Remember that everything to do with pregnancy is a struggle. Getting pregnant is a struggle, staying pregnant is a struggle, giving birth is a struggle. Obviously you have no fertility issues as you already have a baby. Sometimes trying for a second is much more difficult, even if you found getting pregnant the first time relatively easy. I'm 10-weeks pregnant with my first baby, and similar to you for over a year we were having unprotected sex, I'd tried charting my temps, cervical discharge etc and still my period relentlessly came every month. Then in October my beloved dog died of heart failure, and I decided to stop trying so that I could grieve. And due to my depression my fiancé and I weren't even making love very often at all. Maybe twice a month! Regardless, in December I fell pregnant, and so far all is well. I know this might sound odd, but sometimes pregnancy can be achieved by not trying! Instead by relaxing, and not stressing over figures and temperatures ... You will get pregnant. It's just taking longer than you thought. Good luck! ↑ |
tnx you guys. the funny bit is we enjy sex maybe a little to much i talking every dy sometime a couple times a day lol sorry if that was a bit to graghic. but i guess i'm making it hard on my self latley as 4 friends are pregs. but i try the not thinking about it if i can and see how it goes. ↑ |