Hi There. We hope this letter finds you well and surrounded by love and support whether you have decided on adoption or just thinking about it. We feel it is so very important to let you know how truly grateful we are that you are thinking about possibly giving such a wonderful, unique and precious gift to an adoptive family. Placing a child for adoption is an amazing selfless act of love and we know it is not an easy decision. We also wanted to thank you for taking the time to look at us as possible adoptive parents for your child, it means a lot to us that you might even be considering us.
Let me start out by telling you a little about our story. My husband Mike and I were married in May 2002, but have known each other a little over 8 years. As soon as we were married we tried to have a baby and experienced fertility problems. I got pregnant with twins, but lost them and later found out that I am unable to carry a baby to term. We were sad, but we knew in our hearts that we really wanted a family and it didn’t matter to us how that family was created. We just wanted children in our life and a chance to be good parents. That is why we have started to try to build our family via adoption. Adoption will make our dream of being parents come true.
Mike is 33 and a Medical Laboratory Technician in a hospital. He has been in this position for 9 years. He has a Bachelor’s degree in Sociology and just recently completed another Associate’s Degree in Laboratory Science so that he could advance in his career. He has been in Colorado for 15 years, but is originally from New York. Recently his brother and sister and their families moved to Colorado to be with us. Mike is going to be the world’s greatest dad. He has the patience of a saint and is such a kind, loving man. I cannot imagine a better husband or father. (written by Jess)
Jess is 29 and works for Federal Occupational Health, a branch of the Federal Government, managing an occupational health program. She moved to Colorado 8 years ago, also from New York, to attend college and never left. Not long ago her mom also moved to Colorado to be with us. Jess has a Bachelor’s degree in both Psychology and English and even did some Master’s level work in Psychology. Jess is the most loving and compassionate person I know and she is awesome with children. She has a natural maternal instinct about her and she takes really good care of everyone. I know she will make an excellent role model and a wonderful mom. (written by Mike)
We have lots of hobbies and interests. Mike and I both enjoy time with our families, especially around the holidays when we get to see everyone all at once and engage in all the family traditions. We both also love spending time with our pets; we have two dogs and two cats. Their names are Spaz, Dude, Moose and Thor. We also enjoy spending time in the mountains camping, hiking and boating. Our favorite shared pastime is traveling because we get to experience and learn new things. In addition, Mike also loves to read and ski, while I am more passionate about music and the arts.
Before Mike and I got married we bought a beautiful house in anticipation of raising a family. We felt it was important to have a home where our kids could play freely and safely. Our house is in a great neighborhood in Colorado with lots of walking trails, parks and playgrounds. We also have a great big yard. The house is in a suburban area, but within a half hour drive to both the city and the mountains. So we are close to cultural things like museums and the theater, but also close to nature, mountain parks, and camping. We chose this area because we wanted to raise children in a place where they could have a great balance of different experiences while growing up. We also live near a lot of our friends and family who will help us provide a solid support system for our family. There are also some awesome schools in the area and lots of other kids.
We know you only want the best for your baby and you want them to have the best parents possible. So let us tell you a little more about why I believe we would make excellent parents. The most important thing is that we love children and cannot imagine a life without them. Our marriage is very strong and stable. We love each other so much that we want a little one to share our lives with and we truly appreciate the value of family. In our marriage we support and love each other unconditionally and when disagreements occur we work them out together. We would like to provide this kind of unconditional love, nurturing, and support to a child. We are both also very open, kind, loving and patient people. Between us we also have a lot of experience with children.
We have six nephews and a niece. We love taking them to the zoo, having sleepovers, and even getting up in the middle of the night with them when they have a bad dream. Some of our fondest memories are of doing special things with the boys and watching them grow. That is why we want our own family so much.
We have so many hopes and dreams that we want to make come true for our children that we want to share with you. We will guide them, support them, and love them no matter what path they choose in life. We would provide a child with a loving, stable home to grow up in where they are always surrounded by family, love and warmth. As they grow we will do whatever we can to foster their sense of self-worth and boost their confidence. We would teach a child about the benefits of a good education and going to college and then provide that for them if they choose. We will share our love for the outdoors and travel by taking many family vacations. But our job wouldn’t be done there. Even once our child is grown and is on their own we will continue to love and support them all through their lives. And all throughout this time we will share with them all we can about the courageous woman and man who gave us the gift of being a family and who will always be in our hearts.
We know how tough it must be to make this decision for you and your baby. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time. We wish there was a way someone could make it easier for you. Just know that from the bottom of our hearts we wish only the best for you and your baby, regardless of your decision. If you want to know anything else about us or just want to talk, please feel free to call us. We would love to hear from you. If you have an email address send it to us and we can send more info and pictures.
With Hope and Compassion,
Mike and Jess
Call 303-665-0868 collect
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