| are you guys together? does he have a job? theres not really a way TO make them, hes the dad, he doesnt even have to be there..most arent. but if yours is and you guys are together, talk to him about it. tell him how you feel and that its expensive and you cant do it on your own. if yall arent together, and hes not around then i dont see what difference it would make. the only thing is that if he is around...talk to him. you cant make someone spend on the baby but tell them how you feel ↑ |
| Take him to court if you arn't together don't let him skip out on his responsibilities. ↑ |
| Also when you are shopping for these big ticket items remeber to stay within a budget...ask around for peopel w ho recently had babies, and check out children's shops like once upon a child...for my son we bought this package from wal-mart called " nursery in a box" made by simplicity it includes the crib, changing table, and chest...it is really nice made of solid wood, and it only cost 199.99....the great part about it is wal-mart has layaway.....so if he doesn't "want" to help you, help your self and then just take him out for child support. ↑ |
| take him for child support. but first talk to him tell him how you feel and let him know you did not get pregnant on your on. if you want you can write to me on my topic am i having twins ↑ |
