Thanks for the advice...
I do have to say that this baby is very much Paul's in every sense but biologically, though. My ex is not in the picture in an way shape or form.
We've decided that we'd like our family started off early. By the time our baby is old enough to try for another we will have been married well over a year, and we've decided that is enough time for us. ↑ |
| I realize that I haven't exactly lived any part of my life on the the timeline most people do... but that works for me. I'm very well aware of what I'm getting into. ↑ |
| Why should what she does be any of our concern. There are people who get married only a couple of months knowing each other and who are living happily ever after. Then there are those that get married after being together for like 10 years who end up in divorce. She's not hurting anyone. And in the end if everything works out great. If not it will be something she will be able to use as a learning experience. Everyone makes mistakes. Whether this is one of her no one know, not even Nicole or her fiance. Right now this is what feels right to them and that is the only two people it should matter two. ↑ |
| SHE'S NOT IN HER RIGHT MIND,SHE NEEDS HELP. ↑ |
| brcouse she asked for the advise that why. ↑ |
I didn't ask for the advice on this...
I asked how far apart you guys spaced your children..... ↑ |
I SAPCED MINE 7 YEARS APART ONLY BECAUSE MY FIRST BABYS DADDY (AT THE TIME FIANCEE) WAS A ASS AFTER I GOT PREGNANT. WHEN WE WENT INTO PUBLIC I HAD TO WALK BEHIND HIM NO MATTER WHERE IT WAS, SO THAT KINDA SCARED ME TO HAVE ANY OTHER CHILDREN SO I WOULDNT BE TREATED LIKE THAT AGAIN. BUT I FOUND A WONDERFUL GUY AND THINGS JUST WERE RIGHT AND IT HAPPEND (PLANED). YOU AND ONLY YOU KNOW WHAT IS RIGHT AND I WISH YOU THE BEST. IF MY FIRST CHILD WOULD HAVE BEEN BY MY FIANCEE AT THE MOMENT I THINK WE PROB WOULD HAVE WAITED UNTILL THE FIRST WAS OUT OF DAYCARE AND IN SCHOOL JUST SO WE WOULDNT BE PAYING TWO HIGH DAYCARE BILLS. MY SONS DAYCARE IS $70 A WEEK WHEN HE IS NOT IN SCHOOL AND $45 WHEN HE IS IN SCHOOL. WELL MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AND REMEMBER NEVER RUSH ANYTHING YOU ARE SO YOUNG YET MATURE TO MAKE YOUR OWN DECISIONS.
BRANDISS
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| Ok, first of all, Ethansmom, if u read my subject line it strictly said TO NICOLE. She asked a question in another thread and i was just trying to give her MY advice, not yours or anybodys else. All i was trying to tell her is that she is still very young and should focus on getting her life/career/family together first, focus on raising her child that isnt even here as yet and maybe later on down the road see what happens and not worry about having her kids so close together now. She is still very young and she just met this guy and they should grow together a little bit first before rushing into having a child together, heck thats if he will even be supportive in rasing this baby that isnt even his right now. ↑ |
