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did any of you have to beg your husband to have another baby just wondering. I have three but a want 1 more have been talking to husband about it for about 6 months but he says no.Just wanted to know if anyone went through this ↓
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| Name: mother2five | Date: Apr 6th, 2007 5:08 PM |
| awww, I'm sry things aren't going your way. That always sucks in my book. Why doesn't he want anymore? Why do you want more? Just curious? I have 5 and I love it, I'm having the time of my life, i love to jum right in the middle and be a kid w/ them! ↑ |
| Name: junebug | Date: Apr 6th, 2007 5:31 PM |
| i have always wanted 4 i have 2 girls and 1 boy want to try for another boy he just says 3 is enough ↑ |
| Name: mother2five | Date: Apr 6th, 2007 5:34 PM |
| Name: Coartney | Date: Apr 6th, 2007 6:58 PM |
| me and my husband think 3 is too much haha we want two max, hell i want one lol ↑ |
| Name: Marti | Date: Apr 6th, 2007 7:09 PM |
| I want five but am an old fart (34) so will probably have two. I've got three dogs so that makes my magic number five. My husband WANTED a big family but now he's in the "we'll just see how we do with one phase"...So I may be in the talking into mode soon too junebug. ↑ |
| Name: Coartney | Date: Apr 6th, 2007 7:12 PM |
| funny thing i was talking about how my friends who just had kids are pregnant again and a couple from here, and i was like screw that, i ws like we're at least waiting til im 23-24 and this one is about 2-3. he was like oh are we? i was like we'll we're not waiting til im 30 thast for damn sure lol .. ↑ |
| Name: Marti | Date: Apr 6th, 2007 7:28 PM |
| Yeh I wish i had started earlier but didn't find the right boy til I was 30 :) But I've been surprised at how easy the pregnancy has been even though I think I am old old old. I thought I'd have way more problems. ↑ |
| Name: junebug | Date: Apr 6th, 2007 8:46 PM |
| see thats the thing i am getting old so if we are going to have another i want to now i'm only 30 but my oldest daughter is 11 and a half ↑ |
| Name: missheather | Date: Apr 6th, 2007 10:21 PM |
| I want 3 or 4 and my hubby wants more. I don't think he realizes how much work kids are! I work for a family that has 6 and I just love being there in the middle of a big family. ↑ |
| Name: A Mom To Be | Date: Apr 6th, 2007 11:43 PM |
| Junebug, I can see where your husband is coming from. We are ttc our first and my dh feels under so much pressure to be a responsible adult, he has even mentioned taking out life insurance. If you have another child it is more responsibility for him to make sure that he works hard and that things go well because if anything goes wrong it will be another mouth to feed. I want four children but I know that just one will stress him, but he said we can have three and I am okay with that... I just have to darn fall pregnant with the first one. Good luck, but talk to him about his reasons, they are legitimate too. ↑ |
| Name: junebug | Date: Apr 6th, 2007 11:56 PM |
| i understand him he's worried about paying for college for 4 kids that will be expense i understand completely ↑ |
| Name: Kristy84 | Date: Apr 7th, 2007 3:19 AM |
| Before I had my baby, I would think that you're crazy for wanting a 4th baby, but now I totally know where you're coming from. I just had my little girl on 12/14 and I so want another one...my fiance is up for it, but I have an IUD and honestly should wait at least another 6mths,. If you're in the position to do it, I say go ahead. I was an only child and I want a super large famiuly. If you asked me this a year ago, I would have told you that I'm never having kids...good luck!! ↑ |
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