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Name: coughdrop [ Original Post ] Ive been with this guy 3 years and we just now decided to consummate the relationship.. about 3 weeks ago a few days after i had my period he "stuck it in" for like 45 seconds and I told him to stop.. well now 3 weeks later.. I was suppose to start my period again... we had sex unprotected and he ejaculated *on* me ... but the last 3 weeks my breasts feel bigger.. and i've been having bad period like cramps but I havnt started my period yet...My periods have been irregular lately but I dont know what to do.. to my knowledge he had no cum on him when he stuck it in.. and then when we actually had sex.. he cummed on me.. am I pregnant? im really scared ↓

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Name: coughdrop | Date: Aug 28th, 2006 12:19 AM

again lately my periods have been irregular and i havent had time to see a doctor because of work.. could i just be irregular? ↑

Name: jerrica | Date: Aug 28th, 2006 12:21 AM

u could be irregular, u could be pregnant. just take a test. our bodies are wonders of nature, and every woman is different. i suggest you take a test. when were you supposed to have your period? ↑

Name: coughdrop | Date: Aug 28th, 2006 12:29 AM

like 3-4 days ago... I am so paranoid about it.. I just went to the restroom and there is a little pink so.. hopefully that's my period ↑

Name: EthansMom0213 | Date: Aug 28th, 2006 3:17 AM

First I would like to say that regardless of whether he ejaculated inside you or just ejaculated on you, he did have semen on his penis. When a man gets an erection he actually releases a small amount of semen, although it's a small amount it's still enough to end in a pregnancy. It only take one sperm to reach your egg. The problem with being irregular is that you can't be 100% sure as to when you ovulated or even if you did. Usually a women who is regular with a 28 days cycle will ovulated 14 days into their cycle (the days you get your period is day 1 of a new cycle). If you have sex anytime between day 7 and 14 you can get pregnant since sperm can live up to 6 and even 7 days inside your body. I would say if you don't get your period or even if it's not what your periods are normally (like if your are just spotting with no heavy bleeding or your period was 2 days instead of 4) you should take a HPT. When I was pregnant with my son I actually had my period (it wasn't normal) and then the next month I didn't get it. ↑

Name: coughdrop | Date: Aug 28th, 2006 5:13 AM

I think I started my period but im still worried ↑

Name: ashleymama | Date: Aug 28th, 2006 5:14 AM

There is a slight possibility because a guy lets out a little seman before he even ejaculates, it's called pre-cum and that can get you pregnant thats why they say the pull out method doesn't work, but I would still say your chances are probably slight. You wont know until you are late and can take a test. ↑

Name: coughdrop | Date: Aug 28th, 2006 6:53 AM

well I started my period .. so far I guess its just light right now.. but he said he's had a vesectomy... but.. now i honestly don't know what to believe from him because we're having a fight ↑

Name: sally24 | Date: Aug 28th, 2006 1:31 PM

First what he did is not ok , I am sorry but I would tell him off I would not let a guy do that to me , this was the first time having sex with him and he shouldn't of treated you like that . Reguardless of the vasectomy u should use some form of birth control , you can have spotting when you are pregnant and also there is sperm present in pre-cum it is that clear fluid that seeps out when he is erect you may not notice it unless you touch his penis , so yes just sticking it in you is a 50 , 50 chance of getting you pregnant and if he ejaculated anywere near your vagina sperm doesn't die instantly. Take a test to rule it out and if you continue to have sex with this man get on some form of birth control. ↑