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i know i know. ive heard that you cant. But i recently got pregnant and i dont know what to do. my bf and i have been having sex for the longest but we broke up about 3 months back and i was with another guy. my bf keeps pressuring me asking if the guy had relesed sperm...i told him no, but he did, but only the oral sex way. now im confused...help please ↓
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| Name: Pam | Date: Aug 4th, 2005 3:11 PM |
| Like Amanda said no. If u did not have sex with this other guy then its not his. Its ur ex's. ↑ |
| Name: trish | Date: Aug 4th, 2005 4:41 PM |
| lol..i know amanda, but pam, i did have sex with this other guy, but he didnt release sperm when we were having sex. we used protection though. i guess i shouldnt worry too much about it, its just that it all happened in the same month. ↑ |
| Name: Brandye | Date: Aug 5th, 2005 12:49 AM |
| What kind of protection did you and the other guy use? ↑ |
| Name: trish | Date: Aug 5th, 2005 1:07 AM |
| we used condoms, what do you mean what kind of protection? ↑ |
| Name: Sara | Date: Aug 5th, 2005 6:38 PM |
OK- do you know how far along you are? When was the last time you were with your ex? If they were not around the same time you will just have to use a timeline kind of way? Another question? Did you have intercourse with the other guy? If you did, then you will have to consider him also. Only because he doesn't think he released any sperm is a bunch of crap. You can leak sperm and not even know it. If you used a condom then your chances are a little lower..
Good luck. ↑ |
| Name: 3timemom | Date: Aug 8th, 2005 2:27 AM |
| trish...if you say he didnt release sperm...you mean cum right? even before a guy "releases sprem" aka his orgasm small amounts of sperm are released during intercourse. so if at anytime..his penis was near or in your vagina....then it is possible he made you prego...men release the most sprem during an orgasm, but small amounts are relaesed through intercourse ↑ |
| Name: tiffany | Date: Aug 10th, 2005 2:40 AM |
| U Need 2 B 4 Real. U Know Damn Well U Cant Get Pregnant By Giving Oral Sex. U Need 2 Find Out Who U Had Sex With And When. Good Luck. ↑ |
| Name: Jen | Date: Aug 11th, 2005 9:00 PM |
| did you actually have sex with the other guy? or just oral? you can't get pregnant from oral sex. It's impossible. If it was just oral, no way it's the other guy's ↑ |
| Name: jony | Date: Aug 22nd, 2005 5:24 PM |
| goooood luck............. ↑ |
| Name: Yuli | Date: Aug 23rd, 2005 3:35 AM |
Hi Trish,
Do you know your menstrual cycle? If u know good!. first you must check whenis the last time you have sex with your ex B/F! and 2nd yourI agree with 3timemom. Good luck girl please check and find out!. ↑ |
| Name: lalala | Date: Aug 31st, 2005 10:26 AM |
| why i been tring to have baby for 1year and i cant get pregant????why i mean whe dont use condoms or nothing"" but where teend is that why ↑ |
| Name: em | Date: Aug 31st, 2005 10:28 AM |
| if i get pregant how long does it take do u need to leave th spream to get pregant???????/??????????????? ↑ |
| Name: texas mom | Date: Aug 31st, 2005 1:41 PM |
trish...listen and think about who you were with...even if you used a condom at the end, you could still have become preg. if he was in you, unprotected for any amount of time...good luck
em...no, you don't have to keep the sperm in...what's in there is what will be needed to get the job done...good luck to all of you! ↑ |
| Name: trish | Date: Aug 31st, 2005 4:21 PM |
| ok, this is how it is....the other guy that i was with (not my bf) i was with him about mid-may but the sonogram and doctors say i concieved may 7th...but in mid-may after me and the other guy messed around, i started to bleed. but not normaly. so....thats what confuses me.... ↑ |
| Name: texas chic | Date: Aug 31st, 2005 7:33 PM |
| conception can occur up to 5 days after intercourse/penetration, b/c the sperm can live that long, amazing huh? sounds like it's your b/f's...good luck to you...oh, some women continue to bleed throughout their pregnancies, always check w/your ob to make sure the cervical plug is still intact! best of luck to you again! ↑ |
| Name: ninalitta | Date: Sep 3rd, 2005 4:48 AM |
| If you are asking that question you should not be having sex. ↑ |
| Name: trish | Date: Sep 3rd, 2005 4:55 PM |
| first off ninalitta, i was being serious. its not exactly the whole situation if you were to read the page. and for the texas chic....i have not yet seen a doctor. i am 3 1/2 months pregnant and what do you mean the cervical plug is still intact? trust me, it was insurance reasons, but now im insured and i have to make the app. soon. im confused. me and my bf do it almost everyday, so is that what you mean by intact, could something happen as a result to that? ↑ |
| Name: trish | Date: Sep 3rd, 2005 5:03 PM |
| oh, and are the doctors always right about when you concieved even if your not sure when your last period was? i mean, they told me i was 12 weeks at the time and my baby had a spine so it had to be at least tweleve weeks but how do they know that? ↑ |
| Name: Shonice James | Date: Sep 20th, 2005 1:15 PM |
| What if you were on the depo shot for about two years ,and just got off it about one year ,and haven't had a reg peiod yet ,and tring to get pregant. ↑ |
| Name: Shonice James | Date: Sep 20th, 2005 1:18 PM |
| depo shot for about two years ,and just got off it about one year ,and haven't had a reg peiod yet ,and tring to get pregant. ↑ |
| Name: Sara D. | Date: Sep 20th, 2005 8:17 PM |
Hey Trish---so, I was reading up on your situation and I was wondering?? So, you were both of these guys in the month of May and that is the month that you conceived this baby? Do I have this right? If that is the case--The only REALY way to figure out who the daddy is, is to have the baby tested after it is born. Really, the Dr can do all kinds of measuring when you get your ultrasound and they can give you dates, but if the two guys were within a week or so of each other, There is really no way to figure out what exact day you conceieved only because all pregnancy progress differently and just because your baby is "big or little" for the gestational age it is supposed to be really doesn't mean much. I have a couple of ultrasounds while pregnant and the dates change from month to month really! Only because some babies are bigger than others, so they ould look like they will be due warlier?
I don't know if any of this makes sense to you, but, if I were you, I would just have it all checked out in the end...
Good luck dear... ↑ |
| Name: Jacqui | Date: Sep 21st, 2005 4:32 AM |
Um, even if your partner dripped a little "precum" in or near your vagina, there is a chance sperm can get into your vagina/cervix & make it's way to your egg & you could get pregnant. Not likely, but it could happen. There is NO chance of getting pregnant from someone ejaculating in your mouth.
How far along are you? Some women continue to have 1 or even 2 "periods" once they are pregnant. Maybe you are pregnant from that partner of 3 months ago?
But, There is NO chance of getting pregnant from someone ejaculating in your mouth. ↑ |
| Name: shyme | Date: Sep 27th, 2005 9:31 AM |
| i cant get pregant why i have sex evey day i dont know was going on????? yes am a teen and hes teen hes 16 am 17 why cant i get pregant ??""? tooo much sex or i cant have babys?"?"? plese someone help me out ↑ |
| Name: Steph | Date: Sep 27th, 2005 5:18 PM |
| Well i guess know of yall know nothing because I did! ↑ |
| Name: Sara D. | Date: Sep 28th, 2005 12:30 AM |
| Steph..I am kinda confused about what you said? I don;t understand what you are talking about? ↑ |
| Name: phillygirl513 | Date: Oct 12th, 2005 2:48 PM |
| me and boyfriend are trying to get pregnant for 2 years and its just not happening 4 us . i'm 22years and he 20 years ↑ |
| Name: phillygirl513 | Date: Oct 12th, 2005 2:49 PM |
| why cant i get pregnant we have sex like everyday ↑ |
| Name: ONI | Date: Oct 12th, 2005 10:25 PM |
| @ Philly girl...it could be stress, you should just relax and try to stop focusing on becoming pregnant...also sometime preparing your body for pregnancy helps...for example taking folic acid ( to prevent neural tube defects) , and cutting down on diet, and exercise will help also.....also see if your OB will give you some prenates, or get some good over the counter vitamins. ↑ |
| Name: Sara D. | Date: Oct 13th, 2005 12:30 AM |
Phillygirl513---I was just thinking about your situation... I was wondering...In reality how often are you guys having sex really? The only reason I ask is because if you want the maximum amount of sperm, you have to wait 2 to 3 days in between. I only know this because I have working in a hosp lab for 4 years. When the men have to come in and give a sample we always have to tell them that there is no ejaculation for 3 days. That is because you have to let the sperm to re-charge so to say! Other than that I really don't know what to tell you. Maybe DON'T STRESS...it NEVER fails, when people stop trying---they get pregnant! The stress really puts alot on you!
Good luck dear! :) ↑ |
| Name: shay | Date: Oct 17th, 2005 9:11 PM |
| when is the best to get pregnant ↑ |
| Name: Sara D. | Date: Oct 18th, 2005 8:27 PM |
| Shay---what do you mean? when is the best time? Time of year? Age? Don't really know where you are going with that question? ↑ |
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