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This is my first time pregnancy and I am terribly worried. I am bout 4 weeks into my pregnancy. I have majority of the symptoms of pregnancy.. Sore and Fuller (feel fuller and heavier) breast, Frequent headaches, When I smell certain perfumes and smells I feel sick, Im extremely tired all the time, Ive been crying at the weirdest shows and last but certainly not least the every 10 minutes of urinating in the morning noon and defintely in the middle of the night. I started bleeding (spotting) pink to red but very light nothing heavy at all..and only when I urinate and wipe myself with toliet tissue. I started that about 5 days after last period.. But the pass day or so what seems to be little tissues alittle bigger than the tip of a needle point have been passing through when I urinate. I'm also experiencing slight cramping nothing like when I am on my period..doesnt even compare. I am so frightened I dont know what to thing Ive never been pregnant before and dont know much. If anyone could please help me out with some advice or knowledge As Soon As Possible it would be much appreciated. Thank You so very much ↓
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| Name: Coartney | Date: Apr 10th, 2007 9:50 PM |
| uhm the best advice. CALL THE DOCTOR or GO TO THE ER we cant help you. ↑ |
| Name: junebug | Date: Apr 10th, 2007 9:52 PM |
| do you know your pregant have you tool a test ↑ |
| Name: DaneseS | Date: Apr 10th, 2007 9:52 PM |
| ..what do you want us to do...holdthe baby in there for you? ↑ |
| Name: christiansmommy | Date: Apr 10th, 2007 10:58 PM |
| hey, hey, hey be nice guys. i remember this chic when she came on here saying she was pregnant so i think she's for real. sure, best advice is to go to er or doc., but when you're home and you see it, it scares you and all you need is someone to reassure you that its not what it sounds like or maybe they've been through it and didn't miscarry. but.......on the other hand, this sounds like a miscarriage happening. you have all the symptoms, esp. if you are passing small clots and you're not that far along. but, sweetie, please go to the doctor so that he can confirm it and you don't keep going on thinking you're still pregnant. i hope you will be ok. ↑ |
| Name: roseywosey | Date: Apr 10th, 2007 11:22 PM |
| Nicely said Christiansmommy. ↑ |
| Name: roseywosey | Date: Apr 10th, 2007 11:28 PM |
| i can remember when i thought i was miscarrying.. and i really wanted someone to talk to about it ( while i waited for drs appointment ) i couldnt just sit around and think about it.. needed to look up advice.. and ask other people if it was normal etc.. but then again alot of people come onto this site asking if they are pregnant or miscarrying like were some sort of magicians.. and it gets annoying.. i can understand why people are being harsh about it.. we miteswell type the answer out in notepad and just copy paste it for everyday someone asks if they are pregnant or miscarrying. ↑ |
| Name: sarah toman | Date: Apr 10th, 2007 11:34 PM |
| Hello, I have an 10 yr old and now am pregnant with my second child and I am 16 weeks along and have cramps on and off all the time still. I believe that it is normal, as far as the spotting, may or may not be. I never had spotting with either one....the only way to be sure is to talk to your doctor about it as soon as you can!!!! I wish you the best of luck!!!! ↑ |
| Name: roseywosey | Date: Apr 10th, 2007 11:39 PM |
| i had spotting about 2 months into my pregnancy.. but it wasnt a miscarrage. i also had period like cramps.. and still get them now! but everything is fine and normal says my doctor / midwife.. go see a doctor like i did. and goodluck.. it could just be nothing to worry about! ↑ |
| Name: Coartney | Date: Apr 10th, 2007 11:52 PM |
| hey i wasnt being mean. ↑ |
| Name: krystinakoleen | Date: Apr 11th, 2007 6:02 AM |
| i've had that happen with everyone one of my pregnancies and no it wasn't a miscarriage....bright red blood= bad....especially if you aren't BLEEDING, if you can only tell when you wipe it probably break through bleeding. ↑ |
| Name: veronim | Date: Apr 11th, 2007 6:20 AM |
| Whatever Coartney you are always so super mean ;-) lol ↑ |
| Name: Coartney | Date: Apr 11th, 2007 6:23 AM |
| haha i had to reread how i responded LOL ↑ |
| Name: briseis | Date: Apr 11th, 2007 12:09 PM |
| cramping in normal in early pregnancy, and so is mild spotting or bleeding. you may have a urine infection though. i had that at the beginning of my pregnancy. but i'm no doctor, pet. your best bet is to get an emergency appt with your doctor, who will hopefully get you an emergency u/s. that's what i did. good luck. x ↑ |
| Name: christiansmommy | Date: Apr 11th, 2007 2:06 PM |
yes, i agree, you can never tell who is fake or not nowadays. but, like i said, i remember her b/c of her name. i just hope that if she having one, she will be ok. and if she is joking, well, then she should think about the people like me, daisy, vane, logan, etc. who have had miscarriages or trouble conceiving. it is the worst feeling in the world other than having a living child die. i couldn't imagine losing christian b/c i am already attached to him and watched him grow up. a miscarriage is very tragic to a woman esp. if the baby was wanted and planned.
one of my best friends since 10th grade was 7 months pregnant with her first. it was a boy and his name was Kobe (like Kobie)-2 weeks ago, she lost the baby out of the blue! she said she felt decreased fetal movement, went in and got an ultrasound and they said they couldn't hear a heartbeat. her and her fiance' were devastated and still are and will be for years to come. see, when you're 7 months, the nursery is being prepared, clothes/baby items have been bought, baby shower is being planned, everything's ready. nothing was wrong whatsoever. she had to deliver the baby the next day in the hospital. they gave her a pill. she had actual contractions and a delivery. they dressed him and took pictures. she held him for hours. she didn't want to leave the hospital without him, but of course, she had to leave him there until the funeral that week. so, this is how severe a miscarriage can be. well, technically, she didn't have one b/c she wasn't bleeding or cramping or anything, but my point is that this is serious and nothing to play around with. i have been supporting her through this and i hope they will try again in the future. ↑ |
| Name: youngmother2b | Date: Apr 11th, 2007 3:35 PM |
| Im definitely not joking I dont think that this is a joking experience. My financee and I are look forward to be great parents so bad and losing a child would be tragic. ↑ |
| Name: DaneseS | Date: Apr 11th, 2007 3:41 PM |
| sorry for my comment therewere alot of fake yesterdaty and i was on a roll. I'm seriously very sorry and your right its not a joking mater i hope your not having a miscarriage and maybe its just some implantation bleeding. ↑ |
| Name: roseywosey | Date: Apr 12th, 2007 12:10 AM |
| wow christiansmommy.. that has made me even more paranoid than what i already am. what is the chances of having a stillborn even if my midwife has told me my baby is healthy and active and good heart beat etc? is it common to have a stillborn out of nowhere? ↑ |
| Name: christiansmommy | Date: Apr 12th, 2007 6:28 PM |
ROSEY, I'M SORRY. I DON'T MEAN TO SCARE OR WORRY ANY OF YOU. THATS WHY I DIDN'T MENTION IT UNTIL NOW. I'M NOT SURE THE STATISTICS. I'M SURE IF YOU GOOGLE IT, YOU WILL FIND THE RATE. BUT DON'T WORRY YOURSELF TO PIECES. BABY DOESN'T LIKE IT. I WORRY ALL THE TIME. EVERYTIME I GO TO A MONTHLY APPT., I CONSIDER IT ANOTHER MILESTONE THAT WE HAVE OVERCOME. LIKE I CAN BREATHE A SIGH OF RELIEF FOR ANOTHER MONTH. ESP. SINCE THAT HAPPENED TO MY FRIEND, I HAVE BEEN ON PINS AND NEEDLES, BUT HEY, THATS JUST ME. NOW, I DON'T WANT ANYONE ELSE TO WORRY. I JUST CAN'T HELP IT. BUT, IN REALITY, WE ALL FACE THAT CHANCE OF DELIVERING A STILLBORN AND NOTHING EVER BEING WRONG. ITS FACT. BUT, IT JUST DOENS'T HAPPEN TO EVERYONE. ITS MORE RARE THAN IT IS COMMON. DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT. YOU CANNOT CONTROL ANY OF IT. JUST TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND TRY TO DO THE RIGHT THING. EVEN THOUGH MY FRIEND DID TOO. TAKE CARE. I'M REALLY SORRY I BOUGHT IT UP.
PLEASE, NO HATE MAIL FOR THIS ONE. I DID NOT COME TO THIS BOARD TO UPSET ANY PREGNANT WOMEN. I JUST THOUGHT I'D MENTION IT B/C THERE WAS A POSSIBILITY THAT THE PERSON WHO MADE THIS POST WAS JOKING AROUND. ↑ |
| Name: Coartney | Date: Apr 12th, 2007 6:29 PM |
| Name: DaneseS | Date: Apr 12th, 2007 6:30 PM |
| tasha how far along are you now? ↑ |
| Name: christiansmommy | Date: Apr 12th, 2007 6:43 PM |
coart, yes, i know she wasn't joking around b/c i was the one that stood up for her, i was just saying that IN CASE she was, i wanted to tell her about my friend so that she would realize miscarriage wasn't a joking matter.
kay, mamacita? ;-)
d, i am 16 weeks tomorrow. 4 months on the nose! ↑ |
| Name: DaneseS | Date: Apr 12th, 2007 6:48 PM |
| YAY I'm so happy for you! soon you can find out the sex!!! ↑ |
| Name: Coartney | Date: Apr 12th, 2007 6:51 PM |
| no no you wrote in case she was joking around, i said "wasnt" i was correcting what you said b.c i think thats what you meant. god MAMACITA ↑ |
| Name: Coartney | Date: Apr 12th, 2007 6:51 PM |
PLEASE, NO HATE MAIL FOR THIS ONE. I DID NOT COME TO THIS BOARD TO UPSET ANY PREGNANT WOMEN. I JUST THOUGHT I'D MENTION IT B/C THERE WAS A POSSIBILITY THAT THE PERSON WHO MADE THIS POST --WAS---JOKING AROUND.
i thought you meant WASNT joking around ↑ |
| Name: christiansmommy | Date: Apr 12th, 2007 7:02 PM |
i'm sorry coart, you know what i mean. i just got you all mixed up. jeez, i am an emotional pregnant woman!
d, yes, appts on the 26th. i can't wait to find out everythings physically ok with the baby......and also the sex. ;-) ↑ |
| Name: banginPRmami | Date: Apr 12th, 2007 7:06 PM |
| hey im 16 and i have the same problem. ive been having all the symptoms except the bleeding. that hasnt happened yet. all my friends are telling me to wait a few more days and take a test. i give you the same advice. unless u have already taken a test. i dont know what advice to give you becasue on this board i havent even gotten any good advice except take a test. soo best of luck to you. if you need to talk to anyone u could email me at [email protected]. ↑ |
| Name: Coartney | Date: Apr 12th, 2007 7:06 PM |
| lol woman ima beat you :) and ur gona like it! LOL ↑ |
| Name: Coartney | Date: Apr 12th, 2007 7:07 PM |
| she knows she is pregnant, MAMI, she is afraid she was having a miscarriage. the only advice we can give you is to take a test, wait til a missed period and then take one. we're not psychics, we're not doctors, nurses, whatever, sorry you dont like the advice given, perhaps you should try somewhere else. ↑ |
| Name: banginPRmami | Date: Apr 12th, 2007 7:09 PM |
| i was asking her not u. im soo sick of you. u are soo nasty to everyone. on every forum i have been on ive seen the things you write. you are a nasty hateful person. ↑ |
| Name: christiansmommy | Date: Apr 12th, 2007 7:12 PM |
UH OH!
LET ME GO DO SOME WORK! ↑ |
| Name: banginPRmami | Date: Apr 12th, 2007 7:16 PM |
| "we're not psychics, we're not doctors, nurses, whatever, sorry you dont like the advice given, perhaps you should try somewhere else. " that was rude. like i said ur a nasty person. u might not remember me but i remember you. when i posted on here. i was talking to her not u. if i was talking to u i would have said "coart." but i didnt soo stop. ↑ |
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