ↑ |
Jewl, I would almost bet that most of us that you are speaking to are parents. It is just harder when it is your own child. You always want better for them. Better than what you had. ↑ |
hey jewl. i finally found it ↑ |
sad to say, but that's what i did. i got pregnant because i felt like i was alone in the world. and i'll tell you one thing, i dont regret it. ↑ |
can anyone be my parent in here please,
Im so alone, should i have this baby? ↑ |
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