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Name: Kelly
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This is my 1st pregnancy and I'm a little concerned about my sex life after the birth. Is it true that you can regain your vaginal tightness after birth or are you doomed to "looseness"? Sorry, couldn't think of a more tactful way to put it. Also, isn't there a vaginal reconstructive surgery where they put a few extra stitches up there after the delivery. Or am I being overly concerned about something relatively unimportant? Thanks alot guys!
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Name: jane | Date: May 16th, 2006 6:42 PM
Kegel exercises help tighten things up. You can do them before, after, and during pregnancy to keep it in shape. I'm not sure about reconstructive surgery though. 

Name: Angela1 | Date: May 16th, 2006 6:47 PM
I was worried about the same thing! hehe! But my Husband says I am tighter than before. I know it sounds crazy but... I didnt kegels all the time. I was terrified that I would be loose. And they do have plastic surgery for down there. But I wouldnt worry about it. You will be just fine!! 

Name: Lori | Date: May 16th, 2006 7:03 PM
Ok dnt mean to get graphic but.. my b/f now tells me from his experience with other women (before me of course) with no kids that he really cant tell a difference between mine and theirs maybe very slightly and I have had 3 kids. I have asked him the same question to and he wouldnt lie he would tell me straight up if i felt loose as a goose (haha) THey say to do kegels, they are so easy to do but I dont do em lol. I know he also says that I am tighter now then before pregnancy as all that stuff in there getting squished maybe? LOL I do think they have something to make you tighter, surgery wise I think but honestly i wouldnt worry about it. :) 

Name: nora | Date: May 16th, 2006 7:12 PM
doing kegal exercises also helps with labor because you have better control of your muscles andwe have to use those muscles to push all 6 lbs of baby out.. lol so it wouldnt hurt to do some kegals while you're bored with nothing else to do =)

But in all honestly kelly.. that is a really good question to ask, dont feel as if you're asking a "stupid question" or are being overly concerned about anything.. 1st pregnancies are ususally the most nerveracking (from what i was told) 

Name: Kelly | Date: May 17th, 2006 2:07 AM
just wanted to thank everyone for their input. I feel alot less insecure now...just one less thing to worry about..thanks:)! 

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