hiya i was raped nine months ago . i fell prrgnant i know that the dad is the rapist cos i was virgin . i decided to keep the lil one cos it wasnt her fault that her dads rapist is it ? so i told my mum and dad that i was pregnant but couldnt bear to tell anyone how she was made so every thinks that it was a one night stand . all through the pregnancy i was fine i loved her pieces and would have died for her ! but on the 4th may at 1:47am i gave birth to a little girl by c-section she wieghed 6 pounds 7 ounces and was 17 inches long as soon i held her all i felt was sudden rush of hate and ever since then i have thought about hurting her? (i dont wanna) and taking my own life . i cant talk to any one about it cos no one knows i was raped . all my mates no longer talk to as they think i am a slag . i have to leave school and fail all my dreanms off becoming a vet i feel so scared and lonely if theres any one who have a baby or are pregnant with a baby concieved by rape please add me [email protected]
or my normall email is
[email protected] though it would also be nice to talk to any other teens mums
thanx
angelwings
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| Name: SORRY | Date: May 9th, 2006 3:39 PM |
Honey, You are 14 years old, hasn't your mom or dad asked you who the father was? You need to tell them.
I was raped when I was 15, it did not result in a pregnancy thank god. You need to find someone to talk to before you do something that you may regret for the rest of your life. Best wishes to you and your baby girl.... Hugs..... ↑ |
| Name: James | Date: May 9th, 2006 3:41 PM |
| The best thing to do is speak to a Doctor and they will refer you to a counceller if nescessary. ↑ |
| Name: angelwings | Date: May 9th, 2006 4:29 PM |
| yer i told them that the father was sum boy from school ↑ |
| Name: SORRY | Date: May 9th, 2006 5:31 PM |
| Do you think that your parents wouldn't understand? This guy did something wrong not you! I really really am proud of you for having the baby. Something that most people couldn't do. ↑ |
| Name: Friend | Date: May 9th, 2006 7:09 PM |
Hun... I have never been in your situation, but I would just like to offer my support to you during this difficult time. Would you consider giving your precious little girl up for adoption? It would give you some time to work through all these feelings of hatred, hurt, confusion, etc. that you are having and still be a part of your little girl's life.
My husband and I are hoping to adopt and we would love you and your daughter unconditionally and whenever you were ready, you could see and be a part of your daughter's life again.
You should consider counselling, maybe, to help you work through these feelings. Or you can chat with me anytime... Whatever you decide to do, consider yourself a wonderful Mommy already for giving your daughter the gift of life! That was the greatest thing you could have done for her!
My best to you... if you ever want to chat, just let me know! ↑ |
| Name: angelwings | Date: May 10th, 2006 5:22 PM |
to friend ,
i haven't even thought about ,but i will definately consider it have u got a email address or anything that i can contact you on ↑ |
| Name: kristin | Date: May 10th, 2006 6:04 PM |
| You need to make sure your baby is in a safe situation. If you are thinking of hurting her you really need to get help and fast. If your parents arent listening, call a hospital, a counselor, the police..anyone. ↑ |
| Name: Friend | Date: May 10th, 2006 7:20 PM |
Dear Angelwings,
My email address is [email protected]
I would love to talk with you about the possibility of open adoption... you would be able to be a big part of your daughter's life, no matter what!
I will look forward to hearing from you! ↑ |
| Name: angelwings | Date: May 10th, 2006 7:28 PM |
| OMG HELP HE NOS ABOUT SAVANNAH WAT AM I GONNA DO WAT IF HE WANTS TO C HER ↑ |
| Name: Friend | Date: May 10th, 2006 7:45 PM |
Hey, hon! Don't panic! How did he find out about the baby? Does he know she is his?
If he starts causing you trouble, then i would suggest, as hard as it is, you need to come clean, because as a rapist, he will have no rights to the baby! ↑ |
| Name: angelwings | Date: May 10th, 2006 7:50 PM |
| Name: FRIEND | Date: May 10th, 2006 7:57 PM |
| HONEY IF YOU DONT WANT HIM NEAR HER CALL THE POLICE AND TELL THEM WHO HE IS AND WHAT HE DID AND TELL YOUR PARENTS THEY CAN HELP YOU. DONT DO THIS ON YOUR OWN. IF YOU DO IT NOW HE WOULDN'T HAVE TIME TO COME NEAR HER OR YOU FOR THAT MATTER. ↑ |
| Name: Friend | Date: May 10th, 2006 7:58 PM |
I understand...
Has he contacted you? Just tell him the baby isn't his. If he pushes it, tell him you WILL press charges if he continues, even though you don't plan to. Is he dangerous? ↑ |
| Name: I know how you feel... | Date: May 10th, 2006 7:59 PM |
angelwings,
I kind of know where you are coming from. If you need to talk , feel free to email me at [email protected]
Good Luck!!
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