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im 17 and i just found out im pregnant. i told my boyfriend and he started acting like a jerk. hes been treating me like a peice of shit. i want to keep the baby but he said no and is forcing me to get an abortion. idk what to do. i love my boyfriend soo much but i dont want to kill my baby. ↓
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| Name: roseywosey | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 5:41 AM |
uhh.. i went through this EXACT same thing.. think of it this way.. if he makes you get an abortion.. will be you able to stay with him knowing he forced you into something you really didnt want to do anyways? i know i couldnt.. so i kept my baby. i knew if i lost my baby due to him forcing me to abort.. i was going to loose him too. and i didnt wanna loose both !
Give him some time to think it over.. sometimes thats all guys need is to get there head around it. My boyfriend got his head around the fact hes going to be a dad because i gave him lots of time to think.. and now hes fine with it. ↑ |
| Name: roseywosey | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 5:44 AM |
guys seem to think that when you get an abortion.. thats it.. life goes on.. but its so much more than that. its emotionally and mentally difficult to deal with.. and you could spend the rest of your life regretting it. Guys come and go.. your children stay. ( not all guys come and go tho )
Anyways goodluck..
i know how ur feeling.. i went through this problem myself.. ↑ |
| Name: imsoconfused | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 5:48 AM |
| i know. but hes been such an asswhole. saying some really hurtful thing. being an complete dick. he has broken my heart soo many time and i keep taking him back. and im think of just ending it because i dont want to get hurt agian. but its soo hard cuz or the situation im in. ↑ |
| Name: Coartney | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 5:53 AM |
| Name: roseywosey | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 5:54 AM |
Just tell him you are going to let him think about it.. give him 2 weeks max.. if he still hasnt changed his mind by then.. then tell him its over. for 1 he isnt even considering your feelings.. if he wasnt responsible enough to use protection then its not just your fault. you didnt get on top of yourself to get pregnant did you? i doubt it.. it takes 2 to tango.. so its his fault too. if hes broken your heart so many times.. what makes you think things will change after you get an abortion? if you abort this baby.. chances are you are going to not only loose a part of you ( the baby ) but you are also going to loose him too.
No guy is worth your tears. guys can be such jerks sometimes.. and they will say anything mean and hurtful to get you to do what they want.. DONT STAND FOR IT! simple. ↑ |
| Name: roseywosey | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 5:55 AM |
| oh god.. its not this banging chick is it.. ? ↑ |
| Name: Coartney | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 5:56 AM |
| Name: imsoconfused | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 5:57 AM |
| thanks... do u have any advice on how i should tell my mom? ↑ |
| Name: imsoconfused | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 5:59 AM |
| Coartney what are you talking about? does it sound like im bragging? i asked for advice on my situation. im not bragging about anything ↑ |
| Name: roseywosey | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 5:59 AM |
| lol nah i dont think it is coartney. she thought i meant Bragging.. no banging hahah. ↑ |
| Name: roseywosey | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 6:00 AM |
| Name: Coartney | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 6:00 AM |
| you dont think so rosey? read the other posts, they just all happen to be 17 jut found out or arent sure and now two posts about abortion and boyfriends not wanting it? come on now. ↑ |
| Name: imsoconfused | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 6:02 AM |
| WOW. how about im new to this site. i just signed up like 20min ago. i came here for advice not to be accused of things i didnt do or say. ↑ |
| Name: Kyra | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 6:08 AM |
hey 'imsoconfused' Don't mind the harsh attitudes--I'm not sure why somepeople are forever so skeptical--we're not all mean on here!
My advice on the baby vs. BF is go with your feelings. Sounds to me like you woold do the best you can to raise this baby which is 100% more important than a BF that seems to come and go. ↑ |
| Name: Coartney | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 7:57 AM |
| Name: roseywosey | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 8:36 AM |
| Name: Emma | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 2:24 PM |
| In singles you say you are 16 ??? ↑ |
| Name: imsoconfused | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 4:35 PM |
| sorry about that i just turned 17 like 3 weeks ago soo i still havent gotten use to say im 17..lol... Does any one have any advice on how i should tell my mother and what to say? ↑ |
| Name: Marti | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 6:54 PM |
| Just sit your mom down and tell her the truth. ↑ |
| Name: imsoconfused | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 7:03 PM |
| um cuz on a different forum someone said "oh look its the bragging chick again". thats y.. soo ya beat. ↑ |
| Name: question | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 7:05 PM |
| oh you wanna argue?go for it.we like stupid people coming on this site when we're bored. ↑ |
| Name: question | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 7:06 PM |
| oh by the way,its one of those days,Im bored as hell..... bring it on.... ↑ |
| Name: Coartney | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 7:06 PM |
| they said BANGIN chick not bragging. illiterates ↑ |
| Name: imsoconfused | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 7:06 PM |
| no ones arguing im just correcting you hunni. so like a said ya beat. ↑ |
| Name: Coartney | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 7:11 PM |
| haha im illiterate yet im not saying "tryna" "needa" and well in YOUR other post, it was said as bragging again, so sorry if i didnt know ANOTHER post of YOURS existed. ↑ |
| Name: Coartney | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 7:13 PM |
| no wonder we all like you so much :) ↑ |
| Name: question | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 7:14 PM |
Name: roseywosey • Date: 04/14/2007 01:55:16
oh god.. its not this banging chick is it.. ?
Name: imsoconfused • Date: 04/14/2007 01:59:06
Coartney what are you talking about? does it sound like im bragging? i asked for advice on my situation. im not bragging about anything
you're an illiterate bitch,not me.At least I can differentiate between bragging and banging....lmffao hahahah hehehe ↑ |
| Name: question | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 7:25 PM |
| btw just wanted to mention the fact that your name suits you.... ↑ |
| Name: Lola | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 9:53 PM |
Hey imsoconfused.
Men can really lose the plot when it comes to a child growing inside of their girl!
My advice is to keep the baby...at least 'til birth. You can always adopt.
I know it's hard...but ditch your bloke. I, myself can't pluck the courage to get rid of my fella because I'm scared of life without him.
But you will be so much better off. All you need is support from friends and family :) ↑ |
| Name: zoey9810 | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 10:08 PM |
| no one can force you to do any thing, except you! ↑ |
| Name: NIKKIS | Date: Apr 14th, 2007 10:58 PM |
| i just want to say fake or no fake, i have been forced to have an abortion. i regret it everyday. it was something i didnt want to do, and i let him make me do it for him. he is mentally controlling you if you allow him to make you have an abortion. thats unhealthy. leave him keep your baby and run as far away as possible. ↑ |
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