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my name is lizzie and i am from england my family are realy well off very posh and very rich, we live in a massive house, bt i just found out that i am pregnant, im only 17, i dont want 2 hav an abortion bcoz 4 all i no this cud b my last chance!! and i dont believe in them bt if i keep this baby then i will shame my family what shall i do ↓
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| Name: just me | Date: May 4th, 2006 1:44 PM |
| Hi there...you kept talking about your family and how it will shame them...well that baby is now part of you and your family and killing it for any reason would shame it!! I have been there almost got an abortion and now realizing it would have been the worst decision ever. What does the father of the baby think? I wouldn't get an abortion...your family will eventually get over it and move on. They will show that baby love just like they showed you. That baby is your family now. Don't kill it ↑ |
| Name: "im to rich...poor me!" | Date: May 4th, 2006 3:39 PM |
| at least your modest :P ↑ |
| Name: amy | Date: May 4th, 2006 4:11 PM |
| its about you not your family im from england my family r total snobs but they cnt wait 4 my baby to arrive so dont worry think of your self and your baby not them im only 16 btw ↑ |
| Name: Stacy | Date: May 4th, 2006 5:50 PM |
There's no shame in being human... That said we all have made mistakes, no matter how we are raised.
You need to first have a heart to heart talk w/ the father find out what he thinks about everythin. Then you need to have a long talk with your parents, they might suprise you w/ their response.
In the end no matter what you do abort, keep, adopt, think about it long & hard prior to doing anything. You are the one who will have to live with your decision for the rest of your life. You need to do what's best for you & your situation. No one can tell you what's right, you will have to make that decision.
I'm sorry I don't have any of the answers, but you do, you just have to search or soul to find the answer.
Lots of luck, take care ↑ |
| Name: A | Date: May 5th, 2006 1:28 AM |
| Everyone here seems to be telling you to go ahead and have it, but you do have a choice. If you want an abortion, then get one. There are pros and cons in every situation, but I have known girls who have gotten an abortion and don't regret it. It's all in the mindset. Of course, many women will say it's murder, etc. but they're already mothers and looking at their decisions in hindsight. If you don't think you're ready, then don't have it. ↑ |
| Name: TO LIZZIE | Date: May 5th, 2006 2:07 PM |
| FIRST OF ALL, DONT LISTEN TO "A". IF UR WOMAN ENOUGH TO LAY DOWN AND MAKE THAT BABY THEN UR WOMAN ENOUGH TO HAVE IT. U MADE UR BED NOW LIE IN IT. DO NOT KILL UR BABY FOR UR OWN SELFISH REASONS. DONT WORRY ABOUT WHAT OTHER GURLS DO, WORRY ABOUT YASELF. AND WHEN U HAVE THAT BABY, THAT BABY WILL BE WITH U WHEN EVERY1 ELSE RUNS OUT ON U. THINK ABOUT WHAT UR DOIN. ↑ |
| Name: jalisa | Date: May 5th, 2006 2:12 PM |
| I'm 17 years old. when my family found out i was pregnant, they put me out the house. but now that my baby is here, i never felt so loved in my life. i dont regret it. i thought about abortion but i realized that it would be a pretty messed up thing to kill a human just because i dont feel like takin care of my responsibility. and it makes it even better when the father of your child is there for you. there's nothing better than mother and father moments. let me know what you decide ↑ |
| Name: To Lizzie | Date: May 5th, 2006 4:38 PM |
Lizzie,
Only you know what's best for you. Abortion, Adoption, or Keeping the baby.
Good luck ↑ |
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