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Name: I NEED HELP
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ok my name is laura and my bestfriend in the world was nerious cause she had sex with out a condom and then yesterday she was talkin about hittin herself in the stomach ....cause she doesnt want it...well today after school we went to walmart and she took a pregnancy test and it came back neg and i was jumping up and down...all happy cause were only 13 and im the smart one here for keepin my legs shut...and then she started crying cause she wanted the baby...and i told her to stop and realize that we couldnt handle it and now she is pissed off at me cause i disagree cause i kno for a fact that she couldnt take care of a baby.....and now shes all pissed...now and i said man ur crazy...what should i do?
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Name: mary | Date: May 9th, 2006 2:00 AM
Talk to her again and tell her that being a mom comes with lots of hard work. Being sexually active is a risk of getting pregnant and getting STDS. You girls are to young and should focus on school or what ever fun is. Boys like to get in your pants and brag to there friends and don't like to face there actions. Its best to wait untill you know what your getting into. Talk about going to get birth control pills or something to prevent pregnancy. 

Name: Jessica B. | Date: May 9th, 2006 2:19 AM
Yea ur right. I agree with mary but it happened to me before (laughing) I can rememember that I used to had huge crush on someone name louis. He was senior and I was in 8th grade that years but 2 years later. He asked me if I want to have sex with him and I said yea sure cuz I thought he was soo hottie and fine. He was this tall, blues eyes, brown hair and white. ( ooh I'm black) so we had sex at his apt without condom.....twice in a month. But I never did get pregant because when louis can feel his spream coming out so we have to stop have sex then he go to resturant and wash the spream off (cuz he hate wear the condom, so that's why.) But I found out that he moved to california I feel like I'm being used by him cuz he never did tell me that he was moving to california. I said to him " you should think twice before you ask me to have sex with u because I really liked you a lot and now I don't anyways" and he said " ooh I'm sorry but that's how I am" in my mind...screw him like there's saying there's lot of fishes in the sea (smile) well if u need a any advice about anything....please contact me by my e-mail is [email protected].
P.S. Make a RIGHT choice .....or GOOD LUCK.....(wink) 

Name: I NEED HELP | Date: May 11th, 2006 9:13 PM
yeah well i was talkin to her today and she said that shes gonna try again to have sex for the baby this coming weekend...wow shes crazy...is there anything i can do? 

Name: to i need help | Date: May 11th, 2006 9:14 PM
TELL HER PARENTS!!!! 

Name: Baby2 | Date: May 11th, 2006 9:17 PM
I agree, tell her parents. She is to young to have a baby. 

Name: I NEED HELP | Date: May 11th, 2006 9:21 PM
man, i dont want her to hate me cause she can hold a grudge!! 


Name: Baby2 | Date: May 11th, 2006 9:21 PM
She can either hold a grudge against you or hold a baby for the rest of her life.... What do you think is best for your friend?? 

Name: Baby2 | Date: May 11th, 2006 9:24 PM
That came out wrong. I think you need to talk to your friend and just tell her that you are just looking out for her and if you have to do the right thing for her you will, like tell her parents. It nuts to have a baby so young. Enjoy your youth!! 

Name: I NEED HELP | Date: May 11th, 2006 9:25 PM
well she is being a major b**** and i dont care if she is pissed at me already and i have told her a million times not to do it well i dont care right now...if she gets pregnant..shes not usin my money for the test...and her parents are rich...she can mess up the rest of her life...i really dont care... 

Name: to I need help | Date: May 11th, 2006 9:30 PM
At least you warned your friend and she can't say she had no one to tell her what she was doing is wrong. Some people like to learn the hard way. You do care and she will realize what a good friend you were when she neededs you. 

Name: Baby2 | Date: May 11th, 2006 9:30 PM
Don't be mad at her when you talk to her. Tell her your just looking out for her. A baby is a big commitment and I don't think that she realizes that her adolescents will be over. She won't have a social life, she will have a baby. 

Name: I NEED HELP | Date: May 11th, 2006 9:31 PM
mkay ill talk to her more..thank u 

Name: to i need help | Date: May 16th, 2006 4:33 AM
you r a good best friend. i wish i had had 1 like u! 

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