For those of you ladies that are the age of 12 and 13 and pregnant and what not......did you use protection while having sex? Were you aware of the what could happen due to having sex? Do you know about STD's and about getting pregnant? Did you have sex unprotected knowing you could possibly get pregnant? Have you ever been educated in sex? Have your parents ever talked to you about sex?
I was just wondering these questions to better understand why you would have sex so young. Please answer for I am just really confused. Thank you. ↓
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| Name: LOL | Date: Dec 26th, 2005 3:39 PM |
| I hate to sound mean, but I am pretty sure they knew what they were doing. This is not the era we grew up in when we were kids, and things like that were unheard of. These adolescents know more than adults, and some of the fast ones are itching to have a baby (when they are barely old enough to work). They need to be focusing on graduating from high school and going on to college. This is a sad day when babies are talking about having babies. You can bet the one I'm carrying won't even think about sex until she's grown. I will make sure of that. ↑ |
| Name: Jasmine M. | Date: Dec 26th, 2005 4:53 PM |
| I'm 15 and I started having sex when I was 11. It wasnt the smartest thing to do I know that. When I was 14 I had a baby now I'm 15 and I'm preganat again. But this time was an accident. My brother raped me and now I'm having twis. Yeah twins at 15 and I already have a baby to take care of. Some young girls have sex youg because they feel that they are mature and ready for such a thing. Personally I felt like I was ready but turns out I wasnt. So I had stoped having sex. Till I met my boyfriend when I was 12 he was 18. Yeah lots of people tell me he's to old for me. They all said It wouldn't last. But here I am I'm 15 now and he's 20 and were still together. Happyly taking care of our daughter. So before you start talking about kids that are like 12 an 13 that are having ssex and getting pregnant. You can't judge them because you don't know how mature they were when they stared haveing srx. But still I don't recommend young girls or even young guys to have sex. Whit till your older and then you can really apreacite it. And wait untill you find someone that cares about you. Not just someone that wants to get in your pants. ↑ |
| Name: THANK YOU!!! | Date: Dec 26th, 2005 6:24 PM |
Anonymous--I have been wondering the SAME exact thing!!! I understand your situation Jasmine--But the thing is--There are all these girls posting on here---13 and Pregnant HELP....Well, yeah----NOW they want help...Why not think about that BEFORE hand??? It really makes my stomach turn when I read about these 12 and 13 year olds getting pregnant! COME ON!!!! Don't they have anything else they could be doing, or even have a little more respect for themselves.....Most of the youg girls have bf that are older---Well, I think that the bf should have a little more respect for the girl.
I could go on about this forever...Bottom line is:
These girls are WAY to your to be getting into these situations! ↑ |
| Name: Anonymous | Date: Dec 27th, 2005 5:34 AM |
Ya Jasmine I know what you mean. But lets face it...there is probably only like a 3% chance of these girls wanting to take the responsibility to pay for their action. I'm talking about the ones that have sex without thinking of the consequences and then when they get pregnant they freak out and scream for help. I lost my virginity when I was 14 and I thought I was mature enough. And I was. I always used protection and was extremely smart about it and I was very much in love with my then boyfriend that I was with for months before we lost our virginity to each other. And yes that young it was love...I still hurt to this day what he did to me and I still know him (big jerk lol). ANYWAY, I was always and still am more mature than my age and I made SMART decisions and I waited until I felt like I was completely ready. But these girls get on here like they had no idea that they could get pregnant if they didn't use a condom. It's as if they have no idea about the sexual world. If you aren't educated and mature (which like 99% AREN'T) then don't even THINK about taking off your pants.
I think it's insane to be having sex at 12 yrs of age, but maybe that's just my call, I don't know. It just frustrates me that all these girls are making these unwise decisions and then being babies themselves when realizing they have a HUGE problem on their hands. It's really quite sad.
Unfortunately, not everyone is like you and willing to be a parent for their children and make smart decisions. ↑ |
| Name: ONI | Date: Dec 28th, 2005 8:10 PM |
| Anonymous, I agree with what youare saying....it is really scarey, I lost my virginity @ 14 because i was tired of being the "only" one...I used protection and after the fact i thought that sex was waaay over rated, and i wanted a refund on my virginity but, it isn't something that can be given back....I too get frustrated with questions posted on here like, "can you get pregnant from oral sex?" I am a socially worker by profession, and when I deal with extremely young girls ( the youngest being 10 !) i have to ask them all the million dollar question, " where was the supervision?" I know growing up I always had extra curricl=ular activites, the boys and girls club, something to occupy my time, so I really didn't have the opportunity to be alone. ↑ |
| Name: heather | Date: Dec 28th, 2005 8:27 PM |
| oh man. i dont know where to start. I had sex when i was 12. i started mainly because i was in that rebelious stage and i was always stuck at home watching my brothers...i only had sex with one guy until i meet my bf of 3 years...i dont know what i was thinking, but i think that if something were meant to be, like a baby, god would do it. im thankful that i never got pregnant and looking at these immature girls on the maury show that want a baby, kills me. im am 18 now...8 months pregnant and live a well life. i couldnt imagine trying to get pregnant at that age because of the fact that i know what its like being 18 and pregnant. i can say that im old enough to choose for myself but nows the time where im dealing with knowing my rights and wrongs. it sux at times but now i dont regret my baby one bit. you have to have your head on straight in order to move forward and thats what a lot of young people dont understand. im glad that i am one that does. ↑ |
| Name: Anon-- | Date: Dec 29th, 2005 12:03 AM |
| Yup I'm agreeing with you ladies. Most of us lose our virginity young. I mean...that is almost the "normal" thing. But there is a difference of being smart and being stupid and immature. I guess some ppl just didn't have the proper guidance that others of us had when we were growing up. But what is meant to be is meant to be. /shrug ↑ |
| Name: Ashley | Date: Dec 29th, 2005 12:44 AM |
| i lost my virginity at 13 and my boyfriend was 21. Least he said he was boyfriend and he told me he loved me. I've always been a lonely girl (now 18 and happily have a loving boyfriend) And i was quick to belive anything from anybody. I remmeber the first day i lost it i was so excited but then as the days went by i kind of missed my innocence....even today there are times i wish i had saved myself for the man i have now. But we all mistakes we just have to deal with them the right way. (oh and by the way i told the cops on the 21 year old but then when i turned 15 i felt awful and had them drop the case but he still had to be on probation and was registered as a sex offender. which i still think was a good idea becuase he had told me when he made more money he wanted to go to school to be a middle school teacher *coughs* pedophile *coughs* ) ↑ |
| Name: Way to go!!! | Date: Dec 29th, 2005 6:51 PM |
| Way to go Ashley. I bet it was hard to do that at the time. Don't you feel better about it now? WOW! I give you alot of credit! Signs that you are a very strong women.... ↑ |
| Name: dan | Date: May 11th, 2006 8:41 AM |
| Name: amy | Date: May 11th, 2006 9:15 AM |
| i waited till i was 16 to have sex with my boyfriend he didnt push me because he was a virgin too we used a condom but as it says on the packet 99% safe i got pregnant just as i was starting college (im from the uk) i left college but going back in september to enrol again that gives me time to spend with my daughter who is due in june i agree on this post because these 13 year olds have sex and then come running to people who they dont no i wouldnt give abuse to them though like some woman on here do but these 13 yr old should be talking to a parent or guardian not us this site is really good for its surport from mums to be and moms i love coming on this site but when theres people slagging teens off for getting pregnant well i think that there just as immature as what these little girls are! i just wish that this site was like it used to be and thats full of respect for any body who comes on here and at least give one bit of advice to these young girls ↑ |
| Name: peaches | Date: May 11th, 2006 2:53 PM |
| i waited til i was 17 to have sex. that's good huh? that's a long time. i was wantin my first time to be with my husband on my honeymoon but things didnt work out that way. :-/ hehe ↑ |
| Name: amy | Date: May 11th, 2006 3:29 PM |
| i wanted the same lol but then i got pregnant with the person who i love so much its brilliant starting a family so young im really proud of my self to tell you the truth the fact im mature enough to find somwhere to live and still be really happy not living with my mum iv kept my relationship strong with my fiancie and hes done the same were happy that were going to be a family ↑ |
| Name: 2 amy, 4rm peaches | Date: May 11th, 2006 3:46 PM |
| how is ur relationship with ur mom? ↑ |
| Name: John | Date: May 14th, 2006 4:39 PM |
| youn youn youn young young yougn ↑ |
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