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hi, i haven't found help yet, i've been in 6 hospitals and i've had my ed for 17 yrs now and i think it's either going to kill me, or not let me be able to have kids. i've had a lot of health problems becase of my ed and i just need help right now. encouragement. i seem to be able to offer encouragement to everyone else, but right noe i need it most. i'm getting over pneumonia, going on 4 weeks now, and i'm getting sick because i'm 'used to it'...not a good thing. i'm getting married next yera and we'd like kids, but my body is so screwed up. i'm very emotional right now and i'm crying right now. can someone, anyone, just please offer some encouraging words for me? i'm sorry for asking so much from people who feel like i do, i'm sorry. i jst am at a dead-end right now and i don't know what to do with myself... ↓
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| Name: lynn | Date: Nov 2nd, 2005 5:23 AM |
i don't know how to have replies sent to me on this site yet. i belonged to somethingfishy.org before they stopped accepting hotmail accts so...if you'd like to email me my email is [email protected].
thanks so much. i'm sorry tobe a bother to anyone who reads this... ↑ |
| Name: Christine | Date: Nov 18th, 2005 10:50 PM |
| umm im just a 13 yr girl........i dont know how to help you since i guess im kind of annorexic too. But I can say this you are probably really skinny and really pretty. Congratulations on getting married! ↑ |
| Name: Nat | Date: Nov 19th, 2005 4:42 AM |
| I have an eating disorder, but i don't know why. I'm not hte person I'm acting like i feel your pain cause I am not the type of person who would do ths, my sister is the first person i saw ......and I thaught it was so disgusting so why am I doing it? ↑ |
| Name: Klaire | Date: Nov 29th, 2005 4:56 PM |
| I am a recovering bulimic. It is a hard painful road but believe me it is possible! When it get tough you need to trun to your partner, that is how I have come so far, he has been my rock. You are getting married and he will love you whatever weight you are, and trust me your relationship will come alive when you put a bit of weight on. It isn't the end of the world! I am now bigger than I was when I first had my ED but my fiancee loves it !He is there to help you, don't push him away like I did at first, you will find it much less of a battle when you split it between two people! If you need to talk my e-mail address is [email protected] x ↑ |
| Name: Chelsey | Date: Dec 8th, 2005 9:55 PM |
| Hey, I am at one of those same dead ends. I'm mich younger than you, yet I know exactly how you feel. I wish there was some magic answer for us, but unfortunately there is not. I have been to doctor after doctor and nothing is heloing and my parents dont really understand. I know you feel aweful right now, and Im going to give you some advice and I hope I am not being hypcritical, but try and do some things to take your mind off of it, get your nails done, buy new shoes, look at pocketbooks, thats what I try to do and it sometimes works. And you have to try and start to think, is being thin really better than not having kids and is it worth the chance? I hope this helps in some way and if it doesnt i would just like you to now your are not alone and i am prob feeling just as bad as you, it is a horrible thing! ↑ |
| Name: Aathina | Date: Dec 17th, 2005 12:12 AM |
Lynn, Re:i'm 29 yrs old...
Im 41 yrs old had EDNOS, leans to bulimicanorexia. there won't be any help for me due to no resources$$$. I manage but if your over teenage its an even wrse thing. I wish you could email me but i'm sure its against the rules for me to leave my address. i'd like to share more, i have msn 4 isp. ↑ |
| Name: kelly tonna | Date: Jan 9th, 2007 10:50 AM |
I don't know if i have the right words but right now i wish i could hug you and tell you things will be ok becasue there is nothing more comfotring then a hug, a hug goes a long way!
i am a survivor of anorexia and it is a hard thing to beat and at times i still do struggle with it.
i am twenty six and have three beautiful children and it is seriously and honour, they drive me nuts but i wouldn't replace them for the world.
I would love for you to have children of your own it is a great gift, but first you need to help you and get your body healthy before concieving because the last thing you want is a miscarriage or a deformed baby so lets get you one track, first of all i am here anytime you want to write, i check my emails daily so if you are comftorble talking to me i wouldlove to hear from you.
Did somethng in particular start this for me i was bruitally gang rapped and had not spoken of any of it for fourteen years and i am just about to go through the last of my therapy which has been a long and hard journey and i am proud to say there is a light and if i can make it through there is hope for you!
Everyone is unique and needed and special in their own way and stop shaking your head because yes that includes you too! You will marry this man if he is worthy of you and you will have beautiful children together but first you WILL get throught this! how much do you weigh and have you spoken to your other half and when i mean speak that doesn't mean does her know what is happening becasue i am sure he does but you need to let your sheild down and poor your heart out to him you need to let him in on all your thoughts but also remember he may not always have the perfect response you are after because he is a male and unless gone through it will never fully understnad but he can be there for you to hold you and just let you cry on his shoulder! i know crying really hurts and we spend more time trying to hold it back but if you let it out, admitt it and face your feelings it helps, my first question is do you feel loved? i didn't ask if you know weather he loves you but do you feel it inside? do you accept the compliments he gives you and feel them or do you hear them and think what ever and they go in one ear and out the other?
You asked for words of encouragement ok, you can get better which is the fantastic thing, you can live a happy healthy and life with kids "your life is like a blank canvas, but only you can paint it" the downside is it does take alot of hard work to get there.
Do you realise what caused this or when it started? try and think back and let me know and i will try my best to help, everyones situation is different so the more i have to go on the more i can try and help, chin up and think of the beautiful children you will be creating once your life, mind and body are back on track, take time to appreciate the little things, the air you breath the fact you can see and walk and smell the small miracles that you have and forget about but take for granted everyday, cherish the good times but most of all learn to cherish yourself and others will cherish you for it.
Take care, god bless love Kelly ↑ |
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