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Name: lil_dancer77

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The last couple of weekends on a saturday night i keep getting missed calls and messages from a number that i do not know. I text back and got told it was the wrong number. Any ways this morning i got up and was reading the messages and when you know some one well enough you kind of know the way they talk if you get me...So i decided to put my mobile on private number and call it...and sure enough it was my ex who answered.
Now its been nearly 8 months since he talked to me last...he made it clear he didnt want anything to do with me or his daughter..so what the hell is he doing? If he wants to be involved he should be a man and just stand up and talk to me instead of being immature about it! He is 26 for goodness sake! I didnt say anything when he answered i just hung up...i thought bugger you...if he wants to talk i tried to make this right and he just made things worse...

Any suggestions to what i should be doing? My baby is due any day now as i am overdue and i really do not want this stress...am really confused. ↓

Name: AivenorBB? | Date: May 20th, 2007 2:53 AM

I'm sorry he's being a puss. I don't know what to tell you, I would call and talk to him. but I'm in a pretty bitchy mood. If my ex called me in 6 months when I'm due, I would chew his ass out for being who he is! lol. Don't bother with him, you don't need that. All you should have to think about is what you are going to say to that little girl when she makes an appearance. ↑

Name: Bunnio | Date: May 20th, 2007 5:43 AM

well..dude ring him and ask wtf he wants ↑

Name: lil_dancer77 | Date: May 20th, 2007 11:21 AM

well i rang and he pretended it was not him...
yes thats right..
he must of changed his mind...I know it was him though becasue i know his voice very well...
I feel so stupid what am i meant to do? I want to fix this with him and make things right...I want him to know his baby but he is making things very hard. ↑

Name: .RoSey. | Date: May 20th, 2007 11:52 AM

he sounds like such a selfish prick.. especially because hes putting you thru this on your FINAL days of pregnancy.. you dont need the stress.. perhaps he will pull his head in and confront you.. instead of acting like a childish loser. he doesnt even deserve to be in your babies life if hes gonig to be silly about it! ↑

Name: Lola | Date: May 21st, 2007 12:28 PM

Well then...if he's gonna fob you off on the phone.

Just send him a really long text. Maybe he was too shocked to talk because he was caught out. I dunno..

But he'll most likely read the whole text and take it all in.

So say what you have to say...

Though I wouldn't have all that much to say if I were in that situation myself. Lol ↑